European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 05, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday october 1985 the stars and stripes Alan Landers Page 11 letters -.1 dear Ann Landers i grew up in a Large family with a wonderful Mother and a respected father who tried repeatedly to molest me starting when iwas ii. I was Able to fend him off and never told my Mother for fear of destroying her and the rest of the family. Finally when i was 16,1 told my father if he Ever tried anything on me again i would Tell everyone in the family As Well As the neighbors the minister and All our mends. He never got out of line after that. Twelve years later. I m the Mother of a Darling 2-year-old boy. My Mother frequently offers to take him to her House while we go on vacation. I Hae to deprive my Mother and my son of each other s company but i worry about my father s presence. My question is my father Likely to prey on grandchildren regardless of their sex and age if it s not Safe How do i gracefully refuse my Mother s offers now that All her Chil Dren Are gone i Sec no Point in revealing the devastating secret of years past. But i also want to make certain that no other child becomes. My father s victim in the Midwest dear Midwest you re handed me a Tough one but i la answer it As 1 answer ill the others with no punches pulled. A Man who would attempt to sexually bust lib daughter is no Safe bet for a franc my boy or girl. I agree there is of Point in dragging his Skeleton out of he dose m simply continue to be Gra Cious about declining your Mother s kind offers and make certain the boy is not left Alom with is Grandfather even for a Short period of line. Dear Ann Landers i am writing to ask you to review your answers to burned out nurses and burned out teachers. You show a great Deal of sympathy and understanding for the teachers. For the nurses you Are generally glad they Are leaving the profession and will no longer inflict themselves on their patients. The Way i Sec it both have excellent reasons for burnout but teachers have Many advantages Over nurses. Teachers generally have better working schedules and salaries As Well As More vacation time and holidays. I d like to repeat that there Are Many reasons in both professions for burnout but you seem to dismiss the problems of nurses with n terse line or two. You usually give people who write to you what they need sympathy and understanding. It seems to me that you have let the nurses Down. Disappointed in the Southwest dear disappointed vow notion that 1 am unsympathetic to the Pught of nurses As compared Witk that of thu Hen is incorrect. I am lad you called lib to my attention became if you perceive this to be True others nay Abo. I Mekone Opportunity to set the record straight in my opinion the nursing profession is second to none when it comes to str tag humanity. Nurses Are required to work harder and perform the most in Pennant duties of any profession i know of. Us the pay Tori a thai great. Nurses Are often overworked us under paid. They Are surrounded by pain agony death and offering. These people an May Antoh of mercy. I could never do what  do. American arms policy on billeting is explained after Reading a recent letter on the apol Lon Palace hotel in Athens. I thought i would share my experience with the Ameri can arms in Wiesbaden. I graduated from Wiesbaden High school in 1965 and being slightly nostalgic i enjoy visiting. I have always stayed in the american arms since it is cheap clean and centrally located and the von St cuban disclosed. I tried to stay there during memorial Day weekend and was told no because i had my kids Wilh me. The gs-12 in line before me got a duplex for himself and his wife and even though there were rooms available and a duplex would have fit perfectly i was told to phone the Amelia Eart it was full. After stopping at two full German hotels i gave up and drove Home. I have two questions. Is it Legal to exclude kids and permit adult dependents is it Cost effective to let rooms stay empty rather than let them to families How about a suggestion. Reserve on reminder. A letters to the editor must the full printed name am address of the writer and must be signed. We do not read unsigned letters but we will withhold your  e on request and protect Cdr privacy. All letters Are subject to editing. Elixir for families and let couples or singles have the rooms by signing a noise disclaimer. In All of my visits 1 have found that it is usually the single officers who make most of the noise anyway. Maj. Jeffrey r. Murray Kaiserslautern editor s note maj. Richard p. Payant director Wiesbaden engineering and housing replies we appreciate the Opportunity to re Spond to your letter. This provides an Opportunity to give an update for All . Forces and associated personnel on the reallocation of Wiesbaden transient As sets. The american arms facility As of no vember 1984, is used to House unaccompanied permanent party personnel of grades e-7 and above and As transient quarters for officers and equivalent civilians. The Amelia Earhart facility is used As a guest House cd provides Short term accommodations for accompanied and Unac Heidelberg cafes is lauded