European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 20, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday May 20, 1992 the stars and stripes Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers this is for a emr. Smoked he quit smoking but his wife did no to and now he can to stand to be around her. Dear or. Smoked out you were sexually attracted to your wife for the first 27 years of your marriage and she was smoking then Wasny to she More important did no to you Stop smoking when you wanted to and not when someone else asked you to in a sure your urge to smoke was very Strong when you were trying to quit. Why then judge How much willpower your wife will need to kick the habit she a not you. My husband and i Are both sex smokers. He smoked for 25 years and quit two years ago. I smoked for 23 years and quit last Spring. He stopped by tapering off gradually. I went cold Turkey. We both had withdrawal symptoms mood swings and some weight gain. My husband nagged me for six months to quit after he did. That made me More determined than Ever to keep smoking. When he told me i smelled terrible i smoked More. He avoided me at bedtime which made me angrier than Ever. I retaliated by increasing my smoking until i was up to 2vi packs a Day. He stopped speaking to me. I continued to smoke. For reasons that Are still unclear to me he decided on his own to Stop nagging and criticizing. After six months of Blissful peace i went to the office As usual was about to Light up and instead took the whole pack and ripped up each cigarette one at a time. The important thing is that i decided to quit smoking for myself. Not for my husband and children but because i wanted to quit for me. When your wife decides to quit or. Smoked out today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby i am a recently divorced 27-year-old Mother of three children. My son is 5 years old and i have twin daughters who just turned 3. I need some advice on dating. I just relocated and am meeting a lot of men for the first time. Should i Tell the men right away that i have three children i am not looking for a husband or a father for my children so soon after my divorce. An older woman who works with me told me not to mention my three children to any Man i Date until we have gone out a few times and he shows a special interest in me. Abby i believe in being open and honest right from the very beginning. I Trust your advice so please Tell me what to do. Recent Divorcee dear . I would not on meeting a gentleman for the first time say a How do you do. I recently divorced and have you will have to be her major support As my husband was to me. Be understanding. Tiptoe around her if she is Moody. Let her take Long walks by herself if she needs to be alone. Never give her the feeling that you done to Trust her even if you suspect she a going for a walk so she can Light up. Let her know she is still attractive and desirable. Do not bring up smoking. Ever. Sex smoker in Capitol Heights my. Dear sex smoker thanks for your letter in support of my old theory that most people will live up or Down to your stated expectations. Read on for another Point of View dear Ann Landers let me get this straight a the husband quits smoking thus salvaging his health and saving the couple thousands of dollars a year on insurance medical Bills singed clothes and household furnishings and of course cigarettes. A despite the fact that his wife smells like a trash fire she continues her voluntary cigarette addiction unconcerned about the damage its doing to her health their finances and their relationship. A the husband has lost interest in her sexually because of the stench. A you think he needs counselling to find out what the real problem is How did you get your Job m.e.j., Indianapolis ind. Dear a getting the Job is one thing. Hanging on to it since 1955 is another Story. Now As for your criticism please go Back and read my answer again. I recommended joint counselling and asked a can it be that you Are too controlling and smoking is her Way of sneaking a bit of Independence a docs that make sense to you it did to me. C creators Syndicate inc. Three but i would Tell the gentleman Early on a before either of you has invested too much emotionally a that you have three children. To deliberately withhold such important information would be deceitful. If the gentleman on hearing about your children finds you less attractive in his scheme of things he is not for you. You surely want to become seriously involved with a Man who would not want your children. Dear Abby i recently remarried. My husband was also previously married. How should i introduce my first husbands relatives who Are my former in Laws i am very Friendly with my sex husbands nieces and nephews too. Second time Rounder dear second there is no reason to Call attention to the fact that you were formerly related by marriage. 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