European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 29, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 26 the stars and stripes tuesday november 29,1994 family nudity liberates Only unease today s crossword dear Ann Landers three months ago a fellow i work with told me that he and his wife had been going to a nude Beach on weekends and that it was very i thought of Well. To each his yesterday Bud informed me that their 15-year-old daughter is going to the nude Beach with them for the first time. He could Tell that i was startled. He then explained that going to a nude Beach will make the girl feel More comfortable with he body and less curious about the bodies of males. He figures it will keep her from wanting to explore and Experiment with the opposite sex. -. Am i being a prude or i something wrong Here i need help with this. Too conservative in Fla ? dear too Conse Ryave ? in answer to your questions 1 you Are not a prude and 2 something is indeed wrong. Had your Friend s daughter been reared to be accustomed to family nudity it would be a different Story. To Ann Landers i can t dear Abby i have read your column for Many years. Now i find myself in need of your years ago i was exposed to genital herpes. I have not dated anyone since then. Recently i met a very Nice Man and have gone out with him a few Are very much attracted to each other. We re not kids we Are both Over 25. I live in a Small town an people talk. I believe in honest about this but discuss my situation with any one. I feel totally alone Al though i am sure there Are others who share my problem. My question when should Itell this Man i have herpes alone in Colorado dear alone you May feel alone but you Are far from it. An estimated 40million americans have become infected with herpes about one in four adults. Les than half of them Are aware of it As you know the out Breaks come and go and although they Are sometimes inconvenient they Are not life threatening. The herpes resource Center has a network of about100 local support groups around the country which provide information and emotional support and offer the Opportunity to talk about your situation or listen to others in a confidential environment. The purpose of these meetings is to share experiences and obtain a broader knowledge of How the virus affects others who have it. Talking openly relieves much of the stress embarrassment and confusion about living with herpes. Quibble dear Abby Yoo the Ider of it Potase Vou be to Teriw 1m?r?fc� not it. I m sorg Khatee r\6ie to of a. The wer flans its. I Oftie Figot a Harte to 066 inert x never 60ttonuk6 it in t Fai be introduced to nudity at the age of 15 is something else. Today a 15-year-old is More of a woman than a child. To suddenly see her father nude could be upset Ting and possibly sexually stimulating. I vote to deep six the idea. It s a Bummer. Dear Ann Landers my husband and i have two children under age 8,when we go out for an evening we pay a very Lovely intelligent 17-year-old woman to stay with them. The kids love Kate and she would be difficult to replace. Kate s religious beliefs Are different from ours which never was a problem until recently it seems she has been talking a great Deal to our children about religion he Sand they Are becoming terribly husband wants to find another Sitter. I hate to do this because the children love her. Please advise. A 1- Sedalia to. Dear to " a Kate sounds As if she is proselytizing. If this is True she probably will not Stop. I suggest you listen to your husband and find another Sitter. Letters to Ann Landers should a addressed to her at , Box 11562, Chi Cago w. 60611 -0562.c creators Syndicate Hrc is a program of the american social health association whose services include a National herpes hotline support groups and a quarterly journal on herpes. For information about the services Call 800 230-6039 or Send $1 postage and handling to herpes resource Center Asha dept. Pr46, . Box 13827, research Triangle Park . 27709. No self addressed stamped envelope is required Asha has recently published a very informative Book aptly titled managing herpes by Charles Ebel available at the above address. It is priced at $19.75 includes postage and handling. Now to answer your question Tell your Friend before you engage in any intimate Contact that might put him at risk. -. /., dear Abby " t7v with regard to the term Over and put please Tel Jim bar Hart to lighten up. I flew the big Bird during the big War yes we had radio Way Back in the Early Mosso i understand the Correct usage of Over and out it was the Hollywood version used in patriotic War movies. Who cares if it was not proper radio procedure it was a fun thing and we used it a lot and still do along with a few other no proper expressions. I doubt that when Jim uses the cd radio phrase Over to you Good buddy he even knows the person he s talking to. So to Jim Barnhart i say please Don t blow you top. Fly Low and slow. Ken in Dallas letters Tor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447 mount Morris. Ill 61054. C Universal press Syndicate across 1 door Frame part 5 dudgeon the expense account 8 put you feat in your mouth12garfield s pal 13 nosed 14 Kansas City 15 Jamaica s capital 1ttooconfident 10 Seine summer 19 Yon Bloke 20 frauds21 status 22 Story of a lifetime 23 roughly 26 intricate 30 finished 31 Pilaitis step of 32 annoy 33 add sucrose 35 Brilliant in color 36 without delay 37 Singer Davis 38 exemplar of silliness 41 roast pig Side dish 42 irs employee 45 actress petty46 place for temporary sales48 Don Juan s mother49 Gorilla 50 shakespearean villain 51 foun Dation 52 kids card game 530rgforward down1 Mono Logu fragment 2 Entrance. 3. 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