European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - June 4, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Wednesday Juna 4, 19b6 the stars and stripes Paga 11 an n Landers letter dear Ann Landers something has been bugging me for a. Long Lime and i m ashamed to ask any one. They would think 1 was nuts. But 1 simply must get it off my mind Beau i have been giving it a lot More thought lately than i should. Whyl happens to those Odd socks after they a into the Wash ing machine my husband and sons Are two legged creatures. Thi y Wear pairs of socks not singlet yet almost every time i take the socks out of the dryer there is one Black one Blue or a White one left Over 1 must have collected 60 socks with no males in the last three years. Do these automatic washers eat Socle i use a rather Strong detergent hut no sock could dissolve in it. Is it possible thai a sack could go Down the Drain As you can Sec Ann 1 have been toying with several possibilities. None seems logical. Please help me reach a sensible conclusion. I in Dingy in Dubuque Der dub automatic washers do not my Soults. Nor Datcy dissolve. No or ten Thil i Hue Eier Ken b Tiret enough for a sock to go through. Whatever went into la Tui Chiat remain Ibon  the wishing us drying cycles. How then do one account for the  go boost it s Toni oui. The Matt he touch away it far unconsciously or cons Ionly Tause u bad Bolt in it. We All do in Loci of a it an mature. Tui does t Nan we re wiggy it Rorr a mama we in in Man of Rwy  socks a Tina dint Lbw Delta tick to the lurks of be Rubn or get topped on mets in the dryer drum. Dear Ann Landers i recently moved into an apartment with a Girlfriend. Everything waa Lovely until two Welu ago. The problem is her Boyfriend. He decided to move in also. I left a comfortable Home because i wanted privacy the Chance to do those i hinge one can t do with Lilue Broth in and Sislen hanging around. Now i am faced with the same situation and it is driving me around the Bend. My Girlfriend is the kind who leu people walk All Over her. She is completely dominated by this nerd and does t realize he is using her. I am being used too. I work very hard so that 1 can afford this apartment. The Guy is gelling free room and Board and maid service not to mention transportation. He has no car i be never been very Good at standing up for my rights. I need to know How to Deal with this situation without losing her Friendship. Can you help three s a crowd in Conn. Dear crowd the fran Blip is already shot so act j go on from Thart. The Art spy Dac Robt b grossly Hunfau a a you ought to Awe Yawor bad examined if you allow to to continue. If you Cap t i be take the Cowant Way out and write a Tetter. Make it he tinally Ckner thai you want tit Owoc Ber out Pronto for her take w a a Tow in. If Yon Don t Haw pc Cabo Emu i to write us letter. Real in you Rolf to a Lihue of being used and abased. Dear Ann Landers this May nol be up your Alley but do you have any ideas on How i can get uie ugly Marks off my shoes lint appear from nowhere when i drive my car scuffed in Scarsdale dear scant of Narks Are murder 10 gel off. Atom item by keeping an extra pair of Beamis numbers in be car. Chuck tells his Side of the Story on mental health i m Chuck. My last name and location Are not important. This letter addresses inc letter to the editor titled concerns for privacy in menial health treatment an  i agree to the part that articles in Sui cide in the military raises a  the questions that arise with me Are where Are the individual s close friends where Are the individual s supervisors where arc the individual s family members if on an accompanied status ? o do the commanders sergeants major and first sergeants sleep through the drug and alcohol classes presented by the local acc in aligns and september my wife Wai hospitalized in the Stales As a manic do pc Misc. As a civil servant it has not hurl her career Shi has since been promoted to g5-07a couple of years ago 1 was being Irea cd for severe depression. The Only entry on my inc icat records was referred for depression even though suicide was brought out several times in the discussions. Because of an unfortunate incident in mid . A delayed reaction and suicide Transfer hit me in november. Luckily for me an s Gasthaus had a three part series on suicide alcohol and depression. Serving country is like marriage recently our 26-year-old son in the United Stales was in n group receiving an Brien la lion on officer training school ots. The recruiters addressing the group asked How Many were interested in the Mili tary for career training Many hands were raised. For education opportunities again hands raised. For the advantage of travel again hands. Because you want to serve your country no hands. No response. To serve your country my husband has been Active military for almost 26 years and 1 confess that was nol our motivation for entering the military or for slaying in yet i find our marriage with the military is much like Many of the Royal marriages we read about in British history. Begun As marriages of political convenience and affairs of state they developed into love rela lion hips. Never has my love nor loyalty for our military and particularly to our leadership and personnel Here at Lakenheath Raf been stronger than in these recent Days of libyan turmoil. We Grieve for All lives loss in inc conflict. The loss of life re emphasizes Why the military person strongly desires peace he is l in first to risk his life. To my family i want to communicate a Pride in our country and an appreciation for the Price Hal has been paid in past wars for the Freedom we enjoy Oday. The increased Security Here at Laken Heath gives us both Comfort and concern. Comfort in the extra precautions being taken 10 insure our safety. Concern that All this extra precaution is necessary. Sue Jen Niit Raf Uke Heath England writer comments on pcs delays this letter i in response to the woman who has nothing better to do than dwell on something Hal she can t change the delays of permanent change of station moves. First of All your husband joined the army on his own free will for whatever his reason was. You chose to follow him. Slop and think your husband is Here defending the United Stales of America you should be proud of your husband i think you should get your priorities straight you re strand to the army and always will be. The army does support the family bul in has to defend inc United slates first. And if by delaying your and other pcs moves the army can save some of the almighty Dollar for much needed defense then so be it. 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