European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - July 30, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday july 30. 1987 the stars and stripes ten Landers dear Ann Landers several weeks ago i was Lold about something that Happy Ned to the son of a Lovely neighbor couple. I hive not been Able 10 sleep since. Here s the Story. What can i do to help As i birthday Gin a group of the Young Man pals solicited a sexually Active girl to spend three hours with him in a Motel. When he Wai lok of the gift he tried to get out or it but hit friends insisted that he accept it As his initiation into the fraternity of he met the girl in the Motel room. Lacr they had sex the excused herself to go into the minute went by and she did not return so he went to look Tor her. On the bathroom Mirror scrawled in lipstick was the message Welcome to the world of Page 11 Jet Fehr the Young Man thought in was a joke. Several months later when he was bothered by headaches he went to see a physician. The doctor asked if there had been any changes in his behavioural pattern. He thought in beat to mention the Motel incident. The boy was tested fat aids and the results were positive. To girl and her family have since moved out of town. That birthday was the boy i 14th. His parents Are beside themselves. What can be done sleepless nights in Canada dear Canada or Utate editor Tom states advised Roe not to print your letter because be Laid it is one of those often repeated stories that has been Annid for months and May of be me i Matt that the Tetter should be primed with disclaimer because it ill Starlei end Point teen agers just As to aids As adults. It 1 apparent that we cant depend of Attenni to eds a Isdr Cluren abort Nee a. The of Mast to done 1" the Schoola. Ii b no inter a matter of mag kid they already have ideas. It la now a matter of Virtud death. Dear Ann Landers my husband and i met and married when we were both 20 years old. He came from a broken Home barely graduated from High school and then went into the service. We were very much in love had three children in live years and i was Happy to be a military wife an homemaker. Moving so often changing schools and leaving goo friends were hard on the kids but nobody complained. 1 made it my business to keep the family morale husband often bragged about what a terrific wife i was. In 198s, after 23 years of marriage Tny husband told me he wanted an open i did t know what he meant. When he said i want to be free to Lake out other women and you can go Wilh other men i nearly died. 1 told him i had no desire to be Wilh other men and if he wanted to run around 1 would give him a divorce. 1 was stunned when he took me up on in we were divorced shortly after and within a few months he married a woman younger than our daughter. He still owes me Money on the divorce be lost my health benefits and am living from hand to Mouth. I feel helpless and miserable. What can i do a. In Oklahoma Denord. Pec Ahmadi write to expose a. A 11191, Alexandria a. 21313 far air a to a Yob a it film top aa41 Mac to to gel it. On exercising voting rights in the military i m concerned about a subject and wander if you an help me understand in belter the topic is voting. The Secretary of the army has developed the theme of the Constitution for this year but since i be been in the army i have never seen any education or emphasis placed on How crucial an Clement voting is in democracy. I realize in would not be appropriate for the military to push any particular party i.e., democrats republicans but i m sure there Are Community Volunteer groups like the girl scouts or boy scouts that would be Happy to help Register people in military communities to vote without Bias or favouritism to any candidates or states. Many soldiers Are fond of believing that what we Are matters and that the experience of soldiering makes us appreciate our country More than some citizens be cause our lives could literally be on the line in any 24 hour period if soldiers made voting a regular habit we d Proba Bly see that Congress would t hesitate to give us an Nual and Coit of living raises because they d sense what so Active part of their constituency we arc considering the fact that Many people come of voting age while Are in the military and others marry or for other reasons change their stale of Legal residence while in the military. I believe it would be Good for America if instead of being ignorant about what constitutes a Strong democracy we held in together from within by voting. The Way i see it the military docs not have the roman Ideal of Llic citizen Soldier if Many of us arc just a disenfranchised pan of America. Spec. 4 Laurie Castro Ansback Germany editor s note it. Col. M. Wright acting Deputy director Community and family support Agency he Usa eur replies voting As one of the rights established under the Constitution he always been i important Izue to the army. Ery Yew Here is a great Effort nude from he Secretary of the army Down through the Chain of com Mand la publicize elect inns and to ensure Ter pne has the Opportunity to Vole. Unit voting officers help individuals obtain Absentee ballots and assist them u Roqu Elrd. Information on election deadlines and slate Ming offices is publicized an an in the stars and stripes Usa eur and Community Bollt tins on frequent basis. Anyone who is unsure As to what state he is Resi Dency in. In order to vote humid see Hli local Irgil assistance office for help. Thank Yon for Yaw concern and interest particularly in Light of the publicity on our constitutional rights especially the one of voting. Club games questioned which Witch is which the government spends a Large amount of Money on advertising and Public service announcement. What s the message to be Here to be Here together to be Here together in love. The army promotes the family. There an Many Good programs set up for just that but could someone please explain Why the army allows its club systems to play ludicrous games promoting just the oppo site attitude i thought our club system was set up to support our soldiers and heir families. A local dub leu its patrons be penalized and harassed by other club members. Here is How this game works. If a male service member is at the club and his wife Calls pressure is put on the service member to buy a round of drinks for his party or in some places a round for the House. Not a married men who go to the clubs Ait hiding and there is always a Remote possibility that the wives have legitimate reasons for calling their husbands a Man walking into a club should be Able to relax and not worry that his wife might Call and strip . Name and location withheld Day care gets Praise when something is done Well and it benefits the Community 1 feel it should be recognized. We have lived in or around three different military communities in Germany in the last seven years and have used All the Day care centers serving those posts. Since coming to Hohenfels training area in september 1985 we have been helped Many times in the most Friendly professional Way by the Day care Center. My son is now getting ready to leave heir program for the Dodds school and is Well prepared. The continuing High Quality of workers has ensure excellent care for my Ypung Esi and they have continually been aware of his individual needs and personality. Be Tisco and pcs irnpcrtar.,-, they have allowed me to u worry free while at work. What Mother could ask for More Here is a big thank you to the Haven fils Day care Center for being there for my family. Nanewl Libeu Koh Enlet Germany this letter is in response to numerous articles printed in the stars and stripes thai refer to witches As self actually self proclaimed is Only the tip of the iceberg. There arc Many instances where prejudice against witches is considered Normal. First of All Why Are Only witches referred 10 As self proclaimed it makes us sound like we re doing some thing phony or crazy. Why Aren t christians buddhists moslem etc., self proclaimed anyone who chooses a particular religion or philosophy is self pro claimed second though this sounds Picky we Ere referred Toas practising witches. 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