European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - April 9, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday april 9, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 15 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers we have two daughters 10 and 15 years old. I have forbidden them to hit one another. I am Adamant about this because i remember my own childhood and it was a night Lunare. When i was a child my older i brother used to beat me up almost daily. Our parents rarely stepped in and when they did the punishment was so insignificant that it did no to deter him from hitting me again. Playing any kind of game with my brother was impose Isible. He would throw the Bat if he did no to get a hit and Lutock Over the monopoly game if he lost. Cards checkers and pingpong paddles became projectiles on a moments notice. Children in the neighbourhood refused to play yith him because he had such a violent temper. I recently spoke to my Mother about the Way my Chil Idren tease each other. This led to my telling her that she failed me when she did no to protect me from my brother a brutal attacks. Her response put me in a state of Shock. She said a i never saw him hit i then realized that she probably never did see him beating me up. My brother was mean but he Wasny to i stupid. The Only time 1 received parental support was i when they saw Teeth Marks or bruises. Parents should make it Clear that there will be no hitting slapping or punching and Swift punishment will be meted out to those who break this Rule. Please print this Ann. Your column helped me through Many Tough times when i was growing up and i want to help others. M.j., Bakersfield Calif. Dear Baker _ you be written a valuable letter but id like to add a few thoughts of my own. Hitting is a Normal response today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby my husband has been out delivering concert tickets that were sold by Telephone solicitations. He has come Home laughing the last two Days saying that he was propositioned by three women a Young and quite Good looking. He said a a it a a Good thing i am not that kind of a Abby what gets me is my husband will be 60 years old on his next birthday. He is just a typical Middle aged balding Short not real handsome married Man. With All the publicity about aids and other venereal diseases we Are just dumbfounded. What can those women be thinking dumbfounded dear dumbfounded they Are either thinking it can to happen to them or i they re just not thinking. Dear Abby i Hope you can help me. My in Laws refuse to put Poison raid dog Spray drano Etc up out of reach of for Young children when they Are angry or frustrated. They must be taught that this is not acceptable behaviour. In the Ideal family no violence brutality pinching slapping or hitting is allowed. Punishment for wrongdoing should be isolation and the withdrawal of All privileges. This is far More effective than violence. Dear Ann Landers premarital sex and extramarital sex Are frequently dealt with in your column. Lots of advice there. But what about Post marital sex its almost As if no one cares to advise adults As to How they should program their sex lives in the later years. How would Ann Landers advise on this one after 30 years of a Good marriage i lost my wife. After 32 years of an equally Good marriage my woman Friend lost her husband. We Are both in our Early 60s, Long past the childbearing age so we done to have to worry about pregnancy. And yes sve Are having sex but morally we Are committing adultery. Abstinence is not the answer because the hormones Are still raging and we enjoy this aspect of our relationship a lot. Somehow i can to believe the creator intended for people to Stop Loving and living after performing their duties As spouses and parents. I find it hard to understand Why people in their Golden years must refrain from enjoying their sexuality to the fullest. Can you explain this hot to Trot in Sioux Falls . Dear hot your relationship is not adulterous since your spouses Are deceased. A strict fundamentalist would judge you guilty of fornication since you Are having sex outside marriage. If either of you feels guilty about this talk to your minister priest or rabbi. If not its nobody a business. C creators Syndicate our 2-year-old son. We also have a Little girl who will be crawling very soon Abby i realize that it is their Home but i done to think in masking too much of them. She says a Well you will just have to watch i must not be supermom because i can to watch every single move they make. This whole situation is getting very depressing. Concerned mom in Pesotum ill. Dear concerned according to the american association of Poison control centers an estimated 5 million children were victims of accidental poisonings in 1989, the last year for which figures were available. Sixty two percent of those children were under the age of 5. It is adults who must Bear the responsibility. If your in Laws feel that rearranging their cupboards in order to keep dangerous chemicals out of the reach of the toddlers is too much trouble ask if they would mind if you and your husband did the childproofing. If that does no to suit them the children a visits with the grandparents should take place at your House. 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