European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 6, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday october 6,1994 the stars and stripes Page 21 7 2-year-old s sex life worries mom today a crossword dear Ann Landers recently found out that my 12-Ycar-old daughter has had sex. I am a single mom age 36, and need to know How to Deal with this. A a Lori and i have always been close. I have talked to her about sex and am very Hurt that she did not confide in me. She is a Latchkey kid arid alone in the House for several hours until i get Home from work. When i confronted her she promised me that she have sex again and begged me to Trust her. In a not surveil can. Should i put her on birth control or take a Chance arid rely on her word Windsor ont. Dear Windsor i do not recommend that you accept Loris word. The record shows that her word is not very Good. The first thing you must do is take Lori to a doctor and find out if she has a venereal disease. Then ask the doctor what he would recommend in this regard. He has in a sure seen other very Young girls who have had sex. Next arrange for her to go to a girlfriends House or a neighbors after school a few Days a week so she Isnit alone so much. And please Sec that Lori gets counsels ing. She must hear from someone other than you what Ann Landers her life will be like if she continues Down Tomt hazardous Road. A a dear Ann Landers after Reading the letter from the Bride in Long Island who did no to want children at her wedding i had to write Ribout my own experience. My husband and i received a wedding invitation. It was made Clear that children were not Welcome. We politely declined and sent a Beautiful card of congratulations. Several months later i asked my sister in Law to Tell me about the wedding. She laughed and said rat while no children were present the brides Uncle had a terrible coughing spell right in the Middle of the ceremony. His wife began to Pound him on the Back and alter Natch Between asking him if he was Alt right and telling him in a voice that could be heard in the Back of the. Church to a be the poor Man finally had to leave the Sanctuary climbing Over several people coughing and saying a excuse me Quot about every 10 seconds. A a a a a. A a a a a a a a a a a a a a a a a a a a a a every time i hear about a Bride who does no to want children at her wedding because they might disrupt the ceremony i think of this incident and san tic. Constant Reader in Union by. Dear Union thanks for an amusing letter. A letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to Herat . Box 11562. Cal Eago Iii. 60611 -0562. A a. C creator Syndicate a. Turned off by Shower tactless Ness dear Abby help i am involved in a Sticky situation and need your opinion. I recently received an invitation in the mail titled a Shower by Shower was being Given by the Mother of the Bride who lives in a Distant state. Knowing that i would not attend. I was asked to Send a gift to the Bride s Mother to be opened at the Shower. I had never met the Bride to be. She happens to be engaged to the son of the woman my widowed father has been dating for years. In be met the son a a but Only for a few Holiday dinners. When i received this Shower invitation my initial reaction was one of disbelief. There was no . Indicated simply an1 address to where the gift should be sent. I was so offended by the whole thing that i sent nothing. The Shower has come and gone. Unfortunately it has not been forgotten by my fathers a Friend Quot who has made it Clear that she noticed. 1 had not sent a gift a she has been acting very standoffish. Abby should i have sent a gift even though i had never Irieta the Bride to be and was not really invited to dear Abby the Shower a. Showered with confusion dear showered fou need feel no remorse nor guilt. You were not a tidally invited to anything you were simply Given the a a privilege of contributing a gift to a Shower. However in View of the fact that the grooms Mother had been dating your father for a number of years you might have handled the situation More generously and sent a Token gift with a note offering congratulations and Best wishes to the Bride and Groom. For the record it is improper for the Mother of the Bride to give a Shower for her own daughter. Dear Abby please help Settle an argument Between my husband and me. Should a Many a socks match his shoes a or his suit my husband has two pairs of Dreps shoes on is a tannish color and the other is Black. Which pair of shoes should he Wear with a Gray suit and what color socks should he. Wear should his socks match his suit or his shoes the battling bernsteins dear battling bernsteins although the sky fall if or. A wore the Tan shoes with the Gray suit a Man would Wear Black shoes and Gray socks with a Gray suit. 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