European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 24, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday july 24, 1993 pit in 0 to s1 Foj i \ 1 i future Mother in Law asks too much or for Ann Landers my Nephew Rob is about to be married but his future Mother in Law Enid is out of control. My Sis Ter and i Are at our wits end. Enid insists that my sister pay the bar Bill for 265 wedding guests 250 of whom Are Enid s friends and relatives. My sister is inviting Only 15 people. After hearing the number of guests my sister told Enid Point Blank that she and her husband simply  afford it. Enid replied this is a very big event in you son s life. Take out a loan. " i should Tell you that the Bride parents have already remortgage their Home to pay for the wedding. When my sister said they Sim ply could t handle the bar Bill kid told Rob that he should Ann Landers pay it. Rob explained that he was saving for a Dow payment on a House. Enid then said that does t matter. If your parents won t pay it then it s your  Enid s insensitive attitude is turning the affair into Nightmare. I know you Are wondering what the Bride and Groom have to say about this. Well their reply was let Enid have her Way because this wedding is the most important thing in her  what is your opinion of this mess in michigander Michigan mess your sister should not be bashful about telling Enid exactly How much Money she can spend on the wed Ding. Also she should make it perfectly Clear that an additional expenses will have to be paid for by Enid if she insists on going Over budget Rob s future Mother in Law sounds like she could go Bear Hunting with switch. I am not optimistic about this couple living happily Ever after if Enid is allowed to ran things. Dear Ann Landers i just read the letter from Salt Lake City who wrote that pets can also get breast  cat Samantha was diagnosed with mammary cancer. While rubbing her stomach i discovered Small Lump near one of her nipples. The Lump was smaller than a  took her to the vet and surgery was recommended. When the test results came Back i was told the cancer had already spread to her Lymphatic system and would soon spread to her lungs. I was told most cats in Samantha s position lived an average of six months. My vet who is a very compassionate woman cried withe and advised me to enjoy the time i had left with Samantha. My three cats Are like my children and i was inconsolable about my beloved pet s pending death. I am Happy to report it has been Over three month since the diagnosis and Samantha shows no signs of being sick. My vet agrees that it s possible the cancer was detected Early enough and May have been completely removed with her initial , Texas dear Garland thanks for a letter that could save some feline lives. Cd like to remind my readers that dogs too can get cancer. Any lamp that shows fee should be investigated by a vet. Early intervention could save the animal s life. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her . Boa 11562. Cd Cago. Id. 60611-0562. Cd creator Syndicate aged need t fear mental health therapy dear Abby last May i wrote you about mental health month and the test for the necessity of therapy int. We were deluged with requests for these simple pamphlets which open the door for dialogue about therapy. Man of the requests we received were for a tool designed to broach the subject of therapy with older per sons. In order to address these concerns i brought together psychologists and psychiatrists who work with the elderly and asked seniors themselves for input an then utilized this information to design the new test for the necessity of therapy for seniors. As a Rule the elderly do no seek mental health care and yet they have the highest suicide rate in America. Even when family and friends want to help they Don t know How to begin conversation about a subject that is considered by Many to be taboo. I Hope that you will help me to continue my efforts to remove the stigma associated with therapy by Tell ing your readers about the new test. A final  from the number of requests that i had for info dear Abby mation you might also mention the excellent alzheimer association. Or. Kevin Grold president mental health referral service of Southern California dear or. Grold and dear readers i am Happy to be of help in this very worthwhile project. Those who feel that the test for necessity of therapy for seniors might be helpful to them or an older per son about whom they Are concerned can Send a Legal sized self addressed stamped 29 cents envelope to the mental health referral service of Southern California,11665 w. Olympic blvd., no. 414, los Angeles Calif. 90064. It is nonprofit so please enclose $1 per test to cover the costs of printing and handling. The alzheimer s association to which or. Grold referred is the National voluntary Agency dedicated to re search for the prevention cure and treatment of alzheimer s disease and related disorders and to providing support and assistance to the afflicted patients and their families. To learn More about the alzheimer s disease and related disorders association inc., its chapters an programs Call toll free 800 272-3900. Letter Tor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris. Ii. 61054. C Universal press Syndicate quibble hold did a oof to audit go two  1mat counts to Onfry. Lars Vou can come in for of Quick cup of Coffee but Jhen its to a Flag. 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