European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - April 25, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 14.the stars and stripes. Thursday april 25, 1991 Ann Landers today a crossword dear Ann Landers every time 1 saw a bag lady on the Street i used to wonder Why she did no to seek help. Now i know. 1 am a landlord. One of my tenants is a mentally incompetent woman who was supported by her Foster Mother for the last five years. Her Foster Mother died recently and the woman is now pen niness. My Only recourse is eviction a to simply put her out on the Street. I called every Agency in the phone Book and they All said a we have no budget for such cases a. / a. A. A a a. A Quot a the mental health people Tell me they cannot become involved unless the person is suicidal or murderous. An Ordinary everyday person who is mentally incompetent does no to qualify for assistance. I ask you Ann where can this woman get help i feel Rotten about this but in be done my darn est. . In Brookfield ill. A dear . A a a a. A we made several phone Calls and had better Luck than you did. Or. Ron Davidson director of Public policy at the mental health association in Illinois As Well As Gina White at the National mental health association said if the woman is not behaving in an unusual manner but is simply broke and unable to care for herself help May be available. Many people done to realize that there Are Federal and state a safety net programs which May entitle this woman to disability income and health care enabling her to live independently. If this woman is a danger to herself or others the police should be called. She will then be taken for psychiatric dear Abby dear Abby with the recent hike in postage rates to 29 cents plus the Cost of the thank you notes themselves a to say nothing of the time involved to write and address them a sending them costs newlyweds a Small Fortune. Is there no other acceptable Way for newlyweds to acknowledge their wedding gifts. Think newlyweds should Send thank you notes to out of towners who sent wedding gifts but could not attend the wedding but far too much emphasis is put on the written thank you note in most cases Young couples arc struggling to sup port themselves set up housekeeping pay rent and utilities and Many a such As ourselves a Are still in College. A a a a. A a a v May i suggest the following options to the written thank you note l a personal Telephone Call to say thank you for the wedding gift. Having a Chance to visit for a few minutes on the Telephone would suit me just Fine. 2, a warm hug and sincere thanks at the next family evaluation to a Hospital or mental health clinic. Your local mental health association can direct you to the right agencies As Well As outreach counselling programs and support groups Call the National mental health associations toll free number 1-800-969-Nmha. Good Luck this time and bless you for trying. Dear Ann Landers. A. 1 have a very Strong Hunch that my daughter in Law the Mother of my two teen age grandchildren is having an affair. My son works two jobs and is not at Home evenings monday through Friday. His wife does not work outside the House and has a great Deal of Freedom and plenty of time on her hands. Ever since my husband passed away two years ago in be spent my evenings at their place so i know More about what goes on there than my son does. Almost every night my daughter in Law gets a phone Call from a Man whose voice i recognize As that of a family Friend. He is also married and has children. The Calls go on anywhere from 20 minutes to one hour. She always uses the phone in their bedroom and Speaks in a Low voice. Ann its very difficult for me to have this knowledge and not say something about it. I done to know whether to confront my daughter in Law or inform my son. Or should 1 just butt out perplexed in new Jersey dear new Jersey ,. V. ,. 1 am a Strong proponent of the mob school of behaviour. If you mention this to your daughter in Law she will probably deny it and you May no longer be Welcome in her Home. If you Tell your son the result would probably be the same. I have always believed that when there is cheating in a marriage the cheated on person has a clue. Its Best to let that person handle it. C creators Syndicate a. Church or social gathering would mean much More to me than an expensive written thank you note. Thanks for listening. / Salt Lake City dear Salt Lake City sorry but a a warm huge and sincere thanks at a Chance meeting at the next family social or Church gathering is not a fitting substitute for a written thank you note. Dear Abby when my son was an intern at a Georgia Hospital he was offered $25 for a vial of sperm. He said a no Way i done to want a flock of children running around the state of Georgia. 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