European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 16, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday december 16, 1994 the stars and stripes a family Falls apart after vicious lie Page 31 dear Ann Landers you recently printed a letter about a Man who after Many years of paying Chad support discovered that the daughter he thought was his had been fathered by an other Man. I have two adult daughters. Their father and i have been divorced since the girl were Small. He paid child sup port for both children until the turned 18. Until recently neither girl was close to her dad. Last sum Mer however the eldest Annie took a trip to visit him and they while she was there her father told her there was a possibility Thatcher younger sister Jane was not really his daughter. Annie waited to Spring this news until both she and Jane were visiting their paternal grandmother in the Hospital before she died. Annie told Jane she believes this Story. When Jane told me about it i confronted Annie an told her that this was nonsense and that there was never a possibility that Jane was anyone s child but my sex husband s. She made it Plain that she did t believe me. We Haven t spoken since nor has Annie spoken to Jane. Jane wrote her father an angry letter and suggested he submit to a paternity test. He not Only ignored her request but wrote Back stating that All letters received either from me or from her would be returned in Ann Landers opened. Our entire family is now estranged because of Thisbe. I Don t know Why my former husband would do this or Why Annie would want to believe it. It hurts when i think their grandmother May have gone to her grave thinking Jane was not really he granddaughter. The cruel timing of this wild Story is the meanest act i have Ever witnessed. What do you make of it. Dear mom Mesa mom unfortunately there is Little you can do now about your sex husband s vicious lie. I Pray that time will work some Miracle and Anniewill come Back to the fold on her own. Until then no begging or pleading. Hold your head up and maintain your dignity. I Hope that Annie is a Reader and that this column will make a difference. Dear Ann Landers i have been involved with a Beautiful intelligent in dependent woman for seven months. We get along very Well and Are compatible in every Way but one she is 11years older than i am. "charlene"is32.iam21. Frustrated in michigander Michigan i suggest that you both be on the Lookout for other romantic possibilities. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chi Cago. Iii. 60611-0562. C creators Syndicate. V horizons sometimes just too colourful dear Abby i be been told that i look Good in Blue every Shade from Pale Blue to Royal Blue. My wife thinks i should Widen my horizons and since she does most of the shopping occasionally she will bring Home colors that make Jne wince. One time she bought me yellow shirt with Matching Yel Low pants a yellow tie and you guessed it Bright yellow socks Abby i m 6-foot-3 and i dyed my shoes Orange i would have locked like big Bird hopping Down the Street. I think she knew she overdid it when she asked you do like it Don t you All i could answer was keep in mind she is free to select whichever color she wants to Wear and she can even choose the color we paint the House. But my question is at age 45,should my taste prevail or must i resign myself to hav ing my horizons widened in this personal area tweetie in Brooksville Fla Dea tweetie your wife s taste seems to be for the quibble dear Abby you Are old enough to make your own choices so come the fourth of july declare your Independence and do your own shopping. Dear Abby my husband died three weeks ago of liver failure. We had been married for 18 years. He was Only 40years old. Our children and i Are experiencing an immense amount of grief. Abby please advise your readers not to say Well a least he s not in pain or suffering people do not realize How that can tear a grieving person apart. It May seem selfish but i wish to god that i was still taking care of him and helping him through his pain and suffering. At least he would still be with us. Selfish in Seattle dear selfish in Seattle those who use that phrase Are thinking Only of the release from suffering of the person who has died not the one s left behind to Bear the pain of their own grief. " -. Perhaps the safest thing to say to someone who has lost a loved one is i m sorry about your loss period. Letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447,mount Morris. 111.61054. Nw6 Davs feb my Art i Don t Holme Fly for Chi Lusthas of Tufts i Dom t mag a tree outta 6�f Orte 08. To Hervig up a Tiv stupid c Universal press Syndicate nov know cfu4cc, x attn re the a Ali. 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