European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 23, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 16 the stars and stripes Friday july 23,1993 adorn Hurt about daughter s having sex dear Ann Landers 1 just found out1 that my 17-year-old daughter is hav ing sex with her 19-year-old Boyfriend. What do i say to her Daphne is taking the Pill and she says her boy Friend uses a condom. Daphne is a Good student and will Start College in the fall. We have had discussions in the past about sex and i have always told her i hoped she would wait until that special someone came along. She says that she took my advice that her Boyfriend is special and she loves him but that she has no intention of marrying him. I am so disappointed and upset. I feel that i have failed but i also blame the Media. I have tried to teach my children values and morals but every to show portrays Young people having sex As if it were the proper thing Todo. Daphne thought it was just wonderful when a popular teen age show advocated using condoms. No mention was made of abstinence. Should i simply be thankful she is protecting herself against pregnancy and disease am i just upset about losing my Little girl please respond in your column. Other mothers must be facing this problem too Bluein Ohio Ann Landers dear Ohio Stop blaming yourself. You did the Best you could. Just leave it at that. The pressure on Young people to have my and at an earlier age is getting stronger and stronger. This is different Era than when you and i were growing of. The Media to radio movies magazines and yes news papers Are much More explicit some of the Lan Guage startles me and i m pretty hard to Shock. Dear Ann Landers i work in a neurologist s office. A few weeks ago a new patient came in. Or. A gave a medical history that included 10 years of vocal and motor tics that would come and go. Although the patient had de scribed these complaints to several physicians Over the years most of them attributed his symptoms to one diagnosed his condition properly. The patient s complaints were compatible with a diagnosis of Tourette s syndrome. When asked if anyone had referred to his condition As Tourette a the patient said that he had read about Tourette s syndrome in your column several months ago and that it sounded a lot like what he had. Med student in Chicago loners to am under should be addressed to her at . Box 11562. Chi Cago Iii. 6ost 1-0562. C Creaton Syndicate group gives fat people self esteem dear Abby dear Abby i have heard that there is an organization whose initials stand for National association to Aid fat Ameri cans. It was formed to help assure fat people that they Are lovable and acceptable just the Way they arc. As you have probably guessed i am a fat person who has struggled All my life to be thin. I am through starving and bingeing. How can i it in touch with this organization 1 need to meet other fat people especially those who arc Able to accept themselves the Way they Are. Fat and Friendly in los Angeles dear f and f the organization you Are seeking is the National association to Advance fat acceptance inc. It is a non profit tax exempt human rights organization dedicated to improving the Quality of life for people through education research advocacy and member support. Nakfa seeks a diverse membership. There Are no barriers. People of All races creeds religions Ages sex Ual orientations and National origins Are Welcome. For information concerning membership and the location of chapters etc., write to Nakfa . Box 188620, Sacramento Calif 95818. Please enclose a stamped self addressed envelope for a reply. Quibble dear Abby you won t get any Flack from me regarding your advice to brokenhearted wife whose husband was having affairs and insisting All the while that these women were just my sex became involved with two female co work ers at two different jobs. They too started out As inno cent outings but quickly progressed to full blown affairs. After the first affair i forgave him and went on with my marriage As though nothing had happened. When he became involved with another female co worker he laughed and insisted that she was a lesbian. I had a feeling that he was lying and needless to say i was right. He filed for divorce married the lesbian a month after our divorce was final and now they have a baby i now realize How Lucky i am to be out of a destructive marriage. Abby please feel free to use my letter my name and my town. Lucky in Littleton Colo. Dear Lucky your name is not essential. 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