European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 22, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Sunday. December 22, 19s5 the stars and stripes Page 11 spokesman says housing policy May be changed Ann Landers i m hoping that someone can explain to mar or Alron. Tula by adore in the Start and sort out. Apo Onil. Monla Lorvel mall the Slan a so role. Poit Fadi ii a 34. D-4100 Oarr Tadt ii. Germany. Tel. Crl Enselm  Ksor a is ish Pfiste  Matlum. Sam Jyl  m room a. By burp a. A Titt a i to. In met. Re Nuri c.ui1. Apo mow. Ina Onona or met Al Ermany Dick Hod non. Buiu Al to Mil. Apo 0�ll, i1mxx� or no. 4.m. Kwo lu1ny Charlla Itoda. Oul Lelnd t. "  Cadiam. Souheng Apo Mil. Hud Tot. Ets no. For family members who arc any from Home attending school. Family members Are entitled to adequate bedroom Spucci in the family Home As Long As Lac qualify us a dependent of the family. Just As in the Homes of civilian families we consider a room at Home for the child who must be away in order to Complete or further his her education i proper fair and necessary. I am sure you will agree when your children Are of College age. Thank you for your interest and inking the time to write about this subject which touches on the Quality of life for Many of our old hers and their families serving the army in Europe. Workers More than baby Sitters Many people consider the child development Center a baby sitting  the customers who feel this Way need to know that the attendants follow army regulations not your regulations. If you need to complain talk to the manager. Talking to the child care Atten Dant does t do any Good. The worker is following n Job description. Many child care attendants May not be teachers but they Are required to go through training sessions 10 further their education on Many different subjects such As red Cross training cardiopulmonary resuscitation training food and nutrition child abuse discipline Etc. The Center s service u not Only playtime for your  parents give this idea to the child and so the child Only wants to play instead of partake in other projects. The certified educational aids Are at centers for the children. They re not hired for the Money nor As a baby  name and location withheld editor s note Bonnie storm Chim development services coordinator he Usa eur replies your desire to clarify the role of child development Center c la l personnel is appreciated. The observation that cd personnel do not provide merely baby sitting service is a important Point. Army cd staff is dedicated to providing developmental child care services in accordance with army regulation 608-10, child development services. A variety of appealing activities appropriate to the age of the child Are offered at cd to meet children s individual physical social emotional and intellectual needs. The observation that child car givers receive training on a variety of subjects is particularly valid they Are required to attend 38 hours of training in various subject matter areas within the first six Morfis of employment and a minimum of two boors per month thereafter. Most child caregivers Are dedicated to the care and nurturing of children. Complaints about policy or operations can Best be addressed by cd directors or child development services coordinators. Thank you for your intern in Usa eur child development programs. He s glad he had car training on thanksgiving night a Friend and i were eating at Mcdonald s at the Markt Platz in san Weinfurt. A lady started Chok ing on her food so Bud that she was going into convulsions. Another Soldier and i picked her up off the floor and did a series of Heimlich a Nevers until we got her to cough. We then Laid her Down on her Side and i cleared her Throat. I got bitten a few times in the pro Cess. Then we rolled her on her Back and she started showing consciousness mean while the other Soldier started cardiopulmonary resuscitation. I stopped him immediately. He was a Litty too excited and made a mistake. When she came to she looked like Tny cat when i used to Chase it with mom s vacuum cleaner absolutely terrified. She did t know who we were. We then went right to psychological tint Aid and calmed her Down. It a difficult to communicate but she realized the was of. The ambulance took some time to get there. There is no doubt she could t have nude it that Long. We were the Only ones in the place who were Able to Viand la the Situa Tion. 1 must admit car training was the Only thing that i had on my mind. The training i received in the army was Good but 1 Don t think there is any Way to prepare you for the real situation. U All happens