European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - June 26, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Arm Landers the stars and stripes Page 11 dear Ann Landers the idler Frum the sex addict i i me right Between the eyes. I be been one Tor 30 years and never knew it. Although i was never keen on prostitutes i went to topless bars and Massage Parlours and had extramarital affairs left and right. I m now 50 years old and 15 years into my third marriage. With 100 plus women in my past i have finally decided to Settle i Down. Of course i always took advantage oct very Opportunity that came my Way but in retrospect i d like to Point out hat i never had to hit any of those women Over the head. They All were most cooperative. It was always so easy Ann. Secretaries waitresses my minister s wife my doctor s wife wives of friends new sister in Law All were a part of my history. Some of them even recommended me to their friends. So while we sex addicts arc far from blameless please put some of the blame on the women we became involved with. I can spot an available female half a mile away and 1 have never been wrong. Most male sex addicts wind up with female sex addicts. I be made love in horse trailers at the Rodeo in a Hammock under a Hayloft in million Dollar mansions and Irabag hotel rooms with no hot water. 1 Don t recall Ever breaking up a marriage or making a woman pregnant. I was smart enough to take precautions against cd and it s fortunate that i did especially now thai aids is around. It was fun and i Don t regret a minute of it but to be totally honest Ann i m glad it s Over. A Man with a colourful past and a better future dear Man of confession is Good for the soul you must feel terrific swing this letter in print. Thanks for sharing your Story. All i can say is that you were shot full of Luck to Hare made it with More than 100 partners and be left with nothing More thin pleasant memories. Dear Ann Landers with summer upon us i am bracing myself for the influx of visiting relatives who arc already calling and writing to make reservations at their favorite free hotel. Aside from my children and grandchildren who arc always Welcome at my summer place what is an elderly widow to say to nieces nephews grand nieces and nephews third cousins and their in Laws who want to keep me company for a week or so and take me out for dinner one night As a gracious gesture of thanks i love All these people dearly but they have no idea of the Strain on my budget when they come for their vacation. To put it frankly my summer House guests make it necessary for me to skimp on necessities All year Long. Whoever said summertime and the Livin is easy never spent a summer Here. Sign me everywhere Usa on the summer circuit dear summer circuit you realize of course that your problem is shared by almost everyone who has a summer place. I m printing your plea but Don t be surprised if the same folks con Linne id show up. The guilty ones new think you mean them. The Only Way to solve this problem is to Tell he freeloaders when they write or Call to by they Are commit sorry i Ain t bundle to this year. If things Are different next summer i will let you  Tiloi Anyalai Timm synd Cna John ennui Lut Maxim tout  can win to Hai in Artol to Sun and St pit Apo 09211, . Forcada Check cashing policies Are explained i desperately need a copy of the publication cover ing Check cashing regulations for commissaries exchanges Shoppe Les Etc. I Don t know what form this publication is in a pm Pam Etc 1 did not receive my copy or updates when my husband enlisted in 1979. This is not a joke. I am pulling my hair out because i do not know How to fill out my checks. Let me Tell you what is happening to me. Vog Cloch commissary you must write the usual info on the from of the Check. Never you mind that there is not enough room to write rank. Social Security number dero5/ets dates organization phone number shirt size and the color of socks you Are wearing. Don t forget to have your Check stamped and approved at the service desk when you walk in the door. Ramstein commissary i stood fora Long Lime like an idiot at the service desk waiting for someone to stamp and approve my Check. This was my first Lime in Here that is done at the Cash  How stupid of me. Kapaun Shoppelle i foolishly wrote the usual info on the Ron of the Check As required every where else. The cashier stared at the Hack of the Check stamped the Back of the Check and asked me to write the usual info on the Back of the Check. Again i wrote my Check out wrong. This happens to me in the Stales Loo. The commissary or Shoppe ii expect you to have your Check pre approved and stamped before you get to the Cash Register. They also expect you to have the usual info written on the Check on the front and Back. See it depends on what Quarter the Moon is in or if Mere is an a in that month other commissaries Don t care where you put the information As Long As it is legible and Complete. 1 used to leave my checks Blank until Given proper instructions by the commissary Exchange whatever Bui then you hold everyone up either Al the service desk or Cash Register while you fill out ill of the usual  sometimes i can l remember All of he info and have 10 peer Down at my socks. In t that embarrassing please help me obtain the publication that lists individual instructions for each and every commis sary Exchange shop Petty Etc. Concerning the proper Way to fill out checks. I cannot Lake much More of this. Bonnie Kite vog Tweh West Germany editor s note we received three replies to this letter. The first is from it. Col. Charlie vol la. Public affairs Ameer he. Cafes Eun be the cafes Check cashing policy is Standard worldwide. Travellers checks and uj3. Treasury checks do not require any written information on the Cheek. All other pen pals checks require name and rank of the sponsor social Security number Telephone number military urn in nation including Brunch of service and duly adders. A uniform stamp is used at All Check Cashine approval Points. Any information reprinted on the face of he Cheek does not hate to be repealed on the Back. The local Ion of the Check approval Point can vary from facility to facility however the cafes world wide Check cashing policy As stated above is posted i each approval Pouilh. The second reply is min col. Neil h. Meoni com Mander . Army troop support age Icv Kuron ran commissary Region although your idler describes your experiences in air Force and cafes facilities to provides us with an Opportunity of explaining Check cashing policies in army commissaries which Are run by inc troop sup port Agency. A army commissaries abide by Check cashing procedures established in volume 6 of our commissar operating manual co which states that custom in must provide certain information on chech in order to Cash it. This includes the name rank and Branch of service at the sponsor or Check writer. If family member Check writers use their own social Security number but it is not shown on their id card they must provide some Type of identification to verify their social Security number. To Cash a Check you Mast also provide either a Home or work phone number. If neither is available or you do not wish to disclose hem. Yon must provide he phone number of someone who has agreed to take messages for Yon. All of the above information May be reprinted or written on the Cheek. If the information Doe not appear on the front of the Check in should be written on the Back. The commissary can provide a stamp for you that provides Blanks for the necessary information. Check Ore approved Al the Register in commissar ii s thai have scanning Cash registers that is the Type that reads bar codes on merchandise. You should How Ever use the stamp at the id checker s desk to fill in the "payable1 la Section of Var Check. In commissaries that do not have scanning Cash registers checks must be approved Al the id desk. We Welcome your checks in army commissaries and Hope this information will be helpful in you when Yuu do so. The third reply is from col. William f. Muli la jr., director accounting Ami finance lit us afr k individuals my have All the necessary information required to Cash a Check in the commissaries Exchange and shop Eltes much a name of sponsor rank name of spouse sponsor s social Security num Ber duty phone organization personal mailing address and duly phone reprinted on the checks Al no extra cast i would Ilka to hts pan Pala in ova a Wold. My Nohl Ara dining Linging ind going to Sandra Martin 11 a creation a Jana edit a . 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