European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 14, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Thursday May 14, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 17 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i am a 37-year-old woman married to a Man who is kind Loving Well educated hard working and completely devoted to me. Its his first marriage my second. A Large part of my fascination with Gerry was the fact that he was so shy. I have always Felt that sex is a special act and i could never be attracted to anyone who treated it casually. My first husband was my Only sexual partner before Gerry. Realistically i did not expect Gerry at the age of 38, to be a Virgin. He told me about a few relationships he had had and it did no to bother me. After we married i Learned that during his single years Gerry had had sex with a Long list of women i know. When i confronted him he admitted it and said i was silly to let it bother me. Frankly i feel betrayed. Every time we make love i have visions of the other women who have been in my place and it makes me sick. Now i feel there is nothing special about our love making since he has shared this part of himself with so Many others. I love Gerry but his past torments me and i done to know How to pretend it does no to matter. Am i wrong about this deceived in Providence . Dear prov your signature defies logic. Gerry did no to deceive you. You knew he had slept with several women before he married you. What you did t know was How Many. A today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby i am a 62-year-old retired lieutenant commander in the . Navy female Navy nurse. The brother of a close Friend recently lost his wife so they invited me to dinner and brought a gentleman along. A1 was a widower and i had never been married. We hit it off right from the Start and soon became a steady foursome. This happened in August and by november a1 and i knew we were in love. We were married in december. He is 68. No sex As he had prostate surgery and radiation but i adore the Man and we give each other Back rubs. I am kissed hugged and told that i am loved More times a Day than i can count. His hearing is poor a hearing aids done to help his kind of deafness a but a1 does no to need to hear to know that i love him. For Valentines Day he bought me a White Orchid Corsage and took me to dinner. I will love this Man and will care for him happily As Long As the Good lord lets me. We love our god and each other and i just wanted to share my Good Fortune with you because i consider you a Friend. Blessed in san Diego dear blessed what an a a upper your letter is you Are both blessed to have found each other. May god bless you for Many years to come. Quibble Mot s 60in6 Ohi u1mat Are Vou Guys look1n6 at ? of i see. Tau to looking at that a mme Little Mou a it thing u a top Here. That stored Little 6ftoum thing use to 5e my Stople 006 until he not tan6lep of in my a tic string. 5t0rip dog. This late Date it does no to matter. He a your husband now so forget the past and enjoy the present or there might not be a future. If you can to do this alone seek counselling. Dear Ann Landers i met my wife during world War ii. I loved her from the moment our eyes met. We were married soon after. In a few years we bought the nicest House in the neighbourhood. It had four bedrooms two bathrooms a full basement and a garage with an apartment overhead. I loved the House and was proud of it. We made Many improvements Over the years. My wife is a terrific bargain Hunter and shops constantly. But now there is Only a narrow path through our Home basement garage and overhead apartment. Only one door is available for entering and leaving. You can to even get into the garage or the apartment. Junk is piled to the ceiling in both places. Sad in Ashland by. Dear Kentucky Many women get a great Deal of satisfaction from finding bargains. Your wife however has gone beyond Normal limits. Her compulsion to buy is a form of mental illness. You have expressed genuine love for this woman. I Hope she loves you enough to seek professional help so that you can have a Normal life a Complete with visits from your grandchildren. Perhaps you can hasten her recovery with the lure of a huge garage Sale. Good Luck. C Creatore Syndicate dear Abby i went to the grocery store today and my purchases came to $8.21, so i gave the cashier one $5 Bill three $1 Bills a Quarter and a Penny. The cashier looked puzzled. Then she said a i have to give you something Back done to i How much should it be a Abby i had to Tell her i wanted a Nickel Back. She said she was new on the Job and Wasny to used to making change. This is not the first time in be had to Tell a cashier How much change to give me. Some Cash registers Are so sophisticated nowadays the Cashiers done to have to know now to add 2 and 2. I mentioned this to the manager of a supermarket and he told me that nobody has to know How to add and subtract anymore a there Are machines that do it for you. I am not against Progress but when a College graduate can to add a column of four figures without running for a calculator there is something wrong. Little kids can to even Tell time on an old fashioned watch with numbers because most watches Are digital now. I am 63 years old but i think american technology has come too far too fast. In a no old fog but i done to want a machine to do All my thinking for me. A Doc in Faribault Minn. Dear a Doc amen brother. 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