European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - April 3, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday april 3, 1992 the stars and stripes a Pago 19 Arm Landers dear Ann Landers at our company Christmas party my Boss who owns the company and is a known Womanizer paid a great Deal of attention to my wife. A a Vera is very attractive but she can take care of herself so that has never been an Issue. A the problem came up when my Boss called me in and discussed our upcoming layoffs. Although he did no to say so outright i could read Between the lines a he wanted to a a Date Vera and if everyone cooperated i would keep my Job. This concept goes against our religious beliefs and allot Day a crossword this concept goes against our religious beliefs and All our principles. When i told Vera about the conversation i said i would rather quit but she insisted on a playing the games for our family a welfare. Vera went to dinner with my Boss last week to a entertain some  he brought her Home very late. She would Only say that he was very funny and surprisingly charming. She refused to discuss where they went or what they did. A few Days later i received a raise. On sunday my dear Abby dear Abby in february 1991, my 80-year-old parents spent two weeks with my husband and me in our Florida Home. We Hadnot spent that much time together in Many years and i was shocked by How my father had aged. His Eves were glazed and he seemed to be living in a fog much of the time. I was concerned about dads medication and my Mother told me that his doctor had prescribed All the pills a and dad had been going for checkups every three months for the last 10 years and was still taking the pills. After they went Home a letter appeared in your column about Over medication of older people. One Point it made was that since the organs become less efficient at ridding the body of toxins As one Ages a dosage that is appropriate at 70 May be too Strong at 80. I phoned my Mother and read her the letter and urged her to Contact my father s doctor and discuss it with him. She did a and the doctor Cut the dosage by half and eliminated some pills altogether. My parents just left after spending two weeks with us again this year. Abby my father is a new person he seems years younger and that glazed look is gone from his eyes. Thank you for printing that letter last february and please consider reprinting it. If it helps improve the Quality of one person s life As much As it did my fathers it will be Worth it. His daughter in Naples dear daughter i am printing your letter to remind others that a dosage of medication that is appropriate at 70 May be too Strong at 80. The message bears repeating. Dear Abby i love cats but cannot keep any because of my band s allergies. Luckily i have Nice neighbors who Huso Are band s allergies. Luckily 1 Nave Nice Neil doors no arc willing to a snare Quot theirs. My husband enjoys having the quibble Boss showed up at the House. He and Vera talked and giggled for an hour while i did some woodworking in the basement. I was too upset and miserable to stay upstairs and join them. Now the Boss is talking about a ski weekend in Vermont where he has a Condo. What should i do if i quit my Job or get Laid off Well lose our House and just about everything we own. Our children would suffer terribly. What do you think about this do i have any Legal recourse could this be considered sexual harassment depressed in new England dear new England the wild card in this strange scenario is Vera. She seems to have fallen for the Boss and is enjoying the role of a sacrificial Lamb Quot entirely too much. There is no Chance of a sexual harassment suit Here because Vera does not work for the Man. You do. Get some counselling for yourself and hang in there. You need the guidance and emotional support of a professional to help you weather this storm. Please write again and let me know How this turns out. C Cretora Syndicate cats in our Yard because they keep the moles out of our Lawn and other rodents out of the Garden. They Are also very Sweet tempered and a a visit us when we Are outdoors. Our problem is that the four of us share the same Back Yard with a neighbor who hates cats and has threatened to kill them if they come into her Yard. She a repeated this threat three different times and we re starting to believe her. The Cost of a Fence that would Stop a cat is just not possible at this time. Do you or any of your readers know of a Plant that would repel cats that we could Plant along the Edge of our properties i know that marigolds Are supposed to repel mosquitoes and other insects and that there Are fat lants to repel moles. Perhaps if we made the property Ine a undesirable a the cats would stay in our Yards. Gratefully yours dear gratefully to quote or. Irwin David my veterinary medical expert a there Are plants that repel insects but not cats. Even if you planted a hedge it would have to be very thick and tall to prevent a cat from going through it or Over  so your Only solution is to keep the cats under a watchful Eye until you and your neighbors have saved enough to split the Cost of a sturdy Fence. Sorry. Dear Abby i am submitting a Limerick that May be a bit too suggestive for your column. Maybe not. You be the judge. A heartbeats stay at Normal rate a when one Beds Down with a Legal mate a but roosting in another a nest a May Lead to cardiac  Ollie in Orlando Dearo Lue if this appears in the Orlando Sentinel you la know your editor has a Good sense of humor. 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