European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - August 26, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Tuesday August 26, 1986 the stars and stripes Paga 11 a inquiry on shipping goods answered ratio of term of service ets is in the next. Use to the people in the government who wish to reduce he Trade Defiol which is not happening by a Long to do a overseas 1 have no option Butto Send my wife and son Home Early before the do rate drives Roc into debt to the Point of receiving a bad debts court martial. At any rate i am going to encounter two problems the  being he shipment of my family and household goods to my wife s residence and the second being getting travel pay from my separation Point to my Wiles domicile. My Home of record is Pennsylva Nia but my wife and 1 Are going to reside in Missouri her Home slate. My question is How can i  what must i do in order to change my Home of record to keep Down the costs of moving my furniture from new Jersey to Missouri a trend of mine had to pay $1,600 for her furniture in order to join her husband not to mention the Cost of plane fare. My wife is not in the service and i am not trying 10 Lake the government s Money. Also i May be joining he Missouri army National guard on a full time Posi Tion will this have an effect on my Home of record since the army does t Tell soldiers How to change their Home of record when they get married maybe you can help others. Spec. 4 Todd j. Hitchner Ludwig Borg Germany editor s note we received two replies to this letter. The isl is from a spokesman for the Deputy chief of staff resource management a a Usa eur Unaak you for your letter and the Opportunity to explain u often misunderstood entitlement. Upon ets Mic members Are entitled to travel and transportation allowances from their last permanent Dory station ads to the place they establish residence. However payment cannot exceed the distance Between the last ads and the Home of record Hor  the place the last entered Active Doty. The following examples Llor Worsle serve remember with mor Boston mass., is discharged at ets after first enlistment from it. Irwin Calif. He she establishes Bone in los Angeles. Reimbursement is limited Lod a = in it. Irwin and los Angeles. If same service member establishes resilience in bos ton reimbursement is allowed fat entire distance. Finally if this service member establishes residence in Bongo Maine reimbursement is limited to distance Between it. Irwin and Boston. Your decision to join a Reserve  National guard unit after discharge does not affect your entitlement. A final note service member who retire Are Dis charged prior la ets  an discharged under other than honorable conditions Are entitled to varying Amon nos of reimbursements. For More information Contact travel Section of your servicing finance office. The second reply is from maj. Peter a Manahan thief. Personnel lesions div. 1st personnel come a Soldier s Home of record is determined upon he enlistment in the service in order to establish the Point to which the army is obligated upon his discharge to return him his family members and his possessions. A Soldier h allowed to change Bis Home of record upon re enlistment As he is renewing his contract with the Arm and May now re designate certain official personal information. Your intention a leave the serv ice upon ets appears to negate this possibility. As the Home of record is an official designation and a key determination of entitlements no other modification action is possible. Enlistment in the Missouri National guard subsequent to discharge from the Active component would re establish your Home of record As the residence you indicated at the time of enlistment in the army National guard. This would not however assist you in your situation. Any possible entitlement in support movement of household goods  travel to Missouri must be established through the adjutant general Missouri army National guard. Entitlements vary by state and by category of employment with the National guard personnel system. 1 recommend that you Contact the office of the adjutant general Missouri attn rom. 1717 Indus trial drive Jefferson City. To. 65101-ijfts. Our ill service recruiting Branch Schwet Xinren military 2136  ets 379-6115, stands by la set l you in this regard. Usa eur s up hiring policies explained can someone please explain to me Why ups who have experience cannot gel priority when applying overseas they have a list and you have to go to the Bottom and there Are Over 100 names on the list. It seems More logical to me to want people who Don t have to be trained. It would be actually better for the dining facility. Other jobs demand experience. Somewhere some thing ii wrong. To me experience should count for something but if you Are a up that s Tough whether you have experience  not. Please let me know Why this is so. Patricia Hamilton Al Trintin Germany editor s note Carolyn. White, sonnet do Ron office of the Deputy chief of staff personal