European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 14, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 24 the stars and stripes wednesday december 14,1994 she s an ouf Cash in Virgin territory today s crossword dear Ann Landers Michael age 25, and i were going together for three months. He is a Virgin and does t believe in sex before marriage. I told him virginity was not important to me arid admitted that i had had sex once to see what it was like. By v v Michael made it Clear As he drove me Home that he believes sex before marriage is. Wrong and that he was disappointed in me. He said goodbye with tears in his  did t phone for two Days so i called him and left word on his answering machine. It s been five Days and i be heard nothing Ann this Guy is a prize and i want him. How can i get Michael to understand that sex is just a part of life Portland Maine Carport Michael knows what Century it is. That s not the prob Lem. He is looking for a Virgin and you Don t qualify. Forget about this Man. Dear Ann Landers you recently printed a letter from a teacher who with at least 100 children in the hallway witnessed a hitting kicking screaming Tantrum thrown by a special needs student who was assigned to a regular classroom. That letter brought up a dilemma for educators Espe Ann Landers daily principals. I seriously doubt that anyone would disagree that a principal should keep the school Safe by taking Quick action and removing a violent student from class but i wonder How Many of your readers know that the Vio Lent child May be right Back in class in  Federal Law called the individuals with disabilities education act was written 20 years ago to help special needs children by making their experience in school As Normal As possible. Today this Law makes it virtually impossible to discipline or expel these children even if they become violent. Nor can they be expelled if they come to school with weapons. The individuals with disabilities education act is up for review next year. We would like to update this Law to ensure that All youngsters can be protected while they get Art education. Fred Brown president National association of elementary school principals Boyertown a. Dear or. Brown thank you for a letter that millions of teachers parents and students Mil applaud. I Hope when the individuals with disabilities education act comes up for review it will be updated to reflect today s needs. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chat Cago Iii. 60611-0562. C creator Syndicate of Vas a m dear Abby you recently asked for wedding horror stories so we Are sending ours. The vocalist at the ceremony the Bride s sister got so emotional in the Middle of her Solo she choked up burst into tears and was unable to sing an other note. Then when the minister asked the friends and family to signify their blessings of the Union a Little girl shrieked at the top of her lungs no in the Middle of the outdoor reception rain began to fall. Immediately following the Cere Mony the Groom had to change from his Tuxedo into his Street clothes because his Best Man who was going to return the Groom s Tux to the rental place got an emergency phone Call and had to leave Early. The two bartenders got drunk left the bar and started dancing with the female  everybody started helping themselves to the liquor. And guess what we be never had a better time at a wedding. It All depends on your attitude. If you re up tight about every Little thing that does t go As planned you la have a horrible time life is like that totally unpredictable and much More fun if you just take things a they come. Jan and had Dayr in Minneapolis quibble dear Abby dear Jan and had Dayr there Are times when a sense of humor can turn what some would Call a tragedy into a comedy. And this was one of them. Congratulations dear Abby. This letter is in response to the woman who was contemplating a caesarean Section in order to avoid the pain of childbirth. Believe me Youlio not avoid pain with a caesarean. I know. I had a Normal delivery with my first child after 12 hours of painful delivery and a caesarean with my second child. If i had had the caesarean first i doubt that i would have had a second baby. While the pain of Normal childbirth was no picnic when it was Over it was Over and the recovery time was relatively Short about two weeks. With the caesarean my recovery period was eight weeks and i was much More incapacitated and in far More pain than i had been with my natural birth. Plus i have an ugly 8-Inch scar across my lower Tummy that is sore and itches from time to time. Trust me natural i better. Had it both ways in Scottsdale Ariz. Dea hadit i believe you. And i have a stack of letters on my desk re iterating your testimony. Letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447. Mount Morris 111.61054. /. C Universal press Syndicate across 1 hangout for Andy Capp 4 hour Glass fill 8 footballers Protection 12 Plato s h 13 verifiable .43 test the Waters 44 approves 46 bashful or Grumpy 50 defendant s absolution 55 Bear hair 3 silents Star Theda 4 dancer. Choreographer Ruth 5 actress Meyers 6 microns precedes 56 outside the 7 obligation 14 Ven i opera Baseline 15 children s 57 staffer card game 58 citric quaff 16 no longer 59 Prince pre a lawyer of curation 18 disgrace 60 interpret 20 Teeter Tot 61 Catcher s Ter quorum place 21lesetats Down 24 Camel s Cousin 28 juries findings 32 sch. Before or. 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