one Day in june while shopping at the Heidelberg main Exchange i had the Opportunity to witness an act i feel should be recognized. As it was a payday weekend the crowd was Large at the Exchange. A Small child was running up the corridor and slipped and hit his head on a shop Ping cart. The Young Blond female manager responded without haste to the situation. The Young boy was bleeding profusely and the manager called her staff who assisted her in transporting the boy to the Back office. Left behind was a Pool of blood that was quickly cleaned up by Exchange employees. Seconds later it appeared As if nothing bad happened. Later in the Day before i left the Exchange i asked one of the Cashiers the status of the Little boy. She said she had been told by her supervisor that the Little boy was going to be a of. I feel recognition is due to All involved As the matter could have been amplified if they had t acted As quickly As they did. Let s just say thanks name withheld Mannheim Germany editor s note Brig. Gen. . Leedy commander Liq cafes Europe replies Well done i join the writer in congratulating Heidelberg cafes professionals Heidi do neck Mildred i leg Wood and Liz Snow. Their excellent response in averting a potential tragedy was outstanding. The child s Mother reports hat the child recovered quickly from the Acci Dent and is now in perfect health. One of the most enjoyable aspects of Ray Job is receiving this kind of report of care and concern shown to custom ers by outstanding cafes employees. Heidi Mildred and Liz truly Demon Strate what the year of customer service is All about. Collector s request Zaragoza reunion i collect Hotoi of or Craft Squadron badges and air fore Stockm a. I would like to to. Dot anyone has some old a things to Ott to it Robert dam r. Slot trial 4t 7ss8 . Hengelo 0v the Netherlands there Wlsh to a reunion for those people who at tended Zaragoza american High school from 1977 1911. Tjw reunion will be june 13-15, 1984, in Sanantonio Texas. For More information con act Svlvia carmonabs36 Tan bark san Antonio Texas 7m40 pen pals please hit my name in you pen pal column my Hobbin Are Reading Aravt find dancing and  Rasheed of into Lotfe const co., Ltd.  . . 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I am 30 years  Garcia Buta zone-4general Santos dry Mindanao Philippines i would like a pen pal from Amtrak or Canada Iam a 14 Vear Oil boy and would like someone around my age. My hobbies Are Tennis soccer snooker swim mfg and t really to collect coins. Christopher do onto Portland Road Luton. Beds.lu4 8at England i am 30-Vear-Oici filipina and i would like pen pals. Like cooking. Interior decorating and gardening l am roman Catholic. I am presently a stenographic reporter. Miss Edna p. Herreros Gomel Street Tania Negros Oriental Philippines we would Rke Den  Malacaso Erna Malacaso Erlinda Amor Geraldine g. Amor Marible Amor Janet amorim. Id. Dona Salud Village Sasa. Davao City philippine i am 17 years old and would like to be in the Den pal column. My hobbies Are listening to the radio Reading magazines and watching to. I am presently a Mem per of the . Teens club for teenagers engaged in games and personality  t. Descallar Manila 3adar compound Mia Passav Cit Philippines i would like in pals irom Bill Over the world. I am21 years old. My hobbles include singing strumming the guitar dancing and watching  k. Saycon 79 eur Montrin , negro. Oriental Phil iodine speak Luent French arabic end Engin re my hobbies Are paying of Croatt tit Tunny to Mulic Reading. Wim Ming and  Tad Nacer 174 Rue Mohamed  a a cars Algeria companies personnel arching or departing incident to permanent change of station and As visiting enlisted quarters Seq. Military and civilian personnel from throughout Europe and Asia referred for medical treatment at the Usak regional medical Center also occupy transient accommodations at the Amelia Earhart. Under regulatory authority transient quarters Are assigned on a priority basis using a confirmed reservations system i.e., an officer equivalent civilian Grade is-7 or above on temporary duly to Wiesbaden is assigned to visiting officers quarters vol at the american arms. The gs-12 civilian employee mentioned in the letter was in a toy status. If there Are no vol vacancies the individual is assigned vacant go or Seq accommodations. Family members Are accommodated along with sponsors if space is available in the room. Personnel including a Mil res on a Leatch status arc accommodated on a space available basis Only after priority needs Are met. Our policy provides that rooms that become vacant after 6 p.m., due to cancel lations or no shows Are assigned to space available personnel on a first come first served basis. During Low occupancy Peri ods we assign rooms to those in n space available status on a confirmed reservation basis. Throughout 1985, our transient quart ers occupancy rates have been very High. This High demand combined with realities lion actions and construction work forced the staff to turn away some travel ers. We apologize for this inconvenience and Welcome the Opportunity to serve you again. European edition capt Dalk k. 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