European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 28, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Thursday May 28, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 17 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers you told a divided loyalties in new York that adult children who offer hospitality to or join their father when he is with his mistress Are giving tacit approval to the relationship. You added they Are also being disloyal to their Mother. I agree with you As far As you went but in my opinion you did no to go far enough. Another message is being Given i m talking about the message which involves divided loyalties a own husband. She says he loves being around her father and that they have a lot in common. Her father has already end cd two id his three daughters and his mistress to condone an adulterous relationship a and now enters his son in Law. How will this son in Law begin to treat the woman in his life a meaning her what message will he pick up on no wonder he loves being around his father in Law. He s taking lessons. When these lessons Are Well Learned 1 Hope divided loyalties has some hobbies for her own future weekends alone. Becoming enlightened in Massachusetts dear enlightened you have hit on a possible Hazard that a less discerning Reader might have missed. I appreciate your Sharp Eye. Read on dear Ann Landers this is in response to a divided loyalties who Felt uncomfortable spending time with her father and his today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby i have a complaint and i done to know to whom i should address it so i chose you. Why must the latest crop of films insult our values intelligence and morals the language used in some of our a a bests movies and some to shows is very Low Down and vulgar. I do not know a single person who uses such filthy language. Abby maybe i am out of step. Would you please take a poll to find out if i am alone in my complaint. I am not talking about a a hello and  i mean the words beginning with a a so and  thank you. An average 33-year-old female dear average count me As one for your Side. Of readers postcards Only please. Take note of this special address . Box 539, mount Morris Iii. 61054. Dear Abby during several recent trips to my brother a Home i have witnessed some behaviour that i believe to be sexual abuse. Quibble Rev orb Blev lets 6o Oier. To Ike 54ac bar. Thew fired me Coo Trtat Trey Mao Amo hiked a Fri much Chet from France. The food is great trek nou / alth0u6m Mev still Call 1aeta hamburgers and cheese80rgt�s and or amp of tries hip taste like Chatea Ubriaco and potatoes to Gratis it note Vic then Cor vote Hwo Riff Samu Ufim i Fly it try sets in err Ltd a my w a Vul pfc a v Artaki r Juo two t Kipf y we l1a i mistress of 20 years. I found myself in a similar situation when my Uncle encouraged me to meet his mistress. I told him a no thanks. Id prefer to spend time with you when you arc with your  that Exchange led to a big Blowout five years ago and the subject has t come up since. In a glad i made my Point and have Felt Good about it Ever since. Your answer was right on Ann. Loyal family member in Michigan dear Loyal not everyone was enthusiastic about my answer. Keep Reading Pear Ann 1 Amu is your response to a divided loyalties stank. How do Vou know what kind of wife the guv has it she was Halfway decent he would t be hanging out with a mistress for 20 years. The fact that the mistress has been in the picture for that Long Means they get along just swell together. So Why done to you keep your trap shut when you Are getting Only half the picture same boat Sandra in Sandy Hill dear same boat granted i done to know what kind of wife the Man has but it does no to make much difference. The fact is he is married. If the marriage is Lousy for whatever reason there arc Laws to take care of that. If divorce is out there Slegal separation. I thought my answer was a Good one and i stand by it. C creators syndicates i am writing to you because i believe his behaviour to be Subtle enough to be ignored As abusive and i am sure my brother would not participate in it if be were made aware of it. He has ignored my warnings and thinks 1 am being extreme. The Behaviours Are 1. Calling his 4-year-old daughter his a a lovers while holding her and kissing her. 2. Taking Baths with her and Skinny dipping with her in a Small secluded backyard Pool. My psychologist Friend tells me that this kind of behaviour with children 2 years old or older constitutes sexual child abuse. Please respond quickly. Maybe he will pay More attention to you. His wife is Blind to All of this. Worried in Virginia dear worried while your brother May not be guilty of sexual abuse standards vary from family to family he is guilty of inappropriate behaviour. 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