European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - October 3, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday. October 3, 1988 the stars and stripes Page 11 letters readers reply to criticism of army wives continued from Psge 10it s 9 30 at night. I just put my four kids to bed. Guess 111 go curl my hair and do aerobics not withheld Fumk fort my 1 Point out bal physical Beauty is not regarded by most people to be a Trail on Par with Tome others such As kindness consideration Courtesy and forbearance your Tetter is not Likely to cause anyone to lose anymore weight or try any harder. What your letter will achieve it the purpose of making some women evermore insecure and have even lower self a Siefero. My husband and 1 met in the Field. I had not Bee near a Tower in a week and my hair Naib and make up were somewhere in the cellar on my list or Priori lies. My husband to be was t looking for hair Zafli and though. He was looking fora Penon to do a lob that needed to be done. I could do he Job and he admired that somewhere Down the line we fell in love. Most of my acquaintances and friends Are like my husband astute enough to realize thai appearance Ore not everything. This May amaze you As a singularly corny Obser vation but no one is perfect. People Excel and Are weak in different areas. People also take Pride in Dif Ferent accomplishments. Some women May Rise from an hour of work in front of their makeup Mirror with feelings of profound satisfaction. I get my biggest tense of Pride from running. Some people paint write sew Etc. Self Pride is not measured on the bathroom scale every morning As we gel out of bed. Mrs t. As Germany As for How people dress Well it does t matter i they Are in a designer outfit or lev is. Personally f prefer the Levis nowadays people Are so fashion conscious they forget the Basic things. It s not what s on up outside it s what is in your heart. This world needs More Friendly Down to Earth peo ple who accept people the Way they Are. Brenda Daman Pir Masens Germany i would like to address the three main problems this writer had with people who display their embarrassment 1 have two children one of whom is 2 years old so i guess he s too Young to be embarrassed yet but my 8-year-old daughter has never conveyed any negative messages concerning any pen pals a i am Taw ill it Corina pending Mefi All Young Paopi Tsirou Ghoul a world. F would by my Nama added id pour pan poll column r ilk to it my last Tel toc ctr i am k t tart Belaud a tilt Ouw Chmaj. I would Naa to twi Espond with Boyt and Gini ill vow Tea world 1 spoil French. Anh and Engin. My co butt Ara pm temp lao Bah Ilia nine id pen pin Hiow Iha world. I pm z7 Riata on. Or no oui r4 band doing to moot Marc Cly Lino and Art. of &f.a.r. � i warn mtg Tut Poi from in ont m Mirld. I am 28 a Nott my him Tom to. Nobo apr. Poi us. Num. Met cuing ind girding. 19. 1 m in Ami airman. I d h o to atm la a port a a min Untig to Muu. Mig Law i ind thing. Bdx.433 embarrassment for me. She loves me for the godmother i am and a proud to have me visit Hei class room and meet her friends. Pride i take Pride in my accomplishments Notin my appearance a lot of which the Good lord gave me and could take away in a second health four months ago i was Given a com plete or at least pretty thorough physical exam an was round to be in excellent health. I Don t even want to get started on the comment concerning adultery. By the Way i m in my 20s, and i never leave my House without a Shower shampoo makeup or clean pressed clothes of one More thing. I m 50 pounds o weight and i bite my nails but i m not ashamed to sign my letter. Karen l. Balsamo a Germany. Some people not women exclusively do dress poorly. Maybe they feel differently about it. Maybethe Exchange and the commissary Don t motivate them enough maybe they Aren t married to a pro maybe maybe maybe. Frankly i Don t need makeup to feel Good about myself. A. Smith Anerth i Loo am a military wife who is also an equal partner to her husband. I keep he Home tires burning each and every single Day As most of us do. But i Donot Sec any Gam in berating other military wives 1 see be they fat or thin with curlers or without. It will Only create an animosity that is quite unnecessary. As military wives we should be comrades in arms instead of enemies. Foot everyone can a fluid Todress like a fashion Model. Most military budgets Don t allow for such extravagance. Ours certainly does t. We buy whip we can afford. Susan l. Griffiths stall gait the fallowing people agreed with Maul of the senti ments in the above letters k Ryan Wuerzburg Ger Many Anita j. Ashenberg Mauntal Germany , kaisers Aulton Roberta b. Jacobson Frank Furt Sharon Legette Asclia Lenburg Germany Lori Dewald Berlin Diane Tatum Rhein main and Ger Many staff sgt. Mary m. Britton Berlin Patricia . Vasquez Wurz Burfie Sally j. 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Iraq Olling ind going to m Ann Landers i dear Ann Landers lately 1 have been hearing and Reading a lot about single women who can t find a decent Guy. Well there Are lots of decent Guy out there and we Aren t All that hard to find. I Don know if this Long winded letter Merit space in your column but 1 would like to mount my Soapbox on behalf ofor. Right who is also desperately searching forms. Right. No wonder you single Ladie can t find me. 1 hear you com Plain of being stuck in unfulfilling relationships biding your time thinking you will change ithe Jerk. Fat Chance or you think or. Right will appear one Day and sweep you of your feet. Falter Chance unfortunately by remaining in a relationship with or. Safety valve you Are eliminating 99 percent of your opportunities. If we should meet i would not look at you a second time so Long a you have him tagging along. Slop wasting your Lime and or. Safety valve s time As Well. Do you think he would want you to Settle for him if he s not your or. Right let him go. He May be someone else s. 1 know ii s Tough but do in Only then will you Fin me. And the Best thing about me is that you won t have to change me one bit. After All i m or. Right new England do or. Right what you in suggesting takes More count Mast people Hare. Ltd Kulij hard la throw away bread and go looking for cake. Most women feel thai Medio Cre or flawed Guy ii better than none at All. Do not agree. So go ahead and make toe break you Gutsy ones who Belkot you re entitled to better. Gie in a whirl Yon ran alway Settle Bat give youself a Hance to Trade up. Dear Ann Landers i am writing in response to shocked in ican understand How she feels because we also fell prey to theft when we lost a moved one. The theft did not occur at our Home during the services. We arranged to have a Friend stay there 11 look place at the funeral parlor. Someone removed Large Diamond ring from my Mother s fingers As she was viewed by family members and friends. We Are All bail Ltd As to How this could have happened. To Date we have received no satisfaction from either the funeral parlor director or the police. Please print my letter Ann. People should be made aware of How easily these things can happen. . In Lancaster. A cars a i m surprised it does t happen More often. L e see Many deceased who were Laid out wearing exquisite Jet Elry. May i suggest to All family members who choose Todo this that they have a Security officer beside the open casket wind the clock dear Ann Landers i have a close Friend who eats like a Baboon. He i such a Fine person in every other Way i cannot under stand Why he has t caught on to himself. Eds head is always in the plate. He holds his knife and Fork As if they were weapons. 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