European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - March 1, 1989, Darmstadt, Hesse                                The stars and stripes Page 11 dear Ann Linden As tar Buck As 1 can remember 1 have had a problem with sexual feelings toward Lille girls. For 40 years i managed to keep it under control through willpower and prayer but last year after some extremely traumatic and stress producing experiences i discovered that i was powerless when this urge came Tipon Roe. To make a Long and painful Story Short 1 Wai round guilt of three counts of lewd and lascivious be Havior in the presence of a child. Life As 1 had known it was Over forever. ". " the Day i was released on Bond i signed up for professional counselling after three month of intensive therapy i realized that the beast Wai still inside me. Terrified of what i might do next i sought medical help. For three months i have been receiving weekly injections of the hormone progesterone. When administered to males it decreases the sex drive to manageable Levels. Although it is basically a female hormone in docs not give men any effeminate characteristics. The change in me since i have been taking these shots is remarkable. For the first time in years i am in control not Only of my actions but of my thoughts As Well i am not impotent i am just in control. Ii is not a feeling of i want to but i can but rather i could if i wanted to but i Don t really need to do  paedophilia is a mental illness. Fortunately there is now an effective medical treatment. I Hope your read ers who realize that they have this problem and truly want to conquer it will Check into this therapy. Co knows. I wish i had known about it before i ruined my lift.  peaceful now Dew Friend. I m glad you Are peaceful  belter inter than never. Millions of adults who were molested. During childhood an emotionally crippled and living tortured lives because their molesters like yourself were ashamed to Tell anyone and own l seek help. When i received your letter i contacted or. John Matney who is one of the most knowledgeable and respected not to in the Flold. Or. Money is professor of medical psychology and paediatrics emeritus at Johns 1  Baltimore v he Ltd your correspondent is absolutely  / most commonly used hormone is depo Provera which is a weak cousin1 of the male sex hormone. It can work miracles on paedophiles and other individuals who Are inclined to behave in sexually aberrant ways. The nor. Mone reduces the sen drive to the level it was before puberty the individual is then Able to reorganize his sex  or. Money said a combination of hormonal treatment and counselling should be used. He urged me o emphasize that to nose who have this problem should seek help before they damage Young lives and the police come knocking at the door. A specialist in this Field is called a medical sexologist Bill any physician can give the treat ment if he or she has the proper guidelines any physician who would like the guidelines will find them on pages 131-137 of Gay straight and in Between written by John Money and published in new York by Oxford University press. Dear Ann Landers every now and then you print a Golden Oldie. Here s my favorite by will Rogers War is a game where everybody loses. I Doh l know Why they keep playing  is from Alexandria la i think he is trying to put us Down. Sorry but i am the one with the Job and i went through All of the trouble and hassles to get one. I am Only a five Point Veteran and i am sure that when i was trying to get into Federal service i was not selected More than once because a 10-Point Veteran pot and probably deserved the Job. Tough but that is the writer should not put the retired cos in the same boat As riffed captains we succeeded and the failed. Tough once again of the writer really wants a Federal Job he should go Back to the United states get on an pm Register for his Field subscribe to the Magazine Federal re search and Hope he can find somebody who will hire a candidate without competitive civil service status. And while be Watts it can take years to gel hired he should find another Job to pay the Bills. Nobody s retired pay is enough but he should have planned for that years ago. Nobody Ernes in retired officer or no anything. You have to make in on your own and it sounds As if lie is having a prob Lem. By the Way getting the five Point preference prob ably will not help much either As there Are qualified non veterans getting hired All the time. John r. Or incl ". Geisel org West Germany speaking for some of the wives of the cos out Here having to survive on meager paychecks while our husbands devote 20 years plus to our country and he american Way of life we would like to say. I you arc having a hard time it s about Lime. I m sure that when you were Active duly you did t want to be More like an no. Further since Congress gives retired cos and their spouses a Little preference it s about time they get something right and it s Well deserved. Sandra Dorney Hucin main a West Germany a Salute to cos the army s Backbone this is the year of the no the year of the non commissioned officer the year of he Backbone of the army the soldiers who take the Ball and run with in the soldiers who have been doing so much for so Long with so Little that they can do almost anything with nothing. These arc the dedicated men and women who give that i percent More that makes the difference. The leaders who Don t watch the clock to Sec when it s quilting Lime. The leaders who take the Lime to counsel their soldiers on their duly performance and when the have a personal problem. The Leader who stands up for what s morally and ethically right and is not a yes Man or woman a puppet on a string. A no is a Leader who stands by his soldiers when they Are being rewarded and is also standing there when their soldiers arc being punished a Leader who trains his her soldiers to the Best of their ability both mentally and physically and looks out for their Well being. A Leader who takes the new platoon leaders an wins them and leaches them everything to ensure that they know their profession a Leader who has Felt the heat of Battle and can proudly share experiences so that soldiers understand How important it is to train As if you were going to combat tomorrow. These Are soldiers who dedicate their entire life to the defense of. Our nation and give everything they have to duty Honor country. To these non commissioned officers and their families who support them 200 percent 1 Salute you. To my wife Kathy and daughters april and Shannon 1thank you. Lastly to you sergeants you need to look at the non commissioned officers around you and get with the program or return to civilian life and a Job. Leave inc profession of defend ing the United states to the proud professional the  sgt. 1 St class Gary l. Warren bad Tali West Germany turn signals Are mandatory in Germany recently at a Cerman Antrican club function i. Participated in a Friendly but Frank discussion about German driving habits we had trouble understanding As Well As american driving styles which confused Ger mans. The criticism was Well taken by both sides. What surprised me in the discussion however was the almost unanimous German complaint that Ameri cans fail to give right Lum signals. Further discussion clarified that our German friends were not talking about Lane change signals on the autobahn but rather right turn signals in City driving and on secondary roads. It is my understanding that turn signalling both right and left is mandatory under usage Jar Regula Tion rather than discretionary for right turn signalling As is the Case in Many or . If right turn signals Are required of Usa eur la Censed Drivers Why in  attention Given to this requirement in the Usa eur Driver training and testing programs name and location withheld editor s note Robert  policy advis or he Usa eur replies Yon Are Correct that turn signals Are mandatory. Even though we drive Ullh Usa eur Drivers licenses we Are governed by in German traffic Laws a Ltd additional requirements placed on us by Usa eur regulations. Since the German raffle Law requires turn signals for All turns we must signal for both left and right urns u Well m when changing lanes. 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