European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - November 6, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday november 6. 1985 the stars and stripes Page 11 Arm Landers dear Ann Landers you had no right to Call Bay area Betty a world class Jerk because she complained that her fat Friend Tassic was wrecking her furniture. Obviously you have no grossly a overweight friends. A woman i am very fond of is in Tessie s category. She visited me for a weekend. That visit Cost me j200 in repairs. There was a cracked toilet Seal a separated floor two Chain and a Couch that had to be reinforced. My Little compact car almost dragged the ground turning Corners when we went sightseeing. I was afraid she might fall through and land on the pavement. You should have told Betty to go ahead and have the birthday party for Tessie. She could plan it Cater it decorate for it and go ill out but she should have it at Tessie i sister s House. Knowledgeable 1nn.h. Dor . Good suggestion. Here s another Point of flew dear Ann Landers congratulations on your excellent reply to Betty who has no furniture in her apartment that can hold a 250-Pound per son. I wonder if Betty could possibly find a chair that would hold a 250-Pound. 6-foot 5 male who is extremely handsome and very Rich. A san Francisco Reader Deir san fran interesting question. Betty if you see this i la print your answer. Dear Ann Landers last Spring i married the boy next door. I have been in love with Tom since High school. Our marriage was like a fairy tale come True. We decided to have a baby right away. 1 became pregnant immediately. Tom is thrilled. He told everyone the first Day we were sure. Our love life was terrific until i became pregnant. But now he does t want to have sex with me. I asked him Why and he said he is afraid of hurl ing the baby or me. I am health and Strong and have told Tom that sexual Intercourse will not Hurt either me or the baby. I honesty think he does t want to make love to me because i am becoming heavy and repulsive looking. I exercise and watch my diet but my bust and hips Are very Large. What can i do he will hold me and kiss me do every thing but have Intercourse. I Nave an executive position. I am neat and meticulous about my person and my face is still the same. So Why this turnoff in bed please help me Ann. 1 am Desper ate Cinderella married to Prince charming Der Cindy insist thai your bus bind have talk with your obstetrician. Most men have no idea Bow Well protected a fetus is. When Tom is assured by an authority that sex will not be harmful his Altitude almost certainly will change. Dear Ann Landers for the last Ihrcke weeks my husband has been talking in his sleep Aboul a 22 year old woman who lives in the next apartment. He Speaks very distinctly and i can understand every word he says. I need to know if people talk about things they have done or thing they advice for spouse who complained of no sponsor in reply to the spouse who had no sponsor and no Welcome i m sorry you had a bad experience. I know this overseas move can be one of the most difficult parts of your husband s career. In addition to writing a letter of complaint Are you willing to do something to get a better program ? speak to your husband commander and Hii Chain of command. Find Oul who is responsible or the sponsorship program in the unit. Tell them Aboul your bad experience. Make specific suggestions to improve the program. Sug Gest that the unit use volunteers As Spon sors and Hal they match bachelors with bachelors and married with married. Even the Best Welcome program has failures and is Only As Good As the sponsor makes it. The most concerned commander cannot make things work without your help the military you mentioned is members and spouses you and me. If the leaders in the unit Aren t doing a Good Job keep at them until the program improves. Talk to the wives in the unit. This can be done at squad platoon company or battalion level. You can make a difference. Appoint yourself As sponsor either by phone or in person. You Don t have to take care of everyone but you can know who to Call to suggest they be assigned a new sponsor when necessary. Most important have you found it in your heart to Volunteer As a sponsor have you just been neighbourly smiled at a new face or talked to someone who looked lonely i think the Arch Over Rhein main a should quote Charles Dickens it was the Best of times. It was the worst of i Hope you will now work to enjoy the Best and perhaps help someone else along the Way. Caroline Beals Sulzbach Germany first of All let me say that i gather from your letter that you received concur rent travel. Consider yourself Lucky. There arc Many like myself who were separated several months from our Hus bands before arriving in Germany. You also mentioned thai your husband received Only five Days instead of 30 Days leave Lucky you again we 48 hours when i first arrived before my husband returned to the held for transition. Whoever to a you thai in the first place was mistaken. No one receives 30 Days to in process. Secondly we did t have a sponsor i ther. We could have complained and i could have made my husband miserable but instead found ways to improve life in our Community. We arc now sponsoring other couples arriving in Germany la All begins with you. Last but most importantly get Oul and get involved. Don l sit Home feeling sorry for yourself. Volunteer for acs or red Cross. It s a great Way to Mecl people and improve the Quality of life in the Community. . They Bolh offer free baby sitting Exchange for your Volunteer time no one can make you feel More Al Horm Here in Germany than yourself. Take Adan Lage of every Opportunity to Sec and Enjo Europe. If you feel that the by slim Here i lacking work to improve it. Gel together Wilh those other spouses you mentioned in your letter who had similar complaints. Form a committee. Strive to improve on the weak Points. It s easy to sit Back and complain. It takes a Little Effort to work at something. Good Luck and i sincerely Hope that your Outlook on Germany improves for the Sake of your family and your Hus band s career Csc scially since you said your husband is willing to sacrifice it All for your happiness. Shelly Starkey Aschaffenbur Germany pupils expressed their feelings with this barred clipping. Pitburg school club opposes furs r thankful distinctly. Some men mumble and it "1 a u,. Both what they we Are writing about a photograph we saw in the stars and stripes. The photo graph showed children modelling fur coals. We arc members of the Tilburg Elemen tary school kindness club room 46, and we have Learned that fur Coats Are not Good to buy because animals have to suffer and die so that fur Coats can be made. Other Coats arc just As warm As fur coals. We want to encourage All children and adults not to buy or Wear fur Coats. Ani Mals deserve to live in their natural habitats and to enjoy their lives just As we do. Kill ing animals for their fur is a cruel waste of life. Furs should be worn on the ones they Pimm pull it my nut Al your . I am 19 Vert of a and my Hob Olli i read Long Pocil doot Tang no i Unow to Mulc and dancing. 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