European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - February 11, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Arm Landers dear Ann Landers May i borrow your column for a moment to Ray something to your malt readers Juit Ai there comes a Lime in every woman s life when the has to face the fact Chat there it no Prince charming there coma a time in every Man life when he should realize that sex is not the Panacea for everything that both Ersha wife Girlfriend Lover Etc. I am a fairly attractive woman f who has had number of lovers j in my life. I enjoys Bill i am Well aware that it is not a substitute for Good communication. So please Ann Tell those men out there thai when someone they care about ii depressed or up i to keep their Hies zipped and their can open. Wily am i writing about this now because i just ended a relationship that could have been wonderful. We varied out As platonic friends and gradually drifted into the bedroom. Thing were great for a year then i noticed the Friendship aspect had great Lar diminished and his Prin Cipal interest was set. When i had a problem and wanted him to listen while i sorted things out he would Lay Lei s tall about ii in i would feel so used afterwards thai 1 did t feel like talking so i d just Clam up when men ask women to have a drink and talk about a problem women Don t automatically by Lei s talk it Over in Why do men do this gave up looking for Prince charming a Long Lime ago. Now i m considering giving up period. Sad in Sacramento dears Aedon l ire in Honey jul titrate your numb adj then an mat Good men Ort Ben. Keep looking. Marti while Dunk for a letter that just might open up Tome baby tints. Dear Ann Landers. Several weeks ago i attended the wedding of my husband s brother. After inc ceremony the photographer look group family photon i was not asked to be in any of them. Instead i stood on the sideline in Plain View holding Nock books and Coats for inc others while their pictures were being taken. 1 was Hurt that 1 was not asked to step Imo at Lent i few pictures with my husband his parents and his Brothers and Sisters. Since none of his siblings ii mar ried 1 was he Only a blooded relative besides me Bride. My husband said 1 should have made my wishes known. 1 old him that he should have spoken up on my behalf. We quarrelled about it and he barely spoke to meal inc reception. I had a miserable Lime. We still Haven t settled this and it s hurting our marriage. Which of us is right snubbed in rale1ch dear snubbed it would have been inappropriate for you to ask to be included in he Poloi. Vitur husband however should baft bad the Grace to us Gowl that you slip in for one or two. In mar opinion he gets tie jute of the month award. Dear Ann Landers in Boston a. Few weeks ago a 5-year-old boy wounded a toddler by stabbing tier 17 limes after see ing two horror films. What More has to happen before something is done about the violence children see on to wondering in Boston dear Baton i read about thai incident and was appalled. The authorities Are Btl Najj very Coy about blaming motels or to but i d like to know when Elu would a 5-Jrai-cld to Smith idea Page 11 letters your personal sacrifices Are appreciated whal prompts me to write is the desire to 1cl those who Are protecting America from alar know that i am keenly aware of your personal sacrifices. 1 believe in what you Are doing. I was in elementary sch l during world War ii and will never forget the Price americans paid to secure the freedoms you protect today. Mar Home and family Are committed to the preservation of Freedom Loving Peoples everywhere. A recognize the Subtle dangers of today s world that seek to infiltrate and quietly subdue the free Dom America was founded on. My prayers my Money and my influence arc supporting you daily. Your ready presence in other lands is Nec Essary and Graily appreciated. I Grieve when i Sec so Many americans embracing a foreign ideology that distorted Media makes the newscasts regularly. That does t express me and i want each of you to realize the truth As we begin a new year. Mituta. Mccall Lufkin text Laws Don t Stop child abuse writer says my heart goes out to Kenneth Crspo and Elizabeth Steinberg and Many More. Like Many they arc inc victim of circumstance. The stars and stripes recently printed stories about these children who were killed by abusive Parelli Many people have been or will gel caught up in this inadequate Sailem of child care Foster care and Chil Dren s welfare and unfortunately the children them selves. Proper environments Are hard to judge or even come by. I know because i be been there. Being an orphan or Fowler child can be mentally painful. What Ever a child has experienced it Manifest in inc brain end never leaves. This was the ease with Gladys Crespo Kenneth s Mother Sall Yoi knew the when we were growing up in a place where no one wanted us. Even then Jay Taylor and Gladys Crespo were unfit and violent. I still can remember when they used to laugh at me because i sri cd to be an outcast and different but guess who made it 1 can i believe that the courts would allow custody to Jay Taylor but apparently someone did t do their Homework and the Buck was passed As usual. So another child is killed. Conviction life term sen tence and Case closed. I say pure bul when will children Stop dying because icy did t ask to be born when will our precious american Laws bring Back inc electric chair for parents like Jay Taylor and Many More never the Law is pure contradiction giving a life term sentence tells our children of America it s of to kill people. You go to jail and the government and tax acre provide for you. When you get out it s of to kill again. Some arc not As Strong willed determined or Lucky As 1 was. But maybe Kenneth Crspo and Elizabeth Steinberg would have been. Name withheld Glt Belstadt Germany testimonials on King much appreciated i want to commend an radio shape for airing at least three different taped testimonials on the life of or. Martin Luther King or. All were excellent. I lived in Birmingham ala., during part of the 60s and witnessed the civil rights movement firsthand. Al though these were painful times they were also magnificent times in that one saw daily examples of enor Mous courage. Since i am White my life was never on inc line but 1 was surrounded by those who literally risked their lives for racial Equality. One saw principles of democracy put above concerns for personal safety and Comfort or. King asked for Freedom now but never wavered from his principle of non violence. I feel privileged to have heard or. King or Fred l Stulll Esworth and others in person and to have had some Small part in this great movement. The speeches of or. King especially those included in the special tape prepared by an Berlin brought Back memories of these limes. This radio coverage was a wonderful Opportunity for me to share with my Chil Dren the importance of or. King s work. Our world is still not free of prejudice but last year a Friend of mine told me something that gave me hone for the future. She told me that she had grown up in Montgomery. Ala., and remembers when her High school was first integrated. She said she never spoke to the three Black girls who were added 10 her class. She told me she wishes she could find these women today and apologize. Altitude do change if Ever so slowly again i want to thank an radio for keeping the words of or. Martin Luther King or. Alive and for helping new generations to gain an appreciation of this Man s courage and Wisdom. 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