European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - March 4, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday March 4, 1987 the stars and stripes Ann Landers Dew Ann Landers my Fitim confided in me thai he his cancer of the hints Al though he has not icon doctor. He baud hit diagnosis on per Sonal experience As a registered nurse for More than 20 has the symptoms which Are hoarseness for quell coughing and pain. He is s3 and hit smoked two packs of cigarettes daysincehewasl3. The Man u very stubborn re fuses to see doctor and has made me take an oath that i would not Tell and dad Are separated to the family net to see him Only during the Holiday and school am Sci sure How to handle this situation and would appreciate any advice you May have. Thank you distressed and undecided co to Row to Lett As soon at Post by and by to per Suade him to an a physician at orc. He May not Haw cancer. If be does hire it his Thane for Marl no Are extremely Uin Hon a medical Art infer any circumstance bet Rhu Confidence in the Hope that others May persuade him to seek medi Cal help. He Baa placed a Beany Burden on Yon Bat Yon Moat Honor your oath. Good lock and keep me posted. Dear Ann Landers can you stand one More Teller about parents who Are Boring and repetitious t found solutions. May Start them show interest. My father in Law 74 Brines up Oisin world War ii every time we see Nim. My service technique for avoiding boredom is to ask questions what fort of the South Pacific what were your duties do you still hear from people you served with How old were you i ask him to pull out his maps and show me exactly where he was. It thing Story and. Of course he loves Iti turns into a fascinate your first Plymouth Cost Only $8007 what color wait was it automatic How Many Miles did you get on a gallon of Gas do you have pictures of it where were you living Iben 1 mention the car i am driving and laugh about the contrasts and mom wants to talk about the past i encourage her Toleu us again about How she met dad. She loves that Story. Another favorite topic is the Day i was bom. Her eyes Shine with Delight every Lime she tells us How babies come when they Are ready doctor or no our parents made room for us a their lives whether they wanted to or not. So now it s our turn to make room Tor them.1 realize i m rambling but my message is an important one arid 1 Hope you will print it seeing myself in 40 years Dew seeing Veir Good eyes Yon Lutc we a Good head too. Thank Tor your Wisdom Etty impatient critical son and Uchler need to read your letter a second time. They need to remember too that the Apple of tent guitar from the tree. Dear Ann Landers a dear Friend of mine was buried yesterday. She died in a fire that was caused by a frayed Cord on he Christmas tree lights. 1 Hope All your readers who use such lights will clip this column and tape it to the Box of tree fights so they will see it next december. So Many people use the same lights year after year without chocking to see if the cords Are in Good condition. If there is any sign of Wear throw them out. Sad in thank Yon for a letter that do Trca serious , readers get the Edsson and clip this Odumn. Dumit Utora mom Humm. Tat Eta mtr to fur in can a Tinen to so. Apom211. La f Page 11 letters spending extra time with the children 1 was very impressed with hey dad How Comert be always said i would write such letter but i never seem to Nave the Lime. I m always Busy coaching you children How to play softball soccer or basketball or to Busy being a bus Monitor. Did you know your children Call me Moid did you know they can my husband dad Why do you figure they do this sure 1 know you re Busy you work Oul or the Home you have Little ones who need you Welt folks so do 1 but that has never slopped me forget about that to forget about that cold Bee Rand get off your bulls and become involved in your children s lives they weren t asked to be born re member just because they can dress themselves fix their own meals and Dean up after themselves does not mean they no longer need mom and dad anymore. They Are Only Young once. I often hear women complain about never seeing their husbands and i hear the husbands saying How they never see their wives Well what about How the children fed never seeing either of you seeing you before they leave for school and at the dinner table snot enough. Do you really know your child Are you aware How Hurt they Are that you come Home from work in a bad mood screaming and Yelling at them because of your bad mood it s at these times that your child comes id my House it s my husband and 1 who try to help your child understand that you Don l hate them. It s us your children come to when they Are sad or i trouble. It s us they Tell their troubles Hopes and dreams to. It s us who wipe your child s tears. I bet my husband and i know your child better than you do. It s not too much to ask to attend your child s activity is it it s not too much to ask to put that Magazine Down and watch your child at this activity n it Youcan pretend 10 be paying attention but they notice what you re really doing and it hurts just As much Ashen you re not there maybe even More. We wonder Why our children Don t listen to us whence talk to hum. Well if we Don t listen to them when they talk what do you expect if your child is causing trouble in school on the buses or in the housing area rather than throw you arms in the air saying 1 can t understand her or him talk to them. Listen to them. Heat what they arc saying All they really want is your love and Atten Tion. If getting into trouble is the Only Way they Cangel that attention that is exactly what they will do. I d like to say one More thing. Mom and dad. Al that Money you re so worried about making to buy a Schrunk Grandfather clock or whatever is not half a important As those children you have. They should come first after All you had them name and location withheld pay those taxes gladly says Reader As americans living in Freedom and relative Prosperity we Nave Learned to expect much and give Little. This is sadly rarely More apparent than at tax time. I have heard a buzzing of familiar grumbles. People Are angry because the government takes such a seemingly Large bite out of their paycheck. They seem to be wanting in effect something for nothing. It is Lime we re examine our selfishness. Our government has come once again upon Trou bled times. We have a budget deficit so Large that most americans cannot conceive of its magnitude and Impact our nation is faced with a multitude of pressing problems that must soon be dealt with effectively. To list just a few the plight of drug abuse that threatens our nation and its most valuable resource our youth. Education. It is imperative that we As a nation take this Issue More seriously. Educators must be paid More and our academic standards rated. Money for catastrophic health insurance. A humane and just proposal that As of yet lacks fund ing. Saving our nation s family farms and individual industries. They Are at the heart of american Freedom pen pals Fri my Chw ppm 6� Row Ourin your a on mum. Wii Crimi Vigw Puu Mhd i mud he u Corr find Wiki poop a our on Cirki 1 to 33 Van but Tom Law a i Muraj pm 31fan do m mum he u he an Lull. Mthm and Are just a few monetary needs that face our nation. And we cannot forget military members the government not Only pro Vides our paycheck but also our health care education and retirement. In our service to our country we Sacri fice much. Yet 1 feel our government returns this faithfulness and then some. Our government has Given us freedoms previously unknown to human civilization. Freedom to live work and worship As we choose. The Freedom to write and say what we think. Most of All the free Dom to pursue our own happiness. Most of us have known More of ii than our ancestors would Ever have it is once again that Lime of year to pay the Price. We should pay our taxes gladly military members an civilians alike. We could even consider forgoing a few self serving deductions. It is an investment in our future and our children s future. 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