European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 16, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse Saturday november 16, 1985 the stars and stripes Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i got genital herpes from my boy Friend of two years from an innocent fever Blister on his j lip. I could not be Lieve a woman could get a venereal Dis ease from indulging in Oral sex with someone who had a ii Tuple cold sore. My Wirtur cultured it and sure enough it came tack herpes simplex Type i the Oral Bod. But i have genital herpes. I developed a High fever after being exposed to the virus on Iii lip. That virus caused two fever blisters on my genitals. They reappear every two months and Are quite painful. My Boyfriend dumped me when he teamed j was infected. He remains pure and does not come Down with a sexually transmitted disease while 1 am alone and cared. There is no Justice phase Ann Landers inform the Public once. Tell them what can happen if a person has Contact with those innocent looking sores near the Mouth. Sign me dumb and angry due to ignorance dear angry i have printed this information in my column More than once. Several readers wrote to say i was ill informed stupid and just Plain nuts. Thanks for your Testi Mony. Dear Ann Landers my husband and i decided at your suggestion to seek counselling from 8 Quali fied licensed therapist. My reason for writing is not As significant As the outcome of the therapy. We recently Learned that the therapist betrayed our Confidence by discussing our problem with Mutual friends. The friends who informed us of this incredible act of unprofessional ism were shocked by the Man s Lack of discretion. The therapist has a very successful practice and is considered extremely competent. We feel humiliated and angry and Don t know if we will be Able to Trust an other therapist again Ever. What should be done Orleans Reader Dew k the therapist is a psychiatrist report him to the american psychiatric association 1400 k Street , Washington , 20005. If be is a psychologist re port him to tie american psychological too Catlon 1200 17lh Street. , Washington 20036. If be a neither Yon can let him know exactly How Yon fed tort Kkt a co to to betrayal us pus the word to other. Meanwhile do try another therapist. Dear Ann Landers i m usually in agreement with your an Iwers but in the Case of Chattanooga Mother whose 4-year-old is bringing Home dirty language i d like to share a solution that is working at our House. When i hear one of my children use a questionable word i immediately put Down what pm doing and ask what does that word mean we go to the dictionary and look it up. If it s there i explain the alternate meanings. If it in t in the dictionary i say that s not a word. Slop saying it works Ann. The important thing is not to be shocked or outraged. Grand Island neb. Der Gnu tace dictionary approach it a Good oae. Bat pleas go by us read a reply. My advice was exactly the same As yours. Don t act shocked. It Wio encourage continued usage. This la precisely the reaction tace child is Page 11 letters questions on army s promotion system answered i have some questions on promotions that i Hope you can help me with. I came in service in february of 1981. I went to the promotion Board in april of 1984. 1 passed the Board with 219 Points. I had been on the list for promotion to e-5 for one year and six months before the promotion system came out i made the Cut off score for 76y with 749 Points in August. But being that the promotion system came out starting aug. 1,1 have to go by the Points that i have for the system. So i m out of Luck for my Points of 749 for August but i m seeing people that Haven t been in service for three years yet becoming e-5, and they just went to the Board in 198s. I have been in service for four years and eight months never even had a bad counselling statement against me. I Don t think it is fair for those of us who were on the e-5 list for Over a year to just lose the Points that we had before the system came out. You have people who just went to the Board a few months before the system came into affect that Are Mak ing e-5 that Haven t even been in service three years act. They have a different mos that has the same amount of Points for pro motion that 76y does i just can t see All the hard work we do to earn that rank getting taken from us older soldiers what 1 mean by older soldiers is the ones who have been in longer and been on the list longer and Given to the ones who just started to learn the things that we have known for years . Do you really think that is fair to the ones who Nave been on the list that long1? spec. 4 Annette Fields bomb Lingen Germany editor s note Sec. Tony l. Foreman Coic officer enlisted pro motions Branch 1st personnel come he Usa eur replies the promotion Point worksheet be came effective for e-5 promotion in May 1985. At that time All sold Len on the standing list for promotion to e-5 received a recomputation and were informed the Points would become effective for the a animal experiments opposed this letter is directed at the people who support using animals in experiments. Be fore i begin let me say that All research is not senseless. I be listened to your Side. listen to mine. Rats were the first animals to be used in Experiment. The scientists weren t Happy with just rats. Next they received govern ment funding to use monkeys. My objection is it really Nec Curry to take a Haiti incr and crush a Baboon s Skull to study the effects i m sure that any person with com Mon sense knows the effect. Ave seen More than one documentary where these animals Are abused after these sessions. Using any animal for experiments is wrong but the Day they started using Cati and dogs for experiments was the Day that i lost my respect for scientists. My Aren t we hypocritical when we Call them Man s Best one scientist Cut the vocal cords to these dogs throats after experimenting on them because their whimpers disturbed he work. Just think the american government gives these people funds for this. I cry each Day when the Sun comes up because i know that the pain u going to Start All Over again. I will fight these senseless acts until it ends. If animal lovers Don t stand up for animal rights who will i just have one question to the scientists. When All the Ani Mals Are gone Are humans next Kathy Isaacson garbled Germany Rainy night ride was appreciated my children and i Are residents of Augsburg Germany for just a month . Lacking personal transportation or German Marks for a taxi we walked to Sheridan Cavern for a potluck supper. While walking Home it started to rain in a steady Stream. Out of the dark a gentleman stopped and offered a ride Home. He transported the children stroller and me safely to our door in Cramerton. I publicly want to thank him because i Don t know his name. Thank you again for your help. You and your family will be remembered in our prayers. I know that there Are people in the aug Burg Community that will go out of their1 Way to help others. I met a glowing example that Rainy no vember night. Cynthia Kopex Yokie and Sou Andrew and Henry Augsburg Germany upset Over idea of aids testing this is in regard to the front Page head line aids testing safeguards okd de pendent screening debated. I am a dependent and i m mad As hell. The United states government docs not own me nor does it pay me a salary. They have no right to test me for aids who do they think they arc anyway Why Don t they put the thousands of do pen pal Plata plact my Nana. I your a pay column Carrula Bak Toman foundation Unrot Rahv hid Schmol Oum Ouam atty pkg of my a min to your pm pay column. I fill boart Aid. I Ilka Willil gom a Church Rhonl Mcvagh Badminton vote vital an Tot Baa. Oano Wya. T. 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Because of this and the fact that both Are for promotion to any Grade Rke army the practice of awarding Points in this area has been discontinued. Other than the 90-Day waiting period after Board appearance the length of Lime on the standing list la immaterial to pro notion. Promotion is Nas a soley on the needs of the army by mos. The promotion system for e-4s and e-3s sires tiie key to improving promotion potential. The worksheet to designed to evaluate sold Len who Are physically fit Adf did plied committed to Elf improper Teri and professionally competent. To improve your chances for promotion i recommend that Yon Start to develop n plan that will enable Yon to obtain additional Points. Your pro Kim should in clude but not be limited to completing College and correspondence course at tending no Nodop Snell schools. Improving Sot Tot results kor inf High on the rpt and excelling with your ind Hodul weapon. Careful preparation and hard work a Fol be rewarded. 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