European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - March 17, 2007, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday March 17 2007 stars and stripes o Page 25 family argues Over single Man that scrambled word game by Henri Arnold and Mike Argirion dear Abby my sister Jane and i Are both in our mid sos Jane has had numer Ous affairs Over the past several years after her third divorce and was involved in an intimate relationship with a terrific Man will that lasted about three months Jane broke up with will several months after she decided he want what she was looking for and Shes presently engaged to be married to a very Nice Man and seems very Happy i dated will several times before he and Jane became involved we we rent intimate at that time and we started seeing each other again Over the last month this time we have fallen in love my problem is Jane is upset that will and i Are together and says i have betrayed her she is worried about hav ing her former and current lovers present at family gatherings and our parents Are also concerned they say its just weird the fact that my sister was intimate with will Doest bother me or will but it sure bothers them Abby i have always been the Good girl in the family and bowed under their pres Pear Abby sure but my relation ship with will is More than i could have Ever imagined and i dont want to give up my future happiness just to make my sister and my parents More comfortable my adult children have All met and approve of will and our relationship but Jane and my parents wont Budge any suggestions wants will in Walla Walla Wash dear wants will perhaps its time to Stop being the Good girl begin acting like a woman who knows what she and confront the double Standard in your family if your sister was sophisticated enough to have serial affairs and your parents have been so worldly they have turned a Blind Eye to it then they should All be adult enough to realize that you Are entitled to your happiness too although this May make for some awkward first few fam ily gatherings As grownups everyone should be Able to get past it but if they cant you Are going to have to decide whether you want this Man or to be a people leaser for the rest of your life unscramble these four jumbles one letter to each Square to form four Ordinary words s Tribune Media services inc All rights reserved s s May the most you wish for be the least you get May the Best times youve Ever had be the worst you will Ever see Happy St Patricks Day letters for this column with your name and phone number should be addressed to dear Abby to Box 69440 los Angeles Ca 90069 readers can write to Abby on the internet at Universal press Syndicate s s v  we must preserve its history and architecture in the Talu 0uiupin6 wa5 5avep from demolition be cause it Hap a now arrange the circled letters to form the Surprise answer As suggested by the above cartoon a s s v s s s n s answers monday jumbles twice Gamut Crayon Spruce answer the statesman was Given this when he arrived for the Summit a report a of pretty Good rat How d you i thanks ust for asking id that thank Speed bump Owh Kusold still what s the sync with their u that is so iou Noone secon Pewere App worst to lose our happened heaps for breaking deed restrictions and the next Sec on were mho writes this stuff Tefie new textbook i i Kofu kelp the Complete work i of written in Tine language of a text message