European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 21, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday. January 21, 1987 the stars and stripes Lander dear Ann Lander 1 beg to differ with the re y Ponse you gave the attorney who waa ashamed of hitting hit High school teacher in the fact with a banana Cream pie. He wanted to know if there was i Correct Way to Apo Logue for Tuch an act and added i would like to lend her a Check for 121 to pay for the cleaning of her Drew you encouraged trim to while and said that after All hint Yean the teacher should accept hit apology. No Way do you honestly believe that a lame apology and Lousy Check for $25 could nuke up for the humiliation that woman suffered killing a person in the lace with a pie is uncivilized behaviour. His letter of apology would Only dredge up bitter memories of Hal if the animal really wants to set things right there ii a Cornel Way to do it he should arrange a face to face confrontation with the teacher and permit her to bit him in the face with a banana Cream pie in the pretence of anyone she chooses to invite to witness the event this act of humility would put an end to the guilt he Hai been carrying around for � Many Yean. I would also help to repair the teacher self esteem. I will gladly contribute si00 toward any required travelling expenses provided the above condition Are met and i receive a photograph of the event. C.m.d., Bronx n, Broom i we frankly surprised at the dumber of people who Mote id to say As you did that the teacher would not and should not forgive the fellow. 1 guess i under estimated the level of vengeance out there. Some read in thought Pieer should invite the woman to sue him for assault and Battery and for info Erin Public incl Gnu r0 i kill believe a letter begging forgiveness is a Way Togo. Everyone at some time or another Don it least one thing in life for which be needs o be forgiven. Revenge to not in my opinion All that Sweet dear Ann Landers i m 30 years old and my Fiance is 31. Our wedding is planned for february 1988. Frank has met several members of my family since we started dating a year ago. I have met his family everyone except his Mother. When our meet ing was postponed for the fourth time i began to suspect that the did t want her son to girl married but 1 Wax wrong. Frank finally explained thai his Mother has a phobia about leaving the House. Also she refuses to be seen by anyone other than the members of he immediate family. Yesterday i heard Frank speaking 10 his Mother on the phone. He made a comment to the effect that if she did not attend our wedding he would feel very Hurt. Would it be possible for her to attend a gathering thai would include 75 people Many of whom she had never met before Lam truly baffled and need your guidance. . Dilemma Tarleau Fiuk t Mother has agoraphobia. This can be a be Terruj disabling illness and keep a person housebound can entry. If she is unwilling or unable to go for came Ling. 1 Reoh Nowend two books by or. Claire Weeke peace from nervous suffering and Hope help for the Check to Library and a Mottorea. Paa 11 letter Soldier questions mandatory flu shots i am normally very healthy. I never Waidt the flu on my own. T am not allergic 10 the shot nor do i have any violent Adverse reactions to the shot so i cannot normally be exempted. But each Lime i be been Given the shot within two weeks i come Down with severe respiratory problems normally diagnosed As bronchitis. This usually lingers in my system Oft and on for the next three months severely limiting my ability to perform my duties. This connection has never been specifically mentioned by the doctors who treated me. So no pattern was Ever established. When i attempted to explain this to my current doctor in order 10 be exempted from the shot hit year at 1 have been Able to in the past 1 was told i could not the doctor went on to say his hands were tied i would have to Lake the shot and come Down with bronchitis and severe respiratory distress for the next three months to prove this connection so i can be exempted from future shots. Please understand that t am not allergic to the idea of Shott 1 am not trying to get out of doing my duly to myself and the regulation. I take whatever shots Are necessary without qualms except for the flu shot which t feel is impractical in my situation. Now i understand that the idea behind the Manda tory annual flu shot is to prevent a massive outbreak of More virulent forms of influenza. By injecting Soldier with a Small amount of live virus vaccine and Induc ing a mild form of the flu the body supposedly buildup antibodies to other forms of flu. But where is the logic when i have to get severely ill just to prove i gel severely ill is there no other Way to prove my claim i have not been ill enough to be Given quarters in the last two years. I have not taken the shot in the last two years. How can it Benefit the army if 1 am either on sick Call or on quarters for a prolonged period if i am not at work doing my Job because i m Home recovering someone will have to do my Job As Well As theirs. Their work and mine will Mast assuredly suffer. How can this Benefit anyone Are the regulations so rigid that exceptions with due cause cannot be made if so this is highly illogical and benefits no one. Name withheld leghorn Italy editor s note col. Michael Benenson chief preventive Medicine 7th medical come replies the writer raises a common complaint about the influenza that instead of preventing influenza the shot actually causes the individual to come Dow with the symptoms of the illness. As indicated in the letter it is commonly thought that the vaccine ii lire rims and thus Able to cause disuse. The vaccines used Are either split product Tirana or whole rim vaccines. The split Sims vaccine contain Only pieces of virus White the whole Rios vaccine contains Only killed virus particles. Neither can cause influenza. Some individuals do however develop mild reaction including Lent muscle ache and local redness at in injection site. These Side effect arc limited and Iusally pc kit Only one to two Day. The illness described by the writer Uren brooch i for several months. It dearly different from the possible tide effects for the vaccine. Each yen the Type of vaccine that i a based upon an estimate of the Type of influenza Risum that Are most Likely to be Drin Lang in the population daring the coming flu season. Tils year there la a Biva Lent vaccine made up or three different flu strata a Chile a my Filippi and Baan Arbor. In late sprint it Wai discovered that then Wai another flu Strain a Taiwan circulating and causing disease. For that reason another monovalent vaccine against the a Taiwan Vinu waa Alto developed. It ii now Clear that the military Community in Europe May ice Conte me disease from the a Taiwan Sims. The Morov Jeat vac Cine will be available and will be Given to pc Ruu at increased risk from Lull Vinu. The military influenza Imoni Safion program b in tended to provide Prol Moa to that Large Toben of individual a not become Iii a massive of Zbitak of the disease could Impact on Hudon readiness. It to also administered to protect individuals who Are Likely to develop severe if they do contract Inseon i. It u unfortunate out a vaccine that ipod Skally protects against the Rimes prot entry in Dre Starlon could not be made available earner in the year. The Fin mum no nation program ii usually conducted during the Otoin months a time when influenza and other respiratory disease viruses Are circulating in the Community. It is Likely that individuals getting 111 about the time that they receive their flu vaccine Are actually feeling the effects of another Vinu which i com Dently related id the timing of the flu shot i appreciate the concern of the writer and basest thai the regulations Are not m rigid that exceptions cannot be made. It la unusual Micas the writer h a heavy smoker or has other Malliory problem Mohave severe bronchitis for several oath at detained. 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