European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 20, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Monday june 20, 1994 the stars and stripes Page 21 blast from the past upsets this mom today a crossword Ann Landers dear Ann Landers. When i was 16,1 eloped with my Boyfriend who was 20 and about to join the air Force. Three months later i was pregnant. My husband was furious with me for being so. Stupid and became physically abusive. I realized that the a marriage was a terrible mistake and i should have listened to my parents. I filed for divorce and went Home to live with my family. I had no Money and no High school diploma so i made the painful decision to put my daughter up for adoption. I went Back to High school arid on to College where i met a wonderful Young Man. I told him All about my past with my fingers crossed. He said it did no to matter. We were married right after graduation and now have three terrific teenagers. My first born daughter is now 20. I was stunned several months ago when she phoned me at work and asked for a medical history. I sent it immediately. She has called twice since to say she wants a close relation ship with me. I gently told tier that her father and i had married too Young that things had not worked out and that although i had wanted to raise her i had been unable to. She then pressed for information regarding her father. I told her we divorced before her birth and i had no idea where he was living. I then asked her to please leave me alone. Ann when i put her up for adoption i was promised it would remain forever confidential. I am angry that the Promise was violated and 1 am going through hell worrying that the girl will show up on our Doorstep. I have read your column for years and Hope you have not changed your mind about opening scaled adoption records. Please let me hear from you. No City no state dear n.c., . My position on scaled adoption records remaining scaled is set in Concrete. Adopters should be permitted to learn the medical history of their parents but nothing More unless both the birth parents and the adopted child agree to it. Dear Ann Landers i am a married woman with three Young children. My husband and 1 get along Fine but the marriage has gotten humdrum. I love to receive Flowers and love notes and to be told i am Beautiful. My husband never docs any of these things nor does he respond to the notes and gifts  give him. His idea of a compliment is a you sure look  a which does nothing for me. I am considering having an affair with a Man in our social Circle who constantly gives me compliments and makes me feel Young and sexy. 1 definitely need a Little excitement in my life Ann. Avold it be so terrible if 1 had a fling please understand that i done to want to break up my marriage. In a Only interested in a Little excitement to spice up my lacklustre life. Sign me a romantic in Florida dear Florida if you re looking to me for a permission a you rattled the wrong Cage. You say you done to want a divorce a Only a Little excitement i say Cool it and move your brains Back up to your head. If your husband caught you fooling around he might want a divorce a and he could possibly get the children. Would the fling be Worth the Price letters 1o Ann Landers should to addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago Iii. 60611-0562 a c creators Syndicate Abby is out in left Field readers say dear readers when i published my opinion about the legalization of drugs May 3did i get letters the following Are a Sample from readers who disagreed dear Abby you should be ashamed of yourself for endorsing efforts to legalize drugs. If your concern is to reduce crowded prisons Why not go All the Way and legalize burglary rape and murder. Gene Riley san Antonio dear Abby How can you approve the legalization of drugs who will be responsible for the effects of secondhand marijuana smoke that May cause a car Accident Are you willing to Board a plane with 200 passengers knowing the Pilot and Crew were snorting a a cokes. W. Hill Fairfax a. Dear Abby dear Abby As both a police officer and attorney 1 have had the Opportunity to examine the different sides of the drug Issue. Drug related crime is not limited solely to the dealers. The user must support his her habit. John g. Iannarelli san Diego dear Abby i am 11 years old and in fifth Grade and read the letter from the attorney who said drugs should be Legal. I think that a stupid. I am in . Drug abuse resistance education class and i have Learned a lot about drugs. If drugs were Legal kids might use them thinking they Are harmless. Well they arc Nob drugs can kill you if you use them a lot. Kelley a. Grosshuesch Batavia ill. Dear messes. Riley Hill and Iannarelli and Kelley thanks for expressing your views concerning the legalization of drugs. Letters for this column should be addressed to Doar Abby Al . Box 447, mount Morris Iii. 61054. 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