European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 14, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse A. Y miserable needs to get out of rut Jurf a dear Ann Landers May i respond to a miserable in Pittsburgh she is 29 and in love with a married Man and wants marriage and children. Like a miserable a i was shy Chubby insecure and unpopular when i was Young. I grew up during world War i and there weren to Many available men around. I know where a a miserable is coming from so please allow me to pass on some words of Wisdom. 1. Stop fantasizing about your Lover. That selfish creep has already stolen several years of your life. Drop him like a bad habit. 2. Nobody is going to break your door Down to marry you. Make yourself available to eligible men. Get out of your comfortable routine and Force yourself to get a social life. Shut off the television. 3. Lose some weight if you need to. Go on a supervised diet. Join a health club. You will meet people there. 4. Do you swim skate ski or play Bridge or Tennis you can meet people not Only when you take lessons but also after you have Learned. 5. Take evening courses at your local Community College. There will be others there who want to improve their lives 6. Be a Volunteer. There Are Many worthwhile organizations looking for extra hands. If you follow these six Steps you will meet your fun Ann Landers Turc husband 1 know that s How i met mine. Richmond a. Dear Richmond your advice to a miserable in Pittsburgh Quot was excellent. I Hope she listens before she wastes any More time. Dear Ann Landers i could just scream. I read the letter from a another slant from the South a who was commenting on the woman whose idiot brother in Law pinched her behind. A a slant wanted to know what kind of signals this woman was sending to make her brother in Law think it was of to be so fresh. Why is it always the woman a fault Why do people assume that the woman was coming on to the Man a As if he a some kind of stud she resist no Man should be allowed to harass or sexually abuse a woman and then use the argument that she asked for it. That a the same As telling a physically abused wife that she pleads to be beaten every night. People who blame the victim make me sick. Julie in Villa Park ill. Dear Julie they make me sick too but they arc operating on a faulty premise. Rape is not about sex. Its about control. The letter you referred to generated a great Deal of mall. Many females who wrote Felt that the woman who was pinched should have Given her brother in Law a Kip in the chops and let her husband take it from there. Letters to Ann Landers should to addressed to her at . To 11562, Chicago Iii. 60611-0562. C creators Syndicate love ran out but bum s Bills remain dear Abby a a Mike and i were very much in love and even planned to buy a House together. Our relationship had spanned several years so we Felt comfortable opening a joint charge account. Mike used the card frequently and offered to pay for anything that i charged. We ended that relationship a few months ago and Abby he reneged a i have not received any payments for the balance on the account. I believe it is fair that i pay my Bills but what can i do to get the Money from Mike desperately seeking payment dear Abby dear desperately it appears that Mike is a con artist. Depending on what he owes on the balance you May be Able to take him to Small claims court or even launch a civil suit. But unless you have unlimited resources i would t advise going that route. Write off the loss. Call it a a learning experience a and thank the Good lord that you did t invest any More of your love time and Money in this Chissler. Dear Abby i am going to be married for the third time. However this will be my brides first marriage. What is the proper etiquette for sending out invitations if it were up to me my lady and i could just go to Las vegas or the local courthouse and tie the knot. But since this is her first marriage a and 1 Hope my last a she wants a big Church wedding. I am in the process of having my previous marriages annulled. Please advise me concerning the wording of the invitations As i am sincere about wanting no gifts. Ohio Reader dear Reader i understand your feelings concerning wedding gifts but since this is your brides first marriage she should not be deprived of wedding gilts. A suggestion insert a Small note in the wedding invitations to be sent to your own friends and relatives bearing the message a your presence would be greatly appreciated a but no presents letters Lor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . 80 447, mount Morris. 111. 61054. 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