European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 20, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday july 20, 1994 is the stars and stripes Page 19 dear Ann Landers you always take the Side of the female and i am sick of it. You keep saying men should clean up their act and go see a therapist. You constantly admonish your male readers to Brush up on their bedroom skills and Tell a it we have a problem. You Are right. We have a hell of a prob ice and the reason is because darned few women really care about sex. For them it is a duty somewhat disgusting and a Royal pain in the Keister. I married a Virgin but i knew on our wedding night that sex was never going to be a breathless part of our lives. Its been 45 years Nowa a Bettye is a wonderful Mother to four outstanding children. She gave it her Best and out of respect for our wedding vows in be remained True to her and i am still hanging around. Betty lives in one end of the House and i live in the other. She Hasni to been in my bed for years. I. Can Only imagine the pleasure and fun i have missed out on for the past 20 years. And we Only go around once. Sad Isnit it a a Southern Florida dear Florida its worse than sad. Its tragic. In a sorry you did no to write to me 20 years ago. I was around then and would Ann Landers sex Only As duty have been Happy to help. But maybe its not too Fate. Instead of letting your marriage dry up completely i urge you to get Betty to a Counselor. Maybe she has a Side of the Story that you need to hear. Dear Ann Landers my daughter who recently divorced her husband of 15 years is planning to remarry this summer. My husband and i Are very supportive but we Are faced with a dilemma. Please help us make the right decision. A a a Donna has asked us to take the photographs of her first wedding off the family room Wall so As not to offend. Her new fined. Our former son in Law comes to the House quite often with the grandchildren since he was deeply Hurt by the divorce we have always made an extra Effort to include him whenever possible and be especially cordial. If these photographs were removed it would be noticed immediately and could damage our Friendship. Should we remove the pictures and risk an already strained relationship or should i go out and Purchase double picture frames and display photos of both past and present husbands distressed in Pebble Beach Calif. Dear Pebble one wedding to a Wall please. Place the first wedding pictures in a Lovely album and keep Iton the correctable. A in should to addressed to her at . Box 11562 Chicago. Ill 60611-0562.a a a. A. C creators Syndicate. Today a crossword Don t panic his tests not foolproof dear readers a few weeks ago i published a letter from a Reader who said he had received a positive result from an his test and was advised to be retested in six months. The writer was so frightened that he decided he wait so he sought a second opinion immediately. The. Specialist he consulted told him that because he had no real risk factors the ulv Posi tic result was probably a false positive a and repeated the tests for the human immunodeficiency virus. This time the re suits were negative. His purpose in writing was to Alert others to the fact that false positives on aids tests can Stem from sever a a a Al factors including flu shots and pregnancy. His letter generated More responses a two of which i would like to share dear Abby regarding the letter in which i a Reader urged you to Alert people to the possibility of false positives on his tests the Large number of false positives from the Elisa his screening test the most commonly used test caused the Florida legislature in 1988 to specify that a positive result May not be disclosed until the More a dear Abby curate Western blot test has also been done. You should be aware. However that the Elisa screening test also generates a number of false negatives some of which Are a result of the so called a window period a the time shortly after infection when a person is capable of transmitting his although tests cannot detect the antibodies. The Public needs to understand that a positive test result is not an immediate death sentence nor is a negative result a License for reckless behaviour. 1 Alan h. Terl attorney at Law fort Lauderdale Fla. Dear Abby from 1985 to 1987,1 was director of the worlds first and largest licensed Laboratory for confirming his blood tests. We confirmed the Elisa tests by using the More accurate Western blot test. It those who Are told that they have been tested positive for his should immediately ask if the Western blot test was done and if it Wasny to they should request it. If the Western blot test is also positive the patient should not panic because even this test can be in error. 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