European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 05, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                A and in a very comfortable with ii i. S&s1 to Nufo Doldson Check works for dodds1 in Germany and says thercy is feeling secure in yourself. Than you do in the stares Quot he said. A living m the dorms you have to do More things to occupy yourself or you la become a a dorm rate just suly t ing in the dorms and never leaving the e Bas Eyoul have to try to do touts go to the movies or to  1________, a Cuyno adds he s found when going out that British women a Marc ust Lally quite Surpi Isid when an american g1 comes up to them and starts to 1 make conversation with them. They feel we arc More outgoing than British males.�?�. Continued from Page 5 n.y., native. A it s Nice being unattached a lie admitted that he gets lonely at times but he Doc Salt let that Hamp this . To tie Ciupy a himself he visits clubs plays sports and goes sightseeing. Assi Nedlo Hie 17th recon Wing at Raf Alconbury Layne Las Beeman England one Ditri jives in the dormitories on base band finds the sin Glt life overseas quite different from in the Stales _ a you have to be More outgoing in England year marriage  a r a a a a Forsythe an administrator  department a of defense dependents schools elementary. A a Sehovi Jan Mainz moved to Germany following her divorce and concentrated on her career. A i knew that i needed to have some Structure in my life a she said. During her marriage her teaching career played second fiddle to her duties Asa wife. In Germany she busied herself with her new lifestyle and Job with Dodds. A i just got very involved with trying to be positive in what i was All about a said Forsythe who lives in Wiesbaden. J a a docs she miss married life a no not at All a she said. A i have choices to make. In Mable to a Pur pc what 1 want to pursue and when i want to i m pretty much an Independent  Quot she attends classical and jazz concerts visits antique shops and meets with friends. Quot if i was to give advice to someone who was single and wanted to meet people id say a do _ what you  i done to see How one can go Quot wrong a she said. A when you do things you arc keenly interested in you meet people you will automatically  quo but when she finds herself with time on her hands and no on around she has a philosophy about How she spends that time. A a a a in a spending it alone and in Good company a she said. I m Able to pursue what i want to pursue and when i want Toa i m on my  that show Janice Fosythe describes her life 13.years after the end of Alq a it s More Good than bad. I have no regrets j Peter Grenierr a father died a few months ago leaving his Mother alone for the first time in Many years a 1 a i try to express to her the Way i be coped with being alone a said Grenier the principal of the Dodds elementary school in Schwabish Hall Germany. Grenier 34%_has been alone since his divorce six years ago. Its More Good than bad a he said of single life. A i was married for four years and it was a bad experience. Divorce is no fun but once i got my head on straight i have no problem entertaining  a you can plan your social Calendar without worrying about another person. I like it. I have no  Grenier admitted that it took More than a year to adjust to single life. At the same time  divorce however he moved from the classroom to the administrative Side of education a that a took my mind off the pain Quot he said. He still takes work Home usually enough for two hours or so a night a when i was married the work All stayed at school because i had my wife and daughter a he said. J _ still he explained he a not a Workaholic. His free time even if he spends it alone a is important to him. A a Quot a maybe its just being a Little bit selfish a he said. I think single people arc More selfish than married people. You re used to calling your own  Grenier who has a worked for 12 years with a ,. A is Nourai Case witl1 his single life. His bicycle is an expression of his Freedom. It often takes him away from the Solitude of his House for a Day. A a a i can Kilt a saturday on my Bike a he said. Maybe that a one of the things a lot of single people Don j do. I always make time for  his advice for a single person overseas is Sim Quot a enjoy h. Thai s All you can do Quot he said. A if somebody comes into your life great. I not Sunda May 5,1991