European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 6, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Wednesday May 6, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landor dear Ann Landers i was married for 24 years. My wife and i respected and trusted each other. She died of cancer a few years ago and i have since remarried. My new wife a june a and i have one area of disagreement that is causing me a great Deal of trouble. I am a very private person. For me to express my Hopes fears and love i must feel confident that my privacy will be respected. I have Learned that whenever we have a disagreement june Calls her Sisters and her friends and discusses it with them in detail. I have spoken to her several times about this but she feels there is nothing wrong with it. She says she has a special Bond with her Sisters and girlfriends and they snare their most intimate secrets with her also. I have always believed what is said Between husband and wife should remain Between the two of them. When i told june i was upset by her Lack of discretion she promised not to talk about our private affairs to outsiders. I know she is still doing it and her friends have been told not to let on. I find myself censoring my words and bedroom behaviour because in a afraid others will hear about it. How can love grow when there is no Trust in a truly conflicted and Hope you will advise me. Faithful Reader in Hicksville it. Dear Vermont your wife needs to hear from on uninvolved third party that her Loose lip is destroying the marriage. A few joint sessions with a Counselor could prove extremely helpful. I strongly recommend it. Dear Ann Landers i feel Lucky to be alive and Able to write you. Please warn your readers about the dangers of Carbon Mono today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby the letter in your column about the baby Sitter who ate everything in sight while the parents of the child were out for the evening reminded me of an incident that happened to me about seven years ago when we had a Sitter for our son. One Sitter we used had the habit of cleaning out our cupboards and fridge. Once when we returned Home she pointed to a by this time empty bowl on our Kitchen counter. A Rya know a she said in a very annoyed tone a those a amp is were pretty  my husband and i looked at each other and burst out laughing. I said a those were not a amp is a they were dog  the girl turned White As a ghost and said nothing but we never had any More problems with her overeating. Pamela Holbrook Littleton Colo. Dear Pamela in a More serious vein not All Sitters who a heat everything in sight Are priggish a some Are bulimic. Buli quibble but a leadership is a tremendous Challenge and an Aln esome . Each Dav z must solve several Nefe and Complex ar06uem5 in a multitude of areas. Leadership is not foe Etc none Vout fee Luex that Voo a a nerd and done to possess even the smallest capabilities of leadership. Great i can see it All nod. There goes am Bale v the a Tkv nerd or Ide poisoning. My sons and i had been suffering from what we thought was the flu and we did no to seem to be getting better. We were constantly sleepy experiencing severe headaches and nausea. I thought it was a hard to shake virus but when i saw that our dog was drowsy and sluggish i had an uneasy feeling and opened the windows for some fresh air. I then phoned the Gas company and explained what was happening. They had a Serviceman out within 20 minutes. To my astonishment i was told the Furnace was throwing off Carbon monoxide. The danger level is 35. Ours was registering 55. Of course we had the Furnace repaired immediately. If i had not called the Gas company the results could have been tragic. The repairman explained that Carbon monoxide has no odor color or taste. One morning we simply  have awakened. I was told to get my Furnace checked yearly when it was installed but i was trying to save Money. It would have Cost about s30. How stupid of me. We All could have died. Grateful to be alive in Burlington wis. Dear Burl every now and then a Reader will help save lives by sending me a few simple facts to print in the column. This is another one of those letters a and i thank you. According to Peoples Gas co. In Chicago the combustion of any Fossil Tiel Oil kerosene Coal or natural Gas has the potential for producing Carbon monoxide if the equipment is not properly ventilated. This includes your automobile Lawn Mower Snow Blower and indoor Barbecue Grill. Warning signs include headaches dizziness weakness nausea and vomiting. Have your Furnace and boilers checked yearly by a professional and change your filters before the heating season begins or Call the Gas company for an inspection. C creators Syndicate inc. Mia is a condition that causes people to Gorge themselves and induce vomiting in Oiler to continue to eat More. In the 60s, Young women in High school and College did this in order to stay slim. Read on for a letter that can help people afflicted with that obsession dear Abby you really missed the boat in your response to a fed up with feeding them a about the baby Sitters who eat the Reader out of House and Home whenever they sit for her. Ill bet any amount of Money that in Many cases the baby Sitter is a bulimic who is using the time to Binge and purge someone else a food in secret to satisfy her addiction. Instead of anger these women need understanding and help. We jul provide free information and assistance to anyone who requests it. Send a self addressed stamped envelope business size no. 10, 52 cents postage to feed the foundation for education about eating disorder Box 16375, Baltimore my. 21210. In a also a former bulimic and baby Sitter. Caroline Adams Miller president. Feed c Universal press Syndicate a me Mac i be heard you Zub putting All your pm i be on the june 2> California primary,., Cam a Ftp Mikri 555-032 and that you la to anything to Wail Down that big California a amt vote. 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