European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 28, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Thursday july 28, 1994 dear Ann Landers i am a Young Man of 29 and have a wife who is 33. A a Mazie has two children 11 and 13. Age has never been a problem with us. The Only thing i find to complain about is that we have been married for two years and have yet to celebrate an anniversary together. Mazie you see is in the army. No she was not in the army before we got married. She decided she had to do something meaningful with her life and joined up. I agreed to take care of the kids so she could go to Basic train ing. We missed celebrating our first two wedding anniversaries. Mazie told me yesterday that we May be apart for another year because she will be in Germany. I love Mazie very much and would do anything to make this marriage work but i can no longer take being without her on our anniversary. Bedford Texas dear bed id say you be earned at least two Good conduct Mcd als so please done to blow it now. Planes Fly both ways. Make plans to celebrate your anniversary in Germany with Mazie. If you. Make arrangements far in Advance Mazie May be Able to get a weekend pass and you can get a cheaper ticket. Best wishes to you both. Ann Landers not Wun Derbar dear Ann Landers thank you for printing that intelligent response from Robert Crandall chairman of american airlines. Its time More people understood Why they Are not allowed to pass on an airline ticket to a Friend or relative if they arc unable to use it themselves. I would also like to Point out that if you were to use a ticket issued in another persons name and the plane had an Accident the passenger list would show the other persons name not yours. Can you imagine the confusion if family members did not know you were on that plane there would be More chaos when the insurance company tried to pay your heirs. Further problems would result if you used another persons ticket for International travel. Passports Are checked at the ticket counter right along with the ticket. I can see the Long lines at Juk getting longer while the confusion resulting from a handed Down ticket is being sorted out. A passengers name can be changed in the computer before ticketing but after the ticket has been issued it is virtually impossible. Washington travel agent dear agent thanks for shedding More Light on this subject. The Public needs to understand the importance of playing it straight with the airlines. Your letter should help. A letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago 111. 60611-0562. A. Quot a a c creators Syndicate. Broken promises can break kids hearts dear Abby i teach fifth Grade in a Public school. Many students face a great Deal of adversity and disappointment. Last month i gave them an assignment that entailed writing a a dear Abby letter a either real or imaginary. Needless to say there were Many letters dealing with the usual complaints about siblings. However one student submitted a letter about one of the biggest problems affecting children today parents who fail to keep their promises. I am sending that letter to you. If you publish it perhaps parents will take notice. Phoenix schoolteacher dear Abby sometimes i get so mad at my mom because she says she is going to come Home at a certain time but she never does. She also tells me she is going to take me somewhere when she gets Home so i wait and wait and wait. No mom. Then when she finally gets Home it s too late to go. This really gets me mad. What advice can you give me steamed in Phoenix dear Abby dear steamed calmly Tell your Mother that her broken promises disappoint and anger you. Explain How important it is to you to spend time together. All parents regardless of How Busy they Are must first be there for their children. If they have to schedule time together so be it that s a fact of modern lire. But parents who make promises to their kids and then continually break them Are setting the stage for a bitter and Loveless relationship. Dear Abby i Hope you wont think this is too dumb to answer but when i kiss my Boyfriend i always keep my eyes closed but sometimes i open them for a split second just to see if he has his closed too. Abby his eyes Are always open. Docs this mean anything i think if a fellow is really enjoying a kiss As much As he should he would keep his eyes closed. Am i wrong and should i mention this to him Melanie dear Melanie maybe he keeps his eyes open to see if anybody is watching. Don t make an Issue of it. Traditionally love is Blind. Letters Tor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris ill. 61054. 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