European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - October 20, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Tuesday october 20.1987 the stars and stripes Arm Landers dear Ann land in i Don t know what 10 do next 1 just discovered that our 1 a rear old daughter is sexually Active. 1 also found that the is on birth control pills. I have been completely incapacitated Tinee i found the Chi dance i can t do anything bul think about How badly we have failed. 1 can t talk to my husband about it he would go to pieces. Our whole lives have revolved around Thi child. We have tried hard to be Good parents. We sup ported her school activities and let her know that the could come to us with anything. I had several talks with her about premarital sex. She was. Brought up to be a Good Christian. I am devastated and Don t know what to do. Help me. Incompetent mom in Calif. Dear mom puke Don t hang any Laudt Melf. The tact thai Yoor Kughler Lias a in thu Way Doc but mean thai it Howrel in. At cast he has the Good acne to protect herself a Airt pregnancy. That ton pick Britt my Wal and Teu her that my know. Discus the guards of High school ice. There ire May Rementer tic Bone is already out of the barn an there it no Point in Reading the riot act a a her to Slop but Don t be surprised if she Don t. The important thing i to keep the lines of Colour Majca Tim oped and let her know that Yon Ion Ber. Dear Ann Landers there was a letter in your column recently about the abuse of 976 Telephone numbers. The Public needs to know How to Call a halt to this lucrative gimmick and i Hope you will lend a hand. In same parts of Pennsylvania you can put a Perma nent Block on 976 for a one Lime charge of Jio. Like Many others i have been a victim of Tele phone Bill Shock and so have some of my friends. The Bills can run into several thousands of dollars. Please be aware that it s not just kids who use the 976 num Bers but Many adults get their kicks out of dealing these numbers for the likes of jokes soap opera up dates weather reports and sexual messages. This is a great source of Revenue for the phone com Pany so of course it a not going to get the word out. It would be like killing the Goose that Lay the Golden eggs. I decided that Ann Landers is Best Friend of or. And mrs. America and that she would Tell Hern. Will you. Ann no More 976 in Philly dear Phil will it t just did. Thanks for the Alert. Meam Rhee. Be aware that a spokesperson from Bell Telephone told us that in the Pena Derpha Pittsburgh areas More than 40,000 people have accepted the offer to Block out 976 on their phones. It was free until aug. 100 i suggest that All readers Check with their local Tele phone companies and ask How they can put a Block on 976. It s Well Worth the one time charge of Sio. Go for it folks. Dear Ann Landers can you stand one More letter that illustrates the incredible ignorance of geography in this country before we moved to the u.s., we lived in Sweden. When i told our new neighbor where we came from she liked Are they Stilt yodelling Over there can you believe in s.s.a., Marietta a. Dear sea my 1 can believe it. T Hope you ump in something about the swedish Alps wry stitches and cuckoo clocks. Page 11 letters policy on postdated checks is explained i have been banking Wilh american express now for one year and the Bank does not comply with my Post dated checks that i write to pay Bills or obtain goods through Trie mail. For example Iii write a Check and postdate it for he Isle or the 30th of a Given month. These arc my paydays. I have direct deposits 1 know the Money is there on those Days. Now my debtors sometime receive my postdated Check before Tho a paydays. Then when the Bank receive my Check it does t have any regard for the Dale and will attempt to Honor that Check say on the 12th Ort Toh. Of course the Check will Bounce. There is not enough Money in my account in lil the 15lh or 30th. So because they Honor my postdated Check before time they tend me a notice thai they Are charging me the $ 11 service charge for insufficient funds. In t that illegal when 1 walk up to the Teller with a postdated Check they turn me away and Tell me come Back on the Day on the Check. Thai is what i expect. The Point is that they Are two faced. I think they should return All those Sis service charges to me. That ii stealing on top of that they took my express Teller card telling me that i bounced too Many checks the fault lies with them not me. Do you think a lawyer would help i have already written american express about Thil situation. I have not gotten a response. Name withheld of Essen Germany editor s note Betsy Robinson manager. Public affairs american express military banking replies the general business conditions governing the account relationship Chi eco american Kex Percsi Bank Ltd. And its customers recognize that postdated checks present unique problems for which the customer Ai fumes loll responsibility. The general business Condi Tion exclude any liability on the part of the Bank for payment of a Eui Lomer i Check regardless of the Dale written in the Check. Customer who write a postdated Check can came financial problem for them scores. Banks like ours which process checks electronically cannot Turify the Dale on the Check. A magnetic Reader Veritta account number and amount encoded on he Bottom of Abr Check during the automated process once you sign a Cheek ii immediately become washable item ran if it is in dated. Checks should therefore not be written without sufficient finds to com the amount. The Date on checks individually presented to tellers for cashing is verified. 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