European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - April 11, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday april 11, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Lander today s crossword dear Ann Landers As you already know unemployment is a major problem in this country. I am a recent victim. When people lose their jobs their self esteem is at an All time Low. They feel worthless As if being unemployed is their fault. Its also scary. One thing that Isnit mentioned much is the attitude of the people who work in unemployment offices. The company i worked for made a 10 percent personnel Cut across the Board. Being one of the last hired i was one of the first to go. The minute i sat Down with the unemployment Counselor she asked a what did you do that caused you to lose your Job a please inform these so called a Counselor so that sometimes people Are Laid off for no reason other than that the Economy is bad. Business is slow. Also they should try to be considerate of our feelings. Unemployed people Are simply out of work so please done to treat us like criminals. Feeling Low in Illinois dear Illinois in be received very few letters critical of unemployment Agency personnel. It sounds to me As though you ran into a real Lemon. Good Luck to you. I Hope you find something soon. Dear Ann Landers i am saddened every time i read about an adopted person who is trying to locate a birth Mother a even More so when Contact is made and the child is rejected. I offer this advice to All such persons adoption is a binding lifetime contract. Biological Arents release children for adoption for valid reasons he primary one is to give them a better life than the birth parents can offer. If one of my two adopted children Ever wants to con a t dear Abby dear Abby i have been divorced for eight years. I have one daughter a Jane a who is now 22. When my husband divorced me he also a a divorced our daughter. There was no Contact with Jane unless she initiated it. No Christmas gifts no birthday gifts nothing a even though she always remembered her father on those occasions. I could not understand it he was a very Loving father to Jane while she was growing up but the a a love cooled off after our divorce. Jane will be graduating from a private College in May. This will be a tremendous Relief for me since i assumed the entire financial Burden of her College education. I suggested he share the expense but he flatly refused i am not wealthy by any Means. I had to mortgage my House and secure a personal loan to cover Jane a Tui tact a birth Mother i will offer this advice she gave you life and parents possibly at great personal sacrifice. What More could you ask of her done to tarnish that gift by meddling in her private life after All these years. Respect her and Pray Tor her Well being As i do. The Best gift you can give her now is the gift of privacy. Thankful in . Dear . Beautiful. Thanks for speaking so eloquently for those who cannot speak for themselves. Dear Ann Landers i think you missed the Point of a stuck at the cleaners who described the Absurdity of the Way men and women in the Western world Are expected to dress. I wish you had addressed the unwritten Law that says people must adhere to a code in order to be employable in the United states. For example ask yourself this question a what purpose does a Necktie serve a if that of Esno to work try wearing one for a few Days right up against your neck. Then rent a movie from the �?T40s. Notice How silly the men look. They arc All wearing hats which makes them virtually indistinguishable from each other. Someday people will look at movies from the �?T80s and �?T90s and wonder Why men wore those useless rags around their necks. They will probably laugh and feel sorry for us and i  blame them. Gagging in Southern Oregon dear Oregon a Necktie May be an utterly useless piece but a handsome Well knotted tie adds a touch to a Many a appearance. It also gives port Unity to express himself. Most menus pretty much alike but the tie a Man wears Good taste a or Lack of it. So keep this in you tie one on gentlemen. C creators Syndicate of apparel distinctive him an of suits look reflects his mind when Tion and living expenses. My a a exp is not a pauper. He makes in the neighbourhood of $100,000 a year but he lives Well pays an sex wife Alimony and he a keeping another woman. A i nearly hit the ceiling when Jane told me she intends to invite her father to her graduation i reminded her that i was the one who had made All the sacrifices and i should not have to share her graduation Day with her father who practically disowned her these last eight years. 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