European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 7, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday february 7, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i am coming to the end of a five year prison sentence in a state correctional facility. I need to know How to Deal with society after my release. It seems that there should be some kind of counselling in prison to prepare people like me for the outside. Some inmates i know who have been in prison for a Long time Are actually afraid to leave because they done to think fit in out there. Almost 90 percent of these prisoners end up coming Back mainly because they were not prepared to face the outside world. If you can be of any help to people like me it will be greatly appreciated by the thousands of inmates who Are struggling with this same problem. F.c., Cranston . Dear . You Are not alone. In be dealt with this problem in my column before. There is a self help group for sex offenders that can answer your questions and give you More guidance on living on the outside. It can also refer you to local groups around the country that offer Job training and placement As Well As counselling. For More information Send a self addressed stamped envelope to the Fortune society 39 w. 19th st., new York . 10011. Its members do an excellent Job. Dear Ann Landers several months ago you wrote about the a seat Belt it goes like this every time your child reminds someone to buckle up the seat Belt by saying a Are you forgetting something a he gets a Point. After 10 Points he gets a s crossword dear Abby dear Abby i was gang raped 20 years ago i remember the Day time faces and every detail of what happened on that horrible Day As though it were yesterday. Justice was never served because a police official was too afraid of the gang involved. I blocked All this out of my mind until my daughter who is now 14, confided in me that when she was 6 years old a teen age neighbor Guy who baby sat for her made her do terrible things to him then threatened to do bodily harm to her father and me if she told anyone. Now i recall that she had horrible nightmares for the longest time but i never knew Why. Both my daughter and i plan to get counselling soon. Is it too late to make the feeling that i am dirty and cheap go away and is it too late for my daughter to make the Guy who molested her face up to his crime nightmares in the Midwest dear nightmares no. The Healing process begins when the victim and both you and your daughter Are victims confronts the our 10-year-old daughter loved that game and whenever we got into the car she would say a Are you forgetting something a about a month ago we were taking a Short trip when a Man ran a Stop Light and hit our car broadside sending our minivan spinning on its Side before flipping upside Down. My husband and i were literally suspended in the air hanging by our seat belts. We were shaken up a bit but sustained Only minor cuts and bruises. Our two children however were not so Lucky. It seems that after playing the Little game they had unhooked their seat belts to a fun our son suffered serious cuts on his leg and ankle. Our daughter was thrown from the Van and had a fractured Pelvis. The car was totally demolished. Its a Miracle that no one was killed. I am absolutely certain that my husband and i would not have had our seat belts on if it had t been for the Little game our daughter read about in your column. You can be sure that no one will Ever ride in our car again without a locked seat Belt. Never. I am convinced that your column saved our lives. E.w., Silsbee Texas dear Texas by now i am certain that you have explained to your children they must never unlock their seat belts until they have reached their destination. That Accident was the perfect lesson and they must never forget it. Thanks for letting me know my column was helpful. This is what its All about. Letters to Ann Landers May be addressed in care of the stars and stripes. Unit 29480, Apo a 09211, and they will be forwarded to her. C creators Syndicate guilty parties. The City you mentioned has an excellent rape crisis Center. It is listed in your Telephone Book. Call them. Laws vary in different states. The Center will know if there is a statute of limitations on the crime of rape and or child abuse or molestation. Dear Abby i recently moved to a new neighbourhood and started to patronize a new Beauty parlor. The Guy who does my hair there gives me a lot of extra attention. I would really like to know this Guy better but i done to want to appear too Forward. How can i get him to ask to see me outside of the shop he lives with his Mother. Got a crush dear got a crush done to Rush. Perhaps he a just the Friendly Type. If he wants to see you outside the shop he will make the first move. If he does no to make any kind of move done to get your Hopes up. He May be totally committed to taking care of his Mother. And its possible that he is seeing someone else. 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