European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 22, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday july 22, 1994 the stars and stripes Page 25 woman still grieving after 12 years today a crossword dear Ann Landers i am a 45-year-old widower currently dating a 40-year- old divorced woman. The problem is i done to think a a Amanda has Ever recovered from the loss of her first True love a the Young Man to whom she lost her virginity. He died 12 years ago in a Small plane crash and the trauma devastated her. I understand How such a tragedy can leave scars but Amanda still goes to pieces on his birthday the anniversary of the Day they met and the Day he died and so on. She keeps his picture in her bedroom and makes no. Secret of the fact that she is still mourning this loss. She also has frequent bouts of depression which i believe Stem from this unresolved trauma. I have suggested to Amanda that she see a Counselor but she insists it help and says i should accept her the Way she. Is. A. A after All these years do you believe it is Normal for a person to be so depressed should i walk away from this relationship is there any Hope that Amanda will get Over her grief no name no province just hurting in Canada dear Canada if you want to spend the rest of your life with a woman who is severely neurotic stick with Amanda. Granted she experienced a terrible tragedy but that was 12 years ago. The fact that Amanda refuses to seek Ann Landers help for her depression should Tell you something. If you marry this woman in a afraid you la end up needing counselling. Dear Ann Landers i spent some time in prison recently and was incarcerated with a Man who like me participated in an outside work program. At one of the first places we worked As labourers a a same met a very attractive older woman. This woman and her husband were having marital difficulties so Sam seized the Opportunity and became Friendly. The lady was quite influential and arranged to have Sam transferred to a work facility closer to her Home. She visited frequently and bought him expensive gifts. Sam did a lot of bragging about his Conquest. He told everyone that life is much easier if you can get a Rich woman to a fall for when he was released from prison the woman met him at the Gate and drove him to her Home. I done to know How this affair turned out but All the inmates i knew who had Contact with women on the outside were trying to get something out of them and they bragged about it. I thought your readers should know. Sex con in Sacramento dear Saca it a. A. Thanks for the warning. It brings to mind the old adage a none is so Blind As he who will not letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago. Iii. 60611-0562 c creators Syndicate tips on making life after death easier dear Abby v in a world where Many marriages no longer last a lifetime and divorce is common a few words of advice May help prevent much heartache for those we love the most. Parents who have remarried and have adult children would be doing their children a kindness if 1. They have written plans for their funeral and have made provisions for its costs. 2. They have discussed in Advance the passing on of heirlooms pictures Etc. Parents might want to consider having copies made of family photos for All the children. It is Wise to go through the household and make written instructions stating who should have what. 3. Parents took the time to write a family and or personal history for their children and grandchildren. Copies of All of the above dear should be Given to the current Abby spouse the children and a lawyer. This will protect both the 1 spouse and the children. Abby we done to like to think about death or look at the negative possibilities that can result from it but thinking ahead can prevent untold difficulties. I know. My father lies in an unmarked grave because his fourth and last wife refused to pay for the $6,000 funeral that she had arranged. Live and learn dear live and learn your letter provides one of the strongest arguments in favor of prenuptial agreements that i have Ever seen. It is a Wake up Call for anyone who has been previously married and is contemplating remarriage. Dear Abby we have a Lovely Home and our Garden is protected by a High thorny Fence that has not prevented invasion of our privacy by literally hundreds of helicopter flights. Many swoop at rooftop level within a few feet of our Pool. I suppose there is nothing you can do about this but i just had to let off some steam. No privacy in Palos Verdes Calif dear no privacy not All helicopter pilots flying overhead Are out for Joy rides. 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