European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 08, 1995, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 22 the stars and stripes her Man Friday septembers 1995 so this is Dotty your Junior fell the minute you got h1a\ kid next to him snore a. During Nap. Time of is first pay succumbing to or. A of Ipoh hoc rough consequences dear Ann Landers this is for the woman from Southern California who is having an affair with her married physician. Just because this Man has a License to practice medi Ken the code of ethics with other female patients Aswell. I succumbed to the charms of my physician a few years ago and have been ashamed of myself Ever since. Or. Smooth told me he needed the emotional an physical attention he did t get at Home and i was the perfect person to provide it. When i regained my senses i reported this physician to the state medical Board. He had to move to another state to practice Medicine. I am Happy to say my marriage survived this sordid affair. I have Learned a lot about Why i let this happen to me and what i need to do to keep my marriage Strong. I am also proud of myself for having had the courage to blow the whistle on this Man despite the embarrassment it caused me i Hope my letter will appear in print. It could give other women the strength they need to get out of these crippling Learned in Toledo Ohio dear Toledo Yon Are Noble to want to accept part of the blame for the affair but the onus is on the doctor. It is the responsibility of the professional to keep hands off the patient. He or she is in the position of Power and should never take advantage of a patient s vulnerability. Dear Ann Landers several Days ago my careless Ness could have Cost me my life. I want to pass on a warning to you readers. On my Way to my car grabbed the mail and tossed it onto the passenger seat and then ran some errands. When arrived Home there was a strange looking Man waiting forme in front of the garage. I decided to use the car phone to Call the police it seems the mail had been in the parking lot of the grocery store where i had shopped earlier in the Day. He said he liked my looks and proceeded to checkout my car which i had locked. He saw the mail addressed to me on the front seat and decided to come Tomy House. .-y.,. " a r Ann Landers when the police came the Man claimed he meant no harm and left. This incident ended peacefully but shudder to think what might have happened. How Sim ple it would have been to put the mail in my purse out of View but i just did t think about it. Please warn . Y y.,y. ,. Safe in the suburb dear Safe r a by a you did and i thank you. Dear Ann Landers i thought you might get a kick out of this old invitation. Clarence was my Uncle. A l. ,.". Shakopee Minn. You Are cordially invited to attend a wedding dance Given in Honor of Ilene k. And Clarence s. Tues Day evening july 11, 1939, at 8 o clock at the Zephyr inn Yin Hill / a on the Back of the invitation in the Bride s hand writing was this message please do not bring a present. Just put some Money in an envelope with your name on it and hand it to the Bride a a ,-./\1 letters to this column should be addressed to Ann Landers co the stars and stripes unit 29480, Apo 09211. Y c orators Syndicate. There s much for widows to Shore other Shoh 0 bed dear Abby you vere right on target when you advised Gen the Jan to Tell his women intends that he is impotent. I am a 68-year-old widow who would dearly love to know such a gentleman. Unfortunately All the men i Hemet in the four years i be been a. Widow seem obsessed with proving they re still As Good As they were or thought they were at 25. They fail to realize that Many women in our age group Don t really care that much about sex. Not that we have anything against it it s just that Many of shave lived without it often for years before the death of our husbands and have Learned contrary to popu Lar opinion that it can be done i have Many widowed friends. Every one of them Hassid that sex is the thing she misses least. Having some one to share meals thoughts plans to go. Places with to cuddle talk laugh and joke with that is what we really miss. To be told you re a desirable woman May give us a momentary thrill but i love the Way you laugh you make the Best Apple pie in the county or evenly dog likes you and he s never wrong about people would be More meaningful. Gentleman a lady friends probably would be relieved to know he s not going to be making passes at them and once they know they and he can relax adjust enjoy being together. Just As men Don t want to admit they re impotent women Don t want to admit their own physical prob lems that detract from their enjoyment of sex. We Don t want to be thought of As Whin ers or As using the old not to-1 night dear i have a headache bit. Abby there is so much in life that is better shared other thana bed. How sad that Many older people Are doomed to live put their lives alone because Treyve been led to believe that everyone must have an Active sex life. If for whatever reason we re unable or simply Don twant to have sex we Are feel practically worthless. There was a time when people had sex because they wanted to and not because they were expected to now those were the Days widow you would be amazed to know the number of women dear Abby who have written to me Over the years to Echo your sentiments. The Price that s been paid for the sexual Revo Lution is an unfortunate decline in Romance. Dear Abby i thought washing machines were to be used for washing clothing. I observed the following when i went to the laundry room in my apartment building a woman who works at a Beauty shop came in and dumped a Large bag of into the washing machine As if they were clothes Aren t Beauty shops supposed to use a sanitary to clean rollers and other items used in their profession there can be All kinds of bugs and Transfer Able diseases on some human Heads that can be Given to unsuspecting individuals who May have to spend hundreds of dollars to obtain a cure for Scalp problems even hair loss. I think it s disgusting and irresponsible. What is the answer amazed in Birmingham amazed Calm Down dear. Disinfectant can be added to the water to kill every living creature. Letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby co the stars and stripes unit 29480. Apo 09211. C Universal press Syndicate Call the Usa Only per min. 06221-12140/12178. From Germany Zurich Lloyd
