European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - December 7, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars Ano stripes Page 11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i have always applauded your advice to readers who want to get Oik of miserable relationships but t could never do in myself. Invariably i reverted to the same old pattern and chose the same trap i had escaped from. I am a co dependent which Means 1 am addicted to people f with addictions. The addiction v can be alcohol drugs sex Gamb a Ling compulsive talking spend f ing Money or any other kind of compulsive behaviour. All these people seem perfectly Normal when you meet them but soon you learn that they Are hooked on something. If you re Wise you run in the opposite direction. It was always easier for me to focus on friends who had problems than to face my Awn. 1 never bad the slightest idea Why i continued to hang Oul with these crippled chickens. I now know that i needed someone to blame Tor All the things in my life that went wrong. When 1 was finally Able to admit to a close Friend that my life was a mess and my level of self esteem wot Zero she did me the biggest favor of my life. She introduced me to two groups Hal have helped me regain my self respect co dependents Anonymous and emotions Anonymous. Both Are based on the 12-Slep principles of alcoholics Anonymous and have shown me that there is a better Way to live. Nine months after joining and attending two meet Ings a week i feel an incredible sense of Freedom and for the first L.M. a sense of personal Worth. 1 want everyone Oul there to know that they no longer have to be doormats martyrs or people peas ers. Nor do they have to pump up their egos by hang ing Oul with folks who Are inadequate confused and needy. If you see yourself in this letter do yourself a favor and write to emotions Anonymous . Box 424s, is Paul Minn 5s104, and co dependents Anonymous . Box 33577, Phoenix Ariz. 85067 3577. L.m., Corpus Chris Texas dear us thank Yon so much for your very enlightening letter which 1 am sure will be of Groat help id Many. Dear Ann Landers. Last sunday at a Church social several of us were discussing an acquaintance who had just had a 10 Pound baby boy a woman in he group whom i did not know turned to me and asked and when is your Happy event going to Lake place i said excuse me she replied when is your baby due i told her i was not pregnant. She was embarrassed and my Day was ruined Ann i should Tell you that ibis has happened before. I am about 20 pounds overweight and it is All in front. 1 am 37 years old and not married. Am 1 thin skinned should i be Able to laugh in of comment please nyc darn pc. ,.-" your salvation could be a f Ryle wisc human in the dress department of your favorite store. You need id to clothes thl conceal your stomach. Such outfits Are available. Find hem. 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