European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 30, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Thursday january 30, 1986 the stars and stripes Page 11   Landers a car Ann Landers my husband to whom i in pc been married for 48 years has alzheimer disease. 1 decided the Lime had came to clean out his office which has been closed for Sev eral month for Owecki have been going through the files and what i Learned has made me tick. I Lound love letters from 16 women. They go Back la 1955. There were picture of him with Young Giru in nightclubs. I found cocktail napkins with phone numbers and diary that spanned is Yean i knew some oath women he kit with. The Type of Burin eur he Wai in made it easy for How to be out evenings. I bad to us Home with the children an i never complained. I to suspicious of some of bit excuses especially when he would come Home drunk but i never dreamed be Wai leading Inch a life. I am so full of anger and hatred for this Man i can barely stand to look at him yet i have to Choice because he is Nek. He ii incontinent and i must clean Biro up several times a Day. I also have to feed him. The expenses from his illness have almost wiped us out. What makes it 10 terrible is that i cannot even Tell him what i now know. He has no memory. Some Days he does t even recognize me. I Don t know Why i am writing to you but i must unburden myself or go crazy. I Don t want to Tell my children became it would kill All respect they have for their father and i would t want that. Can you give me some encouragement or advice 1 feet so atone and my resentment u making me sick. Mrs. X in the East dear mrs. X i re read about thousands of problems through the years but yours is one of the most hurl breaking. You must be a woman of great character to want to pre sent your children s High opinion of their father after what you have Learned. Ask your husband s doctor to help you gel some counselling. Vou must talk to someone. There Are several Good menial health centers in your area. Also consider seeing your Clergyman. And please write again wheeter you feel ithe it. Sometimes it helps to put your feeling. Down on taper. Means White cod bins. I will sign this. An admirer dear Ann our society no longer refers to those with a drinking problem As boozers. They Are now called alcoholics. Drug addicts arc victims of substance abuse. Similarly crippled persons Are now uis  the deaf Are hearing impaired and the Blind Are visually handicapped. Recently a correspondent wrote about a problem with false Teeth when you responded i was amazed that you also used that outmoded and degrading Des i nation. I Challenge you to find a single reference to this archaic term m any Den Tat Literat Brt or Telephone directory Sung. Those of us without our natural Teeth now Wear dentures. We Don t need to limit our diet to soft noodles anymore thinks to the Progress in dentistry but i invite you to take 10 denture wearer dear . Of tit  to the editor roust contain m cars Are subject to editing. A big thanks for mail supplies and Nice memories 1 thoroughly enjoyed your article on trucking around Europe in a c-130." similar  Ion squadrons also Fly a Imp Here in Eastern Turkey which begins and ends at in Ciurlik a. Having been stationed at a Remote site in Turkey for seven months now i be had the occasion to Fly with these folks several limes. I be thoroughly enjoyed every time. When my husband to be and i flew out in october on the first k g of our trip Home to get married our plans were made known to the Crew by one of the people in our to office who had come Down to meet the plane. From that Point on we were treated like royally. The Load Masler seated us away from everyone  when we boarded in Diyarbakir. At every Stop we made All the newly boarded passengers were told of our upcoming nuptials. The most enjoyable time of All was after Wiir Takeoff from Synop army air Reid. We were old to come up on the flight deck for some scenery viewing. The Pilot flew Low to the water for several Miles As we viewed the turkish coastline meeting the Black sea. It was Beautiful and made our trip Alt the More memorable. On our return Light a few weeks Lacr different Crew this time1 was attempting to take some photographs of some Snow capped turkish mountains from the Liny window behind me when i was lapped on the shoulder by the Loa Masler. He motioned for me to go up on the night deck to Lake them thanks la his kindness they turned out perfectly to All of you who Fly into the Buck three times a week a big thanks for the mail supplies and some Nice Mem ories . Joan l. 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How uncomfortable would you be if you had to Wear a pair of pants with spilled juice on More about the 13th president i read the recent article titled fans Laud fill Mare s accomplishment on birth  1 thought that it was a very interesting article and All of the facts were very knowledgeable but the one thing thai stuck out was the sentence he was born in a Cayuga county n.y., log Cabin on Jan. 7, 1800." that s Fine but i lived in Cayuga county for most of my life furthermore 1 lived in a Little town called Moravia where Fillmore was actually born he was born in a log Cabin on Rockefeller Road. The site is marked with a new York stale historical society Marker. There is also a stale Park in Moravia named Tillmore Glen and the townspeople renamed the Moravia elementary school to Millard Fillmore elementary school in 1971. The townspeople go one step further each year. In Early August there Are the Fillmore Days which consist of a Large Flea Market. 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