European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 19, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse I Page 26 the stars and stripes Friday november 19,1999 i ,.-. Utah wife really knows How to Hurt r. I i dear Ann Landers i Arti 60 and have been married to a still Beautiful woman for 32 years. We have eight children and the youngest is 13.last year my wife announced that she a no longer going to have sex with me. My sexual appetite needs satisfying about three times a week. I have always Bee gentle Loving and As concerned for her enjoyment As mine. I have never been Abu Sive and in recent years i be been patient until she was will ing to have sex. We Haven t had sex since june of 1992. My options Are divorce prostitutes another Man s wife a single woman masturbation or doing without. We have Dis cussed sex openly for years. Behave been to two marriage Counselor and three minister Sand attended marriage classes. I be read numerous books on the subject. We Are presently seeing a marriage i still love my wife. However she tells me she do snot love me does t even like me but does t want a divorce because of the children and what it might do Toher financially. Half of this marriage is mine but she is controlling i insist on having sex she will scream rape. What should i do praying for Relief in Utah dear Utah you have been married to a Beautiful woman for 32years, have eight children and have not had sex since june 1992? you be been to two marriage Counselor Sand three ministers your wife says she does not even like you much less love you surely with All the professional help you be been get Ting you must have some clue As to Why your wife does not like you. There lies the key to the problem. Ann Landers you sound like a Man who is More interested in col letting opinions than in solving the problem. If you Are genuinely interested in mending the relationship listen to what the Counselor and ministers have told you. They know a lot More about the situation than you have told me. Dear Ann Landers when i read the column about the trucker who saved a Young Man s life by blowing his Horn and Wak ing him up i decided maybe i could through your column thank a Bakersfield trucker who was very kind Tome. -. It was february 1983.1 was driving our motor Home through Quartzsite ariz., and stopped at a rest area to Check on my husband who was very trucker who was on vacation was parked close by and asked what was troubling me. It must have Bee apparent that i was up to. I told him i had to get my husband to Blythe Hospital 29 Miles away. He offered to drive our motor Home while his wife drove their car behind us. They stayed with me at the Hospital saying should not be alone. After an hour the doctor said my husband had the flu. I knew it had to be something More deadly than that. It was. He died a few Days later from a staph infection. I was so upset i did t think to give the trucker Money for Gas. I Hope he sees this and realizes How much he and his wife helped me. May god bless the both for their kindness. Sally in Yucca Valley Sally these Days when we hear so much about Man s inhumanity to Man it s reassuring to receive a letter like would be wonderful if the Good Samaritans you de scribed read this column recognized themselves an wrote to let me know. I la be watching the mail. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562. Chi Cago lit. 60611-0562. C creators Syndicate make those Holiday invitations Early dear Abby last year on the night before thanksgiving after cleaning my House putting a Turkey in the oven an making some pics i sat Down to relax and read dear Abby. In your column you had suggested that people invite others to share thanksgiving particularly those whose Fame lie were far away and those who Don t have family anymore. Abby the time to run that column is Well before thanks giving so the people who receive the invitations will feel they Are truly wanted and no just an afterthought. My husband teaches a Sun Day school class for single adults. The last two years behave invited anyone who wants to come for thanks give dear Abby ing to our House. Each guest signs up to bring a specific dish or drinks or paper goods. Last year we had 18 friends including one couple whose family lives put of state nine single adults and seven children. We had a wonderful time visiting watching television and. Playing games. Others in our Church also extend invitations to out of state transplants and singles at thanksgiving and Christmas. It s always a Blessing a wonderful Opportunity to get to know them better. I encourage your readers to make room at their tables for thanksgiving or Christmas dinner. God will richly Reward you. Becki Simmons metropolitan Church of god Birmingham Becki i recall this biblical injunction it is More blessed to give than to receive. Acts 20 35 letters Tor Titis column should be addressed to Bear Abby at . Box 447.mount Morris. In. 81054. 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