he Usa eur replies to answer Yoor question Why ups who Hae sex Perl inc cannot gel priority when applying overseas we Mensi 5�tock to Basic is. Army Europe usar euro policy on accepting applications and the re Wai behind this Polky. The Polky Fath to applications Tor Oversea to ploy ment Are entered on candidate rosters based on the Date the application is received. This policy was established because of the Large number of family members in the overseas Are seeking employment and in an Effort to maximize the employment Opportunity for All family members. Experience Don count for something the applicants experience training and past performance Are consid ered by the official making the selection. Although All applicants for up positions have not actually held a up position they do meet the qualification requirements for the Job As established by the office of personnel management if candidates were required to have experience work ing in a specific Job before being considered for the Job there would he Little if any Opportunity for them la Advance in  broaden their careers. I Hope this answers your question and explains the rational for the Usa eur policy on accepting applications and considering applicants for position vacancies. All letters to the editor must contain the full printed name and address of the writer and must be signed. We do not read unsigned letters but we will withhold your dime on renal ind protect Jow privacy. All letters Are pfc jct b editing Ami Landers dear Ann Landers the letter from any Mother Usa about the Nightmare of unplanned pregnancy did More in in touch a heart today it slammed into me like a fist. An Mother was miking to me Twenty years ago this month i gave up my Beautiful Little daugh., Ler for adoption. There has never in a been a doubt in my mind that it i was the Loving solution to a Terri ble Nightmare i can l believe How ignorant i was about sex. I never used any Protection because i was sure my Luck would hold out. When i told my Mother i a i pregnant she treated me As if 1 had committed a murder. My brother pointed his Finger in my face and said you have shamed the family name i was booted out of the House without a dime. All 1 had was a Box of clothes and the shoes on my fed. It was raining and i did t even have an umbrella. Had it not been for the kindness of the Booth memorial Home in Elpaso Texas run by the salvation army i would have thrown myself under the wheels of a bus. Mrs. Phylis Abegglen was and probably still is coun seling Young women who decide to carry their Babici to full term. Some give the babies to Loving childless Homes and others struggle to raise the child alone. So hats off to you any Mother i feel 100 percent belter knowing you could be my daughter s Mother and i wish you god s love this Day . Dear .i thank you far a bean Ihil letter and the Opportunity to Shine a spotlight on the Good works of the salvation army. They richly deserve the Praise you Hue so generously Given. Dear Ann Landers 1 am a highly successful career woman 31, i never married Bui Hove had several affairs. Most of them have been with married men. Every time i lose a Lover i Promise myself no More married men but it seems that is the kind i go for. I have known for a Long time that i should gel into therapy but i put the idea on hold until my last affair the most painful of All ended and i found myself sitting on he Edge of my bed with 60 sleeping pills in the Palm of my hand. I knew then i d belter see a shrink. My therapist is attractive and you guessed it married. I find myself telling him lies and holding Back hints that might make me look foolish. Although my behaviour is clearly seductive he remains very professional and gives no sift of weakening. 1 believe he is helping me i feel More secure now than at any time in my life and i want to continue. But my Best Friend Sayi 1 should find another therapist. What it your opinion three Steps Forward. One step Back. Detroit dear one step anyone who ties to a therapist b them inc a Ney Down the Drain. If pm cant pot an of to the duplicity and Teda Cuttre Beha itar i suggest Job find another Doc Tor preferably a woman. I m sure Yotter current therapist will be Able to suggest someone dear Ann Landers please Tell that Mother of four teen agers who talks to herself that it is of to talk to yourself you can even answer yourself but if you interrupt yourself you Are in serious trouble. Shirley d. Rossville Kan dear Shirley Many Reader wrote with advice for that Miner but yours was the Best. Form to Mitt u Nam and Tel synd Caw c b pm of 1�n san a. A w8i1. U.5. Ain Noona a mar now twi Hoof my. Urc Luw inn  p Utun Kmim to suit i Ghou Apo omit. Winum Tori Tittl 6� wet swim poit Futi ii 10 3470-8100 Dunn full 11.omny. To a7i.ih.tn Oso Mutt wife ets uw741 � me sea. T.04im32. My Vork onto hum my. 253 Strom in Vox Toom t tin. I72�4t. Et8 no. 44m449 Orch. 0711 g 77s2& mama itm.y1 howl Voaid. Asa ban 301. 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