European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 17, 2007, Darmstadt, Hesse                                20 stars and stripes june 200 sunday Horoscope the Moon in Leo celebrates while Saturn highlights the lessons of the Pope John xxii it is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real fathers reflect solar values of kindness and if dad gave those to we can count our selves among the fortunate Holiday and today birthday june youre Only getting sometimes this requires hard but this year youre effective and efficient in your approach to self improve the Money youve waited for comes this Romance busies your theres a vacation to remember in your connections with Leo and Virgo people bring much your Lucky numbers Are and Aries March 21april it May be but More preparation Doest necessarily Lead to better sometimes you psych yourself or spend your Energy theres Genius in winging Taurus april 20may include others in your fun and youll be doing them a being useful to others is a huge ego letting someone serve you May be the Best gift you could give them gemini May 21june your so called support group feels More like a bring Youdon youve no Chance to be needy because youre so in a weird this is youre learning your own cancer june 22july you could Wile away hours on philosophical but practical mat ters also need your take care of your so fill be there for you when you need ready to do what you need it to Leo july your self esteem is bolstered by hanging out with your Best Friend at least that s How it should do your own seize the Opportunity to Fly Solo and under the Virgo Celebration is an essential part of tonight features momentous exhilaration As your plan comes take the credit youre and ride this wonderful feeling for All if s Bra ifs easy to get overwhelmed by All there is to know about your latest but a few Well honed questions to your resident know tall will produce surprisingly Bountiful Springs of Scorpio you encourage your Friend and Hope she might but Multi there Are Only two choices surrender to unconditional or go in a separate Sagittarius today features the Best kind of dilemma the kind that easily you dont even need to buy anything to do what you have is what you Capricorn youre doing a lot of the same things you did last but make no mistake this is Mathis a Unicie time in your life the moments you Are sailing through can never be experienced the same Way aquarius because youre so others want to pitch in and help theres something to be said for having a con Crete goal in every one wants to share in that Pisces 19march what Little you really need out of life you can provide the stable and empowered feeling that comes from this realization is a love autonomy is Ultra at forecast for the week ahead the suns entry into cancer this week Marks the sum Mer that special time of year to Honor Trie Harvest the summer Harvest is succulent we buy the sweetest berries at the grocer and enjoy the Best life has to while knowing nothing lasts clinging to the nostalgia of summertime inno Cence stymies that cancer destiny in each of eternal Over and when the cancer Sun yields to she transforms the Beautiful Blossom into a Nour Ishing piece of her willing Ness to shift with the seasons makes her life but it also makes her extremely Sensi cancer feels the Downs and the Speed bumps feel like mountains the to survive the Sun in cancer Leams to harmonize with the time of life she finds herself in her people and a secret to creative cooking a cancer Joy is pairing vegetables a Rutabaga and Rhu Barb do not but rhubarb and strawberries More cancer common sense follow Mother natures Honor the but dont bind yourself to be live creatively and simply in the season of life in which you find celebrity profiles we All have a critic but letting the critic Call the shots is a dangerous proposition for not for Roger when this gemini opines on we his planet Saturn aka everyone critic is in its All rela Tive where he investigates the facts before giving the this Ebert earns himself a big thumbs up for focus ing on his health and creators Syndicate granddaughters attitude creates gift giving dilemma dear Abby we have a 17yearold granddaughter who has not spoken to us in six we sent Tiffany a Christmas card with a Check inside and she didst even Call to thank she cashed the Check we received an invitation to her Grade it was sent by her Mother i know the my Hus band says we should not go to her graduation because she Hast called us in six even to say he says we should just Send a Nice card with no please help what should i do Tiffany is my and i dont want to do the wrong she does have an attitude faithful Reader in Nashville dear faithful Reader if you think Tiffany has an attitude just wait until she Doest receive what she thinks is com ing to while it is not unusual for Many people her age to be Cen tired on themselves and not stay in touch with a visit or a phone your granddaughter was rude not to acknowledge the Money you sent her for Christ what you choose to do Abby about in addition to telling her will depend upon How much Backbone you ill say this if you do not attend the its a lesson Shell remember for the rest of her dear Abby How should one respond to a gift of Flowers that either Arent satisfactory or die shortly after arrival should the recipient Contact the giver or the Florist i recently gifted Flowers to a family member and received no fewer than four phone Calls in 24 hours expressing Dis gust at the Quality of the i have taken care of the Issue with the but i am a bit taken Aback at the response i received from the frustrated Over dear frustrated four phone Calls in 24 hours from one person complaining about the Flowers id Call that the recipient was right in letting you know that you did not get your moneys Worth in the gift that you How else would you know but you should have been thanked for the thought and for your As Well As informed that you might want to change dear Abby i have had four years of really bad is there a proven method to end this Streak How is it that some folks Are Lucky at almost everything they and then there is someone like me who could really use some Good Luck any suggestions if positive thinking is your please explain that Connie in Colorado Springs dear Connie there is a theory that positive thinking attracts positive in other if you approach each Day with an optimistic you will be come More clearer in your thought process and nicer to be More people around you creates More opportunities for to fathers everywhere birth step Foster too Happy fathers one and All and to my Morton Phillips in a Happy fathers Day to my one and Only letters for this column with your name and phone number should be addressed to dear Box los Angeles Ca readers can write to Abby on the internet at Universal press Syndicate telling mate youre attracted to a coworker is unnecessary Ive been in a relationship with a wonderful Man for three last i met a really great who also in a serious we hit it off from the we talked about our stressful work Environ ment and quickly began hanging out outside the office getting going to lunch and Happy weve discussed our Mutual at on Occa have flirted past the Point of we want to stay and not jeopardize what we each have at How do i Tell my Boyfriend about my Friendship with Brian without hurting his feelings i believe honesty is always the Best and in afraid if i Start hiding feelings or keeping secrets from my Boyfriend it could Lead to other bad behaviour on my ready to come clean whenever i write that honesty actually int the Best i get piles of email from people whole heard 75 different therapists earnestly Tell some to Chat tron that you cant have real intimacy with your partner if you dont spill if two people Lack close Are they really going to Bond Over the news that one of them advice goddess has taken to bumping ugliest in the janitors closet with some third person Brian started out As your office that one special person you share your life but just from 9 to the term started catching on after a 1987 Atlantic monthly essay by David Owen describing close platonic relationships in the work place near marriages in which a Man and woman spend lots of time can talk about their underwear bunching and feel free to ransack each oth ers desks for change for the vending the limitations of this office marriage Are pan of its your office spouse knows you but not too like your who has not Only seen you on the toilet but heard you on the Bottom line is that you dont have sex with this person of for Many unfortunate peo mirrors their situation at with there had to be a Point at which you sensed Happy hour could turn into meet Happy that when you Shoul Dve reminded yourself that youre in a relationship with a wonderful and youd better stick to Well lit you find yourself flirting past the Point of exactly How far past Friendship would that be deep space or just a Little lunch cruise to second base the problem int being attracted to somebody which is a pan of but being attracted to some body else and having ethics that stretch like a Gold lame thong on a 300pound if you must be honest be honest with yourself mentioning Brian in anything More than Casu Al conversation about going son at the office is a sneaky Way to use your boyfriends ego to Light in your guilt Load and police your Why stick to self Flagellar ing when you can slap your boy Friend around so like Jimmy you Ive got lust in my this knowledge will help your boy Friend How you broke you pay for leaving your Boyfriend out of if you cant refrain from future sexual outsourcing using Good old fashioned re Frain from staying in a relation this should Cut Down considerably on the need for uncomfortable revelations save for times Public health demands you inform somebody that last weeks staff meeting actually turned out to be a staph got a problem write Amy 171 pier Santa Ca or email  copyright 2005 Amy Alkon 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