European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 9, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Voi dear Ann Landers i know this is going to sound incredibly anthropomorphic but is there any Way to help a dog Deal with grief i have two dogs that have not been separated since they were Newborn puppies. They Are not related. Rex will have to be put to sleep soon because of crippling arthritis while Rocky appears to be in excellent health and should have a Long life ahead of him. Is there any Way to help Rocky understand that Rex int coming Back when the time comes whenever we take Rex to the vet for a checkup Rocky positions himself at the front Ann Landers life that consists of getting up going to work and coming Home to eat read the paper watch to and go to bed a  this Man refuses to Deal with reality. He eats everything in sight and has added at least 40 pounds since we married. He has split the scams in three pairs of pants and tries to hide his extra chins with a Short Beard. Not Only do i find his body repulsive to took at much less have sex with but his weight is crushing and his performance is poor because he has no stamina. The extra weight also has created a snoring volume comparable to the sound of a Herd of Buffalo. I weigh within 10 pounds of what i weighed when we a d 30 a a a. Exercised. Married 30 years ago and have alway eaten wisely and door whines and refuses to Budge until Rex returns. In a deeply concerned about what will happen to Rocky when he loses his Best Friend and would appreciate a word from you. Dog Lover in . Dear . Sometimes animals seem so smart we forget that they cannot process information like humans. There is no Way you can get Rocky to understand that Rex will not be coming Back. Your Best bet is to try to nil the void by taking him for rides or walks giving him extra attention and a change of scenery. After several weeks have passed bring Home another Puppy. Good Luck. 1 dear Ann Landers i just read the letter from the a sex starved husband and Felt my pulse quicken and my heart Pound with rage. My husband could have written that letter because in his mind he is a a lonely sex starved husband with a i must Cook two dinners every night because he refuses to give up red meat and does not like vegetables. He must always have a dessert he takes medication for High blood pressure and has been told to lose weight repeatedly by the doctor. I have tried to help him but it has become a Parent child game of a catch me cheating if you  his opinion of Counselor is unprintable. His state of denial is obvious. I wonder How Many a sex starved husbands have a similar profile. A sex starved wife in Calif. Dear wife in Cal the problem is not what your husband eats but what is eating him. He needs to find out Why he is out of con Trepl killing himself with a Fork and spoon. A since he Refu Beajo get counselling i Hope you will. You need to learn How to live in peace with this Man and understand his self destructiveness. The a a rage you describe could be bad for your health. Letters to Anri Landers should be addressed to her Al . Box 11562, Chicago Tel. 60611-0562. C creators Syndicate. Dear Abby my husband and i have been married for 46 years. We Are both in Good health and we do a lot of different things together including going to Church concerts and ballgames and travelling. My husband has a very disturbing fault. No matter where we Are he will walk off and leave me. He cannot walk beside me he always has to be ahead of me. Recently we were at a baseball game and when the game was Over he got up and walked Down the Steps and out of the stands without even looking Back through the crowd to Check on me. He was nearly to the parking lot when i finally managed to catch up with him. Quibble dear Abby x,twt3 it and g0e5tions?. V a i a fwd ju5t one \ question in Culf Lofv 1 ulu flt woo just said. That exactly do you left Fol uh04 3/w or else ? x t do Yoo a Whf head y Tell Ycu Cal 3hau. I n in be talked to other women about this and Many of them have the same problem. What can we do. I walk alone dear walk alone it won t be easy to break a spouse of a 46-Ycar-old habit hut you can try. When you Are together remind him using a pleasant tone a dear would you please take my Arm or let me take yours a and keep reminding him. Not Only is it a matter of Courtesy its a matter of your safety. Men too have been known to trip or stumble and their companions have saved them from a Nasty fall. Letters for ibis column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris Iii. 61054. C unt Varsal press syn Dicalo you know. Lance when a watch Vou flab Gloria interact r cant which famous lovebirds y remind Roe of postmark Antony and Cleopatra. Heathcliff and Caw. A John amp Lovko. Today a crossword across 1 Calendar. 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