European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 22, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday january 22, 1987 the stars and stripes Ann Landers dear Ann Landers in a recent column you said no one is responsible for any one s life bul his that line made me fee by incr but i m still loaded no guilt. Here is my Story my husband and i were re turning from a vacation in Flor Ida. I was driving. I did i see the Stop sign and chose the ditch rather than a head on collision. Rob was killed. I walked away with a few minor bruises. I feel responsible for my Hus a band s death and have contemplated suicide because i Don t deserve to live. Every night i review ways to do it by comes the Dawn and realize 1 Don t have the courage. I so a nut about scat Belli and refuse to Stan the car until the person next to me is buckled up. This time i did t even mention it to Rob for some mysterious reason. When the police officer arrived i heard him say the woman had her seat Belt buckled. Too bad the my did whenever any driving was to be done i was always the one who did it even with friends because i was considered the Best i have been driving for 30 years and never had an Accident until this one. 1 feel a if i have killed my husband and am asking you to Ell me How 1 can go on. Please give me some of your Wisdom. I need it. . In Providence . Deark my did t kill your husband. Yon bid in Accident Tad be died. I realize that telling Yon thai la not going to solve Yoor problem. Yon need counselling preferably from i number of the clergy. Today not clergy persons ire wed nth we in grief therapy let me hair from von when Yon kid this letter in print Plenh to me Yon ire going to follow my instructions. We will bold feel better. Dear Ann Landers Bridgeport Reader ii justified in her outrage that men on new York subways and buses Don t give their seats to the handicapped elderly and pregnant. But Why does t she put the blame where it belongs on the feminists i was brought up in the old fashioned traditional Way taught 10 give my seat 10 a woman pregnant or not. After being railed a male chauvinist pig n few limes i began to rethink the code. The feminists wanted Equality for women they got it. I la stand up for a pregnant woman the Day i Sec a woman stand up Tor a pregnant Man. . In Granville. . De a jul Don t make any rash statement sir. Medical technology is performing such incredible feats these Days i would t Bel against int Hong. The Wotan in the next seat May be surrendering her Seal to a pregnant fell 10 Ynn from now. Dear Ann Landers we be had Bootsic a toy poodle for eight years. Our first child was born two weeks ago Bootsie has become melancholy since we brought Al Home from the Hospital. My husband says she s jealous. Can this be if so. What can we do about it k.c., to. 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Why is it then that no one checks my number when i go to Cash a Check at the commissary or main Exchange the cashier cares Only about my husband s number when it does not identify or represent the account the funds Are originating front i have been told that if i should write a bad Check my number will be placed on the bad Check list. What docs it matter when no one checks my account in the first place my worry is this Are there Dod employees dependents who Are free to write bad checks even though their Check cashing privileges May be suspended their social Security num Ber placed on the bad Check list but Only their Spon Sor s number is being identified or is it fair that Dod civilians dependents arc unable 1o utilize their own account because their sponsor s number is listed on the bad Check list even though these individuals Are traceable by their own social Security number and place of duty or should t both numbers be checked against the bad Check list so that Money is not lost or wasted through irresponsible Check cashers 1 have discussed this subject with the managers and supervisors of two main exchanges and a local commissary. None of them can agree. Each have their own policies with obvious loopholes. What is the Rue Cofiey mrs Lisa k. Wheeler Ludwig Burg Germany editor s note we received two replies to this letter. The first is from col. Donald e. Gilbert vice commander he cafes Ernp to utilize Exchange privileges to include Check cashing privilege family member Moil Hurt valid id card which is procured by the sponsor. The Timily member privileges Are based solely on the sponsor s alarm m military member or command sponsored Dod employee. Cafes policy require the Sponzo soda Security number name Ink and unit addicts be wed when a family member cashes a Check. This include checks drawn on the family Mentor s personal checking account. If a Check written by a family member i Dishon ored by the Bank it is recorded under the Spoor s san and Law sponsor a contacted Idt tit nation. Should the sponsor s Check cashing privilege be sus Pended the family member s privileges Are impeded As Well. The Only time we require verification of the family member s social Security number is when the sponsor has tiled a disclaimer of responsibility or when the family member is identified As a former a remarried wife or husband the second reply is from Capi. Mark Macejko office of he Deputy chief of staff. Resource management he Usa eur the Chedi of Hong facilities a a. Cafes. Commis sary Etc an furnished a consolidated dishonoured Check list by the common Ltd Check control officer. This list i prepared from information received from each Check cashing facility. The policy with regard to preparing this list i that the social Security number san appearing on a dishonoured Check be placed on the list. If the sponsor writes a bad Check the sponsor s san Mill appear of the list if family member writes a bad Check on an account separate from the sponsor the Billy Mem Ber s san should appear on the list. 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