European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - September 23, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday september 23, 19b7 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers l ear Ann Landers i just read the letter from the woman who sleeps in the closet and it is Noi As Crary As you might think. I be been doing it off and on for Aboul three years and it Proba Fly saved our marriage. My Hus band snores so loudly thai he drowns out the ringing of the phone. The Man sounds like a High powered Motorboat. A Roo room Bash huh a Rowitt banh Lith in addition 1o the noise he Flop around like a fish in the Bottom of a boat. You might us Well iry to sleep on a me am much belie Roft in the closet Ann. I have a lamp in there an alarm Dock and a matl to. My husband is a Sweet person. He has offered to give me the bed and sleep in the closet himself but he is too tall to ill. If we were still struggling to share a bed i Don Tichik our marriage would have tasted. All hat Racket and the flopping and flailing would have finished us off. But the end is in sight and f m very optimistic. We Are saving for a trip o a sleep disorder clinic and i m sure we will find a solution there. Scorer s wife in wife i cant believe your husband has t been to local no Wand Throat specialist so i wort Sonny pc. Good fuck it it do pfc dear. I Insl can l Bear to Tabu of Yon sleeping i that closet for the rest of your life. Dear Ann Landers you be printed several letters from concerned adult children mho Are worried sick about grandpa who is poor and dangerous Driver but refuses to surrender the keys 10 the car. 1 would like to suggest that these children enrol grandpa or grandma in a program called 55-alive. This program is offered All Over the country by Volunteer teachers and is sponsored by the american association of retired persons Harp. For $7 and eight Houra of his time grandpa will team How to Cope with the aging process and be a safer better Driver. Information on 55-alive can be obtained by calling a senior citizen Center in your area or write to Harp 55-alive-mature driving,1909 k Street n.w., Washington . 20049.1 am an old Friend of yours from Sioux City and a trained volunteering California dear Sylvia it was Woad Ful to Star from you after All these Yean. Think for the assist. If aah it in round it Igot to by Good. 1 ipod it lit National convention in Anaheim Calls but year and it ii a. Fantastic group. Coso glad Yon wrote to Tell u shoot 55-Aihe. It sounds terrific. Say hello to Amy dear Ann Landers i have a 57-year-old Drunken Sot of a brother in Law who also happens to be a philosophy professor at Awell known University. At a recent family picnic he became so drunk after consuming 12 Beers that he attacked my husband his brother after losing a card , our 15-year-old daughter at tempted to intervene and he smacked her in the face. She became hysterical and it took two hours to Cal her Down. Ii was not the first time this oui of control Bozo has struck one of our daughters. My husband refuses to pros charges. Can i fed Upland boiling mad fed and boiling you on indent but taking this Nutter to court May ear the family apart. I suggest that an intermediary Bally physician Fread or cig Mai talk to this tur key and Tell him thai he has no More chances. If he hits child of yours again he will Bare la Tell it to the hidden costs give renter headaches our slay in Germany has been ruined and it could happen to you. We had to live on the Economy. We took Pur contract to housing who acted As though it was Typ ical. They did not bring anything to our it Len lion. In late 1986 we received a 2.000 Mark Bill for 1985"extras." All the residents took their Bills to a lawyer. The charges were reduced 25 percent half of which turned outto be la fee. Two weeks after paying the 1985 extras we received another Bill for 3,1 do Marks for the 1986"extras." obviously we will get a 4,000 Mark Bill for 1987 when we return to the United states. These Bills arc paid from our own pockets and will note reimbursed. To move we would have to borrow an additional 3,000 Marks for Deposit and moving costs. We cannot manage this. We Are without transportation due to the expenses. The extras were salary for the Hau Meisler who Doe nothing for us and could t understand us if we asked insurance for Glass hot water building cleaning trash removal Etc. It is pro rated so when shops arc empty six vacant three occupied or apartments left vacant fast turnover always one to three of the six apartments vacant those suckers who remain Here pick up the Slack. We will be paving Jar these extras for years. A deluxe european vacation would have been cheaper name and location withheld editor s note Obhi ird Volt Cwmann Allf Ray advisor Legal assistance division office of the judge advocate Liq Usarek replies living on the Economy raises comp Kaled questions of rental practice and rental Lam of a for Rogn country. It is common practice to Germany to agree on monthly prepayments toward Utt Lilia and operating costs no decl to annul accounting a these tint important step therefore is to make sore that the prepayments Are Bawd on a a la st estimate. The records of the expenses in the preceding accounting period can be second important step b the a dlr of the account inf. For that pm oae the tenant or he has the right to re few be Bills Ond Tryina he land lord s accounting. Thai right i Hook he exercised with none month after the receipt of the a conning a tenant a Mien of he Bills by die family housing if there u a remaining Legal problem the tenant Shoul Contact he Legal assistance office in order to set up an appointment with the nearest German attorney employed by the army. Wife has fond memories of German tour Tongue. Buy a German English dictionary and give it your est shot. My husband got along very Well with his limited vocabulary of Cin Bier t waste your time griping about noisy neighbors an the commissary and Exchange or husband on Long Dys. We All have to put up with the same problems. What a Small Price to pay for this extended european vacation that a Nde Sam has granted us. Weather carry an umbrella. If it s raining in the morn ing go anyway. Most Likely it will Clear up later on in the Day and if not Well you won t , befriend a German family. Some of our Best times have been spent with a German family we Rachels Wiesbaden As we quickly approach the end of our tour Here i Germany i reflect on these last four Yean with nothing but fond memories. Living Here and u Veling throughout Europe has been a fascinating experience. I Only Hope that you will take my advice so that you too can enjoy this fabulous country As much As i have. Travel. Sec As much As you can. If you Don t have a car Lake the train or bus. If you can t get a baby Sitter take the kids. Europeans love children Ana certainly have a Way of calming them Down. If you Don t have any Money it costs next to nothing to vol Smarch in a nearby town or even i your own Community. This we found was the Best Way to see the country and gel to know the t let the language Slop you. Most germans speak English although they do like us to try their native personal use of cafes vehicles clarified would someone please clarify the policy on the use Ofa Afes vehicles they arc seen on the roads with families in them Bot during the week and on weekends at the commissary with the Driver loading groceries again both during the week and on weekends. These vehicles Are also seen taking the Driver and family to Church on sundays some of us Are under the impression that these arc still considered to be government vehicles and not for personal use. Has someone slipped a regulation somewhere along the line to cover for cafes name withheld Munich editor s note 14. Col Charlie White Public affairs officer he cafes Europe replies cafes Europe employees and assigned military personnel who shipped their automobiles at on a permanent change of station move Art authorized the use of a vehicle until their privately owned vehicle Pov has been shipped in these cases. Individuals May pick up vehicle to the end of their Doty Dayan must return it before the beginning of the next duly Day the vehicle May be dispatched doling the on pcs status Are allowed to transport their family members to perform Normal every Day Rou tines such shopping Al the commissary Post Exchange visits to medical facilities Etc. The use Ofa Afes Europe vehicles for personal entertainment Lei sure drives and trips out of the immediate area is no authorized re Garden of the individual s Toor state. Booklet lists Job opportunities in Europe As a department of the army employee currently seek ing employment with the . Military forces overseas i read your recent column with great interest. Information on employment with All branches of the military can also be found in a Booklet called jobs in Europe application acceptance listing which can be obtained from civilian recruitment Center he . 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