European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - May 12, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Page 11 ii Landers Pear Ann Landers my husband was a therapist who lost his License after becom ing sexually involved with several female patients. He led these women 10 believe thai he loved them and broke up their marriages. Please Ann warn your readers Hal if a therapist starts to talk about his personal problems especially if he is critical of his wife this is inappropriate behave Lor. He should be old Ai once 10 gel i own therapist. If he nukes any sexual advances you can be sure that he has made the tame advances toward others. I am at 0 loss id understand How i could have lived with this Man for nearly 20 years and not have known How twisted and devious he was. Please Ann print this letter As a warning to female patients everywhere. A therapist who violates the Ethi Cal and moral code of his profession deserves to hive the Book thrown at him n u name no City please. Just crushed in the . Dear crashed i turn addressed this subject in the column before but wee note wan1 hurl. Svend Maihs ago h a meeting of the ill Nolt psychiatric society in Chicago an Oak Brook psychiatrist said that annul Nohn Nunt Between a patient and he or her therapist is not necessarily harmful it described Ore of his patients who had had sex with presloid but he made it dear tint be Hail never done to himself or. Richard bar a member of the society s ethics committee disagreed vehemently. He said providing my ratification for Money was characteristic of an other pm Feuidi thai he nothing to do with psychiatry. A Tonry by b Harvard medical school researcher or. Nanette Gartrell found the meeting of More than 100 where the question thu aided Haw Many of jut Haw treated patients who had had Lex with a or Erros psychiatrist nearly every hand in the room went up. Doctor heal ibis elves. Dear Ann Landers u there legitimate marriage broker in the United states read a newspaper article about b new York based organization recently that sounded As if it was in Busi Ness to do the kind of arranging thai family friends and Community groups used to do in bygone Days. Unfortunately 1 misplaced the article Ana can t track Down the organization. I m not interested in dating service or lonely hearts clubs too risky. But is there a legitimate organic Avion that matches partners for marriage especially professional people which i am ?1 would very much like to Contact such an Agency. Can you help marriage minded in Oregon dear my. In x Sony no. While arranged marriage could t posse by be Wane than what people do on their own 1 ant 0 part of such operations. Dear readers Rumor posts that i 1 have retired. Fol 1 work Only port Lime and someone he is to Tallinn Ray Cabana. C 1 died and the papers Are keeping it quiet i am hippy to report that i an alive and Well that t7 word written under my byline is written by me and trill Ctm tone to be and the word retirement is not in my vocabulary. A Soldier in jail warns about drug abuse i m a Soldier who is now a resident at the . Army confinement facility. Mannheim Germany. I m concerned about drug abuse in the military. I myself have thrown away 8 i Good years of military service. What do i attribute it to 1 attribute it to drugs. I was a heroin abuser. Those of us who take drugs regardless of what Type have Many different reasons for doing to. For some of us it May be for fun or due to peer pressure or just because it seems to be the now thing la do. Although i m not Here on drug related charges 1 might As Well be. Almost every Day i see soldiers just like me who had a Good career in the military family and lot of Little things we take for granted All going their Way come to the facility on drug related charges. My message to you is Short and simple. Are you really prepared to pay the Price for drug abuse of sure you la say ill never gel caught no they won t eaten me on a urine test Only the slip la ones get the next time you go to buy drugs or a Friend offers some answer the following questions Are you really ready to destroy your body Are you really ready to bring shame and Embarrass on your family and the us armed forces for a false sense of pleasure Are you really ready to spend Money that could be put to better use Are you really ready to give up your Pride and dignity Are you really ready to give up your Freedom the very thing that the armed forces stand for if you re ready to join my new friends and me then answer yes. I answered yes. And gave up All of the above. Gave up my spouse and children my Job. And my Freedom for drugs. Think about All you have to lose. We look at an and laugh at some of the commercials about drug abuse. 1 know i did. But if you value those things that i mentioned think about it. Look in the Mirror picture yourself behind bars. Look at your spouse and children. Arc you really ready to give them up do your life a favor Don t be a dope. Just say no. Spec. 4 Clyde to Curry ii is. Army confinement facility Mannheim West Germany Reader says military has Good managers in a recent article published in the stars and stripes on giving overseas lottery a Chance a report stated officer and enlisted development programs Aren t structured to produce skilled business manag ers i take that statement As a direct slap in the face. I know i can speak for Many air Force personnel and i m positive the other services Are not much differ ent. People from All ranks including officers and enlisted supervise manage and direct millions of dollars Worth of military manpower resources and equipment and Are doing a pretty Good Job of in. The planning budgeting and programming pro Cess is mind boggling at limes but Tome very smart people Are making it happen. It is True we do not have to worry about profit and loss statements. No we Only worry about the losses to is that negative Side of the Ledger that we Are constantly faced with due to recent legislation. A great Many of us in the military have spent a great Deal of Lime developing our minds to be Good business managers. Some ofus have even spent an entire career trying to gel the air Force the most production out of its cheapest Cost. That alone should qualify us for something. I do not necessarily agree with using appropriated funds for something that private business could do. I still believe the services should Only be in business to defend world Freedom. On the other hand i Only Hope that our congressional staffers look upon us in uniform an regular people the same As themselves and treat us with a Little More respect and dignity we deserve it. Master sat. Terry m. Dill Woei utrecht As Netherlands wrong Apo blamed for mail delays in � recent front Page article several reasons were put Forth explaining the delays in receipt of mail in the european area. Most of this left the impression that the fault Lay with the mail carriers. May i suggest that incorrect Apo numbers May be to very Large reason for delay of mail. For some reason the department of the army continues to use Apo 09030 for various units and schools As signed in the european and Middle Eastern areas. This Only causes excessive delay plus unwarranted Cost in delivery of mail to military commanders and individuals assigned. This is especially True for those assigned in Germany. The Apo 09030 is located on a very Small Island in the Western Indian Ocean. We have three mail rights each week so mail arriving on sunday can not be re routed to Frankfurt before wednesday. We would suggest that unit commanders and members obtain the Correct Apo number for their unit from their postal facility. This is very probably a last resort plea As we have tried All other avenues to convince the depart ment of the army that Apo 09030 is no longer located in the european Middle Eastern areas. . Abbey station administrator Mahe Seychelles wimp was also a Bayonet fighter once again my name appears in the stars and stripes with your indulgence i would like to com ment on the letter written by the Bayonet i was born a wimp raised a wimp and was also a Bayonet Fisher 1956 to 1965 in the . Army upon realizing that Cluster bomb units and napalm were More effective than the Bayonet i left the army and entered the air Force. Vietnam proved my theory lobe Correct. So you see in is possible to be a wimp and a Bayonet fighter at the same time. Does the . 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