European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - March 13, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday March 13, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i would just love to have the last word regarding a stuck at the cleaners a who complained because women can a Wear anything to the office but men must Wear neckties and suits. If the Guy wants to look like a fishing guide Why did he choose a career that demands proper dress there seems to be a tendency for this generation of males to dress Down. Are they trying to look Macho by wearing jeans and Cowboy boots when they have never been outside the City limits Ever since television showed doctors dressed in scrubs and basketball shoes half the Young doctors in any health facility look like slobs. I for one am not impressed by Unshon be whiskered Young jerks who look As if they just came off the gym floor. If these doctors did not Wear stethoscopes it would be impossible to tic Linguish them from the maintenance Crew. For hundreds of years the military has known that appropriate dress adds a great Deal to self esteem and that this is reflected in performance. There May be a few geniuses around whose achievements have earned them so much respect that they can Wear whatever they want to but i know of no men in my place of employment who have reached that Pinnacle. Robbin from Illinois dear Robbin our society has become much More Laid Back in re today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby please help. I done to know How to handle this situation. My daughter is a freshman at a midwestern coed College. She was assigned to a coed floor in a dormitory with 11 girls and 64 boys. The first week of school a girl she knows who lives across Campus was raped in her dorm room. Campus police were notified. The boy admitted the rape. His a a punishment he was moved out of the victims dorm across Campus and onto my daughters coed floor i am outraged. I definitely want to do something but my daughter and her Roommate Are upset because they feel my involvement would Label them and the boys friends would harass them. The Roommate wont Tell her parents because she is afraid her parents will make her move Back Home. Concerned Mother dear concerned it is unfortunate that the local police were not notified immediately. If the Young Man admitted to the rape he should have been expelled. And if your daughter is afraid to speak up because of possible harassment you should Contact the president of the University and request a cent years and casual clothes Are now acceptable in a great Many places where formerly they were not. Dear Ann Landers. I am a Well educated Young woman with the Lovely name  i do not wish to be called  recently while working at a fund Raiser a Man approached me to make Small talk. Although my name tag clearly said a Patricia a he insisted on calling me  another example the phone rang. An unfamiliar voice inquired a May i speak to Pat a i responded a this is  the caller let me know she resented the correction and after that it was downhill All the Way. Ann i cringe when people use this nickname. I done to mean to insult those who like it but i loathe it. Done to i have the right to let people know what about those boors who resent being corrected if i were introduced to a Man named a Richard a i would never presume to Call him a Dick. A i bet the a world is full of Elizabeths Judiths Deborah Rebeccas Timothy and jonathans who face this same nuisance daily. I sympathize with them All. Not androgynous Pat in Texas dear Patricia generally when people use a shortened name they mean to be Friendly. Those who done to care for this kind of informality need Only say so a unfortunately sometimes More than once. In a sure your friends have the message. C creators Syndicate copy of the schools policies about rape. Also ask for the University a explanation for its action in this Case. Finally inquire about the schools programs for educating students about their vulnerability to this crime. If there Are no programs something should be started. Dear Abby i recently attended a bridal Shower. Many attended since the Bride to be is a Well known Well liked local woman. After opening All the gifts the Bride stood up and thanked everyone for coming and bringing such Lovely gifts. Then one of her aunts who was one of the hostesses stood up and said a because of the Price of postage these Days the verbal a thank you you just heard from the Bride will be the Only one you will get. She will Send written thank you notes Only to those who were unable to attend the  Abby i think this was very Tacky. What gift Isnit Worth a 29-cent postage stamp to acknowledge what do you think put off guest dear guest if the aunt made that announcement without the consent of the Bride she had a lot of nerve. And if she had the consent of the Bride shame on both of them. Every Shower gift Calls for a thank you note. C Universal press Syndicate across 1 lbs Beagle 4 hot air balloon Basket 7 dental appurtenance 12 Oklahoma City 13 indivisible 14 laryngitis target 15 take the cake 16 hair clasps 18 Heyerdahl so a a a Tiki 19 Bessie Smiths style 2q walk of Fame Emblem 22 three match link 23 emulate Caruso 27 future Flamingo 29 Wahine Wear 31 saw 34 wherewithal 35 in the midst of 37 suitable 38 Bendy bits 39 away 41 Symbol of bondage 45 coup d eat group 47 opposite of Bellum 48 Long thin loaves of bread 52 now goal 53 hellenic Ender 54 cartoonist s Supply 55 Bro. 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