European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - December 7, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Most Young american women Are in the work Force and either have cd Wert or plan to juggling c and Moth by Sara Rimer new York times a armed by inc experiences Oltha generation that paved the Way Many Young american women on the Brink of their professional lives see meticulous planning As the Only Way to Daal with the inevitable conflict Between careers and motherhood. Educators and other a perts say these women ate probably me first in american history to approach go strategically Whoso details of i hair personal lives Hal can be most difficult to predict and schedule like tha precise. Ages when they will marry and have children i see tha women i m working Lor  losing their minds trying to juggle of Grything arranging baby Sillers cooking dinner said Nadia Montz a 24-year-old research associate and writer in Washington who is single. I m wondering How i m going to juggle  Amy niger 25. Recon Fly completed her master s degree in International affairs at american University and Hopes to Leach political i Henry also single she grew up mindful of the example of her Mother who gave up a College scholarship in anthropology to be a Wile and  i think Aboul Tho biological clock said niger you Don t Hava forever. 1 want to have children in my 30s." by now most Young married women Are in the work Force and either have children or plan to. / last year iwo Mirds of married woman 20 to 34 wore working according to Tho . Department of labor and a census Bureau Survey indicated that almost nine. Tenths of All working woman in that ago bracket expected to become pregnant. For Many Young women the question of when has assumed Paramount importance. Ellen a Fuller president of Barnard College in new York a lawyer and the 39-year-ofd Mother of to children represents an emerging role Model admired by Young women for her Success in combining family and career. They ask me How old were you when you were married How old worn you when you had your kids Oneri is the Best time to have children when you re on the Rise or biter you be made it " Fluiter said. They re doing More thinking and planning. When my generation started pursuing professional life we just did it. As a group we somehow thought it would All work Oul. But the generation now in its 20s can see that the issues and commitments arc quite real. The biological time. Clock does lick.". At some schools planning for a family has become a subject of study. Each Spring inn Stanford University timing is important for easy toilet training of child by Marianne and Stephen Garber and Robyn Freedman Spizman Cox news service header s let a my child is 21 months old and has known an interest in using the potty. Once she Mado Lee too in the potty of a Cousin s House. We applauded hot Success but now the problem is tha r she constant says tee tee potty then completely. Undresses and makes a game of running around the House without clothes  also tries this ploy Al bedtime Nap Lime or. Whenever she does want to do something. We want to encourage potty training but this is driving us crazy. Hoof can we get Hei Back on track and avoid making the Pally a horse ring circus help. A tired Mother and father dear tired mom and dad toilet training is a Lopic lha frustrates Many parents. When should you begin?.what should you do the questions Are Many. Some children develop control More naturally than Page 14 the stars and stripes others but most need on the Job training while your daughter has turned potty training into a Parade it s a positive sign that she delights in her routine run to the Polty ii she is successful some of the Lime then it s a clue thai she is approaching readiness toilet training is a Complex skill thai requires Effort. From the Young child and consistency on your part seizing the Opportunity when you and your child Are actually ready will make it easier on both it you. Most children Are ready to be rained for daytime control. Between the Ages of 2 and 3, though a Lew May be ready earlier. The Best place to begin is. As you have by listening to your child and watching her behaviour. Training is most successful when it follows the development of some very Basic Behaviours. Frequently we will hear of children whose parents Alles to the fact that the child had bladder control by age 1. Most olten in those  s the Parent who has been framed to catch the child s signals to use the Polty. Independent use of the toilet is possible when a child wednesday p