very fast and your adrenaline has you flying at Mach 2. Its next to impossible to stay Cool. The Best thing you can do is train. Train and train again. Imagine the Var ious instances in your mind As a mental prep you re going to need it. Don t for get to observe your casualty s symptoms and react to them. If you Don t know what s wrong you can t help them. These training programs should be Fol Lowed. I have seen too Many people Over look the importance of this training pro Gram and just mess around. This has always upset me. I m glad that i have put Forth the Effort to learn it. I know one person is particularly grateful. Spec. 4 Kenneth t. Morse scow Erfurt Germany Assoc to Alhem. Cd. A Reader disputes Falwel s View u has become obvious that the Rev. Jerry Falwell has a great Talent for putting Bis foot in his Mouth. First he had the nerve to say that the Botha government in South Africa is a reformist administration and a bold receive  now he hat had the Gall to Back the repressive Marcos regime u the Philippines and ask for is. Support in both cases Falwell has stated that the governments should be backed because of their anti communist stance b fall Clit fear of communism so great that be it will ing to Back governments responsible for repressive policies numerous human rights violations and flagrant violations of inter National Law instead of listening to Falwell. The us. Should distance itself from repressive governments and use our Power to press for reforms. Let us not forget what happened As a result of our past support of two anti Corn Monist in . Data Torr the Rise to Power of the Radical and anti us regimes in Iran and Nicaragua. James w. Smith i Frankfurt dear Ann i Anil cars my wife Natl 1 lire having an in Tunici ind i Hope Gnu Settle it. My Mother in Law told us that my wife started to talk when she w is 5 Man los old and she has t lopped yet. I say it is impassible for n 5 month old baby to talk. Her Mother swears that her father put her on his he every night ind Kepi repealing. Hello.  and when my wife was 5 months old she said hello daddy Plain As Day. Ann. Would you please Check with an expert and find out if  is possible also what is the youngest age a child has Ever been known to talk very sceptical dear skip according to or. Peter a. Corsel chief of the i in Ion of Bahai sorial and developmental paediatrics at Northwestern University s school of Medicine it is improbable for a 5-Nnmth-old infant to speak intelligibly because the musculature of the Mouth and Throat is not sufficiently devel oped to permit a Range of sounds in be expressed in the form of words. Single words Are usually uttered any Lime after 9 months. Two word phrases most commonly Are produced closer to the second birth Day. Sometimes parents imagine that their baby is saying intelligible sentences. This is a reflection of a positive and idling relationship Between Parent and  please forgive a personal reference hut on my daughter Margo s first birthday she said to her Grandfather mow do Vou feel. A.b.?" dear Ann Landers your answer to moral but not  in  was Iii cynical to suit me. I la in t you received plenty of complaints. Not nil men want to score a Home run every time. The so called sexual revolution has made our lives miserable. I am afraid if i kiss a woman she will expect me 10 Lake her to bed that very evening and if 1 Don t proposition her Shell consider me a wimp or.  yet Gay. I i that Uty. What might have been a rewarding Friend ship is screwed up. It lakes great courage these Days to at. A woman out to dinner knowing she believes i want Una one thing. The logical solution is to be i rank and discuss what you want up front but in seems that it can i work in her. Most women Are turned off by behaviour or conversation thai suggests you Are asking per Mission. I guess they still want to pretend that whatever occurs is  in order to avoid guilt. The Best thing that can happen to me at least in the Early stages of a relation ship is to have a woman say.  then i m sure that she is the son of person i want to be Vith. Moral and lonely in by. Dear . Too Bud i can t print your name and Telephone number. You would t be lonely Long. There Are an awful lot of women who would adore a Guy like you. I Hope Yok meet one soon. Dear Ann Landers i was married 40 years. My sex husband want me to give his Young Bride my m Ai Ding ring. He claims i have no right to it now. I want my son to have it for his Bride. Is this proper Baltimore readier dear Rodin Yew in husband has nothing to say abort it. The Rig is Yogi to m with a 0 lease. . 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