European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - October 15, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers my husband is loaded with stress. He yells constantly Over the smallest things i am worried about him. 1 have an i year old son from a previous marriage. When Jimmy has a Friend sleep Over or just come in to play 1 must serve As a Buffer Between my husband and the yesterday Jimmy was playing outside with friends. My husband f kept screaming out the window for the kids to get off the Lawn and pipe he became so angry he turned beet red and looked As if he was ready to explode. It s not just the boy who upset him. If someone runs through our Yard or cuts him off in traffic or if a neighbor has a party that get slightly noisy. Or if some thing is not put away in the proper place or if he wants to Wear a pair of pants and they Aren t pressed he goes nuts. Basically my husband is a Good kind person but his volatile reactions to unimportant things Are distressing to All of us. My Young son is afraid of his Stepfather and tries to stay out of his Way. It s pathetic my husband and i have talked about this Many times and he says i m just High Strung and i can t help it what can be done to alleviate this situation should t he be in treatment please reply soon. I m afraid this Man is going to have a stroke and i am heading for the nuthouse. Greensboro . Dear Greensboro the nun needs help. And soon. I recommend family counselling. Your son needs to be part of the treatment and so do a. Hope far the Sake of the entire family thai your husband agrees la this. He needs to learn How to live with himself As Well m others before his lire becomes totally unmanageable. Good Luck. Dear Ann Landers will you please explain Eye language Between a Man and a woman what docs it mean when a Man looks at a woman with half closed eyes i know it Means something but i Don t know what. Can you give me a clue Young and dumb in Louisville Deary and half closed eyes could mean several things. Here Are some possibilities a he s tired. B he s bored. C he s myopic. D he s drunk. Dear Ann Landers my daughter is pregnant. She and her husband Are crazy about cats and they have three. I have heard that cats should not be around an in Fant because they smell milk on the baby s lips jump into the crib and smother the Little one to death. My daughter says this is an old wives talc and that i am worrying needlessly. Am i . that old yarn has been around forever and there s no truth to it cats pose no greater threat to infants than dogs. The most serious danger thai cats present is that of allergies and when that occurs the cats must go. Reader wants Sauna that smells Good i was checking out a gym the other Day to Sec what it had to offer. My first Stop was at the equipment Check out desk where i asked the atle Dent what was in the gym. T was told about the various facilities which intruded a Sauna. After a Short Lour of the gym i walked into the men s locker room where a Sauna is i did t have any trouble finding the Sauna because As i entered the locker room someone came out of the Sauna. Whew what a smell the smell from the Sauna was so bad that a few people made some joking comments. I laughed and attempted to explain that a Sauna usually does not smell like that. In fact a Sauna usually smells Good. I noticed that my explanation was not believed in fact they looked at me As if i had just arrived from outer space. A Sauna is supposed to smell Good. All of the Ger Man saunas that i have been in have smelled Good. Why then do our saunas smell Sootoo bad Well it is no big secret it has to do with sweat. Now anyone who has been downtown or has used the German mass transit system will Tell you that germans sweat and smell too. Why then do their saunas smell Good ok., Here it comes it is All in the Wood yep. In the Wood that saunas Are made of. The very same Wood that you sit on and sweat on is whal makes our Sau Nas smell so bad. In German saunas you won t a a a scat without a Long Towel to sit on and to put under your feet. With the Towel under your feet and scat All the sweat lands on the Towel and not on the Wood. The Wood stays dry and continues to smell Tike Wood. In our saunas All the sweat goes on the Wood. After a Short time the Wood is permanently stained the pores of the Wood get tilled with sweat and the Sau Nas get filled with that smell. So that is Why our Sau Nas smell 1 Ike that. A solution sure there is a solution rip out All the sweat soaked Wood replace it and make sure everyone uses a Long Sauna Towel under their feet and seat. Other than that forget it Tony Cross Haryu West Germany Quayle record underrated Reader feels i have just minutes ago viewed the vice presidential candidates debate and i must say that i am very shocked at How much emphasis wus put on senator Dan Quayle s experience of life Over How much political experience this Young politician has had. It makes one think that the press and the democratic candidates believe that achieving status quickly on worthy Merit and ambition is no substitute for a slow careful Pace. Is the press totally ignoring the fact that a major role of the vice president today is to combat our outrageous drug problem Young yes Young. Senator Quayle has lived in the generation of heavy drug use and experimentation. What experiences would senator Benison be Able to draw upon when addressing the youth of America on the dangers of drug use drinking during prohibition not quite the same folks. Fed up with complainers no wives dub for dependent male spouse Waal no an to reception in our area Waal no one Speaks my language Waal the commissary does t have my Brand of anything Waal it s too cold Here Waal it s too Rainy Here " Waal Why cant 1 Send this Back to the slates Waal this would t have happened in the states Waal Waal Waal Waal Waal gel the picture yet or do you still need More Waal a Why does t everyone Start living life As a human being instead of a greedy animal. You weren t put on this Earth log shopping or watch to. Be thankful you have the Opportunity to enjoy life with what you have others in in world Are not so Lucky. When the Lime comes for your life to end what arc you Foial to take with you All the things you complained about do having or memories of living Pur life to its Fulkan and leaving your fellow Man with fond memories of you Wake up Earth and Stop crying about what you Don t have and be thankful for what you do have because some Day you la Only have yourself. Ron Wheeler Augsburg West Germany the after debate commentary placed a major emphasis on the slam senator Benison delivered to sen Ator Quayle on his not being worthy of comparison to president John f. Kennedy. This was a totally asinine statement on the part of senator Benison senator Quayle never claimed to be the new and improved Juk he was Only answering the Overly hammered question of his qualifications to be vice president with the statement that he now has More political experience then the Democrat Kennedy had when he ran Tor the office of resident. For far Loo Long now the democrats have Ridden on the Coal Lails of Juk. Have they nothing new to give us As the song goes whal have you done for me lately spec. Joseph p. Derube Augsburg West Germany True Unsung heroes the True Unsung heroes of certain Challenge which were completely ignored by the stars and stripes and an arc those units that met the missions and obligations of units participating in reformer 88. A unit close to my heart had just returned from two weeks of training at graft Wohr and went to cover the Lith ack Border commitment while v corps units were off on reformer. This unit will be Home a week and will go out to serve its turn on its own commitment to the Border in its own sector. For 90 Days this unit has been involved in training and missions without direct involvement in the glory of reformer 1 am sure that there arc a great Many units who share similar circumstances i think these soldiers and their families should be recognized for their sacrifices just As much As re Fokker troops. 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