European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 8, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday May 8, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers several weeks ago because neither my husband nor i had been sleeping Well in our shared double bed i moved into the guest room. Since then he has hinted that head like me Back in his bed but in be been ignoring him. After 35 years of marriage in a tired of sex and prefer to sleep alone. Last week my husband told me if i Wasny to willing to be a wife to him in every sense of the word he was going to leave. This is the same Man who told me several years ago that when in a in his bed i should know what to expect. I explained for the 50th time that in be lost interest in sex because our relationship is meaningless and empty and i no longer love him. He replied a a that a ridiculous. A wife does not have the right to say no unless she has a Good reason and not feeling like it Isnit Good  he wants me to go for counselling so someone can a help me  he says if i go twice he will go with me the third time. Ann is it wrong for me to want control Over my body and refuse to use it As a bargaining Chip to keep a Man in a not sure i want am i being unreasonable when i refuse to have sex with him just because he a my husband please comment. Ceiling Zero in a. Dear Zero there a More trouble Here than just your husband today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby i was horrified to read in the Wilmington Del., paper that or. Jack Kevorkian was ordered to stand trial for first degree murder for helping two terminally ill women commit suicide in Michigan last year. Please Send me names and addresses where i May write to protest this injustice and if you feel As strongly As i do in this matter then please ask your readers to write. Why done to the states go after the drug pushers a not gods Angels thank you. Claire h. Mathes Newark Del. Dear Claire letters of protest can be addressed to Richard t. Thompson prosecutor 1200 n. Telegraph Road Pontiac Mich. 48053 a or to the legislature of the state of Michigan or both. In a sure they will be interested in Public opinion about a subject in which so Many have a passionate and personal interest. Dear Abby i was delighted to read the compassionate remarks of the new York dentist who said he always tries to work out solutions to financial problems with his patients by either reducing his fee or allowing the patient to pay whatever he can afford Over a period of time. But that a not the Way it works in Florida i am an in sexual appetite. The real problems Between you two arc rooted elsewhere and i suspect they Are of Long standing. Your husband sounds like a Man who needs to control people. You say you Arentt sure you want him. If you do please Tell me what for. Your marriage sounds like a Nightmare. Ask yourself that Well known Ann Landers question would your life be better with him or without him if the answer is with him get some counselling and hold him to his word to go with you the third time. Dear Ann Landers. In be Only been in Canada for two years. When i came Here my first impression was that this is a wonderful country where people Are polite and very Friendly. I discovered a world where we still can Trust people. This letter is to Tell you that this is not just my opinion. 1 have proof. In a a professional Nanny living near Toronto. Last week i wrote a letter to my parents in Brazil and dropped it in a Mailbox. Later that Day i realized that i Hadnot used enough Stamps to Complete the Correct postage. I put an additional stamp in a plastic bag with a Little note to the mailman asking him to please stick that stamp to my envelope. I attached the plastic bag to the Mailbox that same evening. Several people told me that mailman done to do these kinds of favors for people and that my letter would be returned. Well Ann i was right. The next morning when i checked the mail i found my Little note with this simple but meaningful response from my mailman a no  Linda in Ontario c creators Syndicate Struc Tor at Brevard Community College and just before Christmas i contacted the Brevard county dental society asking that they extend the Christmas spirit to one of our students a a single Parent on the Deans list a who is struggling to become a teacher. She works at Home doing electronic Assembly so that she can Mother her three youngsters. She always smiles but her Wisdom Teeth Are hurting and she needs to get them out but Hasni to the Money to pay a up front a As the dentists Here demand. She did offer to make monthly payments. I explained this to the person who took my Call at the dental society. An appointment was set up. I was ecstatic but when she went there the dentist noticed that she smoked so he told her it would Cost $1,600 a to be paid in Advance when she said that she  pay $1,600 in Advance she was told a if you can afford to smoke you can afford to pay in  what do you think depressed in Melbourne Fla. Dear depressed i think the dentist who decreed that if she could afford to smoke she could afford to pay her dentist Bill in Advance should be hauled up before the county and state dental societies and dealt with accordingly. If there is not a penalty for such unprofessional conduct there should be. 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