European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 14, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday february 14, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 19 at Ann Landers dear Ann Landers last Valentines Day you printed 12 rules for a Happy marriage. My husband and i married Only two years had been having some trouble. I sat him Down with that column and we both agreed that we would do our level Best to follow your guidelines. _ what a terrific move that was. We be been getting along 100 percent better now that each of us knows what is expected of us. Please run that column again for the couples who did no to see it last year and for those who need to see it again. Jay and i agree that it had a lot to do with saving our marriage. Tee and Jay dear tee and Jay thank you for asking. Your letter was a Lovely Valentine for me. Here it is 12 rules for a Happy marriage 1. Never both be angry at once. 2. Never yell at each other unless the House is on fire. 3. Yield to the wishes of the other As an exercise in self discipline if you can to think of a better reason. 4. If you have a Choice Between making yourself or your mate look Good choose your mate. 5. If you feel you must criticize do so lovingly. 6. Never bring up a mistake of the past. Your silence will be greatly s crossword dear Abby dear readers Here it is St. Valentines Day again. Some years ago when i was less savvy about equal rights for women i unabashedly wrote a St. Valentines column on a How to keep your Man i called it the ten commandments for women a and soon it was followed by a ten commandments for men. Then an Early feminist Mandy Stillman of Milwaukee wrote demanding Equality for the sexes and insisting that there should be Only one set of commandments for both genders. Well she won a and Here they Are ten commandments for a successful marriage 1. Put your mate before your Mother your father your son and your daughter for your mate is your lifelong companion. 2. Do not abuse your body with excessive food tobacco or drink so that your life May be Long and healthy in the presence of those you love. 3. Do not permit your business or your Hobby to make you a stranger to your children for the most precious gift a Parent can give his or her family is time. 4. Do not forget that cleanliness is a virtue. 5. Do not make your mate a beggar but willingly share with him or her your worldly goods. 7. Neglect the whole world rather than each other. 8. Never let the Day end without saying at least one complimentary thing to your life a partner. 9. Never meet without an affectionate greeting. 10. When you be said or done something hurtful acknowledge it and ask for forgiveness. It. Remember it takes two to get an argument going. Invariably the one who is wrong is the one who will be doing most of the talking. 12. Never go to bed mad. Dear Ann Landers i have read with interest the letters in your column from Lovely intelligent High class women who have never had a Date and cannot seem to attract a Man. One came from a 35-year-old Virgin in California. The solution to her problem is so obvious i cannot for the life of me understand Why she does no to see it. Please give her this message move the hell out of California woman. The Only thing the men out there Are interested in is Bikini Clad bimbos. There Are herds of Wanna be starlets running around All Over the place eager willing and ready to do anything for a part in a film. A decent woman does no to stand a Chance. Get thee to Alaska Montana Wyoming Idaho Arizona or new Mexico. Its your Only Hope. Fled . And now Happy in Santa be dear Happy Here a your letter. In a glad this solution worked for you. C creators Syndicate 6. Remember to say a i love for even though your love May be constant your mate yearns to hear those words. 7. Remember always that the approval of your mate is Worth More than the admiring glances of a Hundred strangers so remain faithful and Loyal to your mate and forsake All others. 8. Keep your Home in Good repair for out of it come the Joys of old age. 9. Forgive with Grace. For who among us docs not need to be forgiven 10. Honor the lord your god All the Days of your life and your children will grow up and bless you. Dear Abby i am in my late 60s and have medical problems that dictate that i move on to whatever follows life in the Vei near future. But this letter is not a letter of sorrow. It is a Celebration of life and All that it offers to us. When i Check out of this world whoever takes my place had better do it right. It has been a darn Good place and i done to want it fouled up. That does no to mean not making mistakes. I have done a lot of things right in my life but i probably did a lot More things wrong. I done to regret any of them in be Learned a lot from my mistakes